| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 7/6/2006 4:11:13 PM | No dogs either Rascal, Mojo would get upset LOL
I have so many food allergies that dealing with a man's preferences in menu would not bother me - if you care for someone, it is a small thing to do imho | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/5/2007 12:04:50 PM | I would be more attracted to a veg*n because it would show me that this person is able to think on a different plane than most seem capable of, and would hopefully indicate that he functions on a higher ethical level, as well. Of course, the fact that we could eat the same foods would also be nice...  | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/5/2007 2:14:51 PM | Hey O/P,
Being a vegetarian myself I must say obviously it wouldn't bother me dating a vegetarian/vegan, but honestly it shouldn't bother any one. People make choices in life, whether it be what they eat, whether or not they drink or smoke, etc. It is a life choice for whatever the reason! Your interest in a person should be about the person...
Cheers all, Sue  | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/5/2007 2:31:56 PM | I am a vegetarian myself so I would actually welcome a vegetarian date! We could share from each others plates...wouldn't have to explain my eating habits.... that yes--> fish are considered meat....no, I don't miss meat....no, I don't want even just a little bite....no mantras--pleasedon'tordervealpleasedon'torderveal.....no explaning why I made this choice...yada yada yada.........not that I judge carnivores...I know of many....I am just thinking it would be NICE to date someone who eats like me.... --> I have never done that...... | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/6/2007 2:52:22 AM | Interesting. Three pages and two years later and nobody's really distinguished between vegetarians and vegans or the reasons for becoming either one.
If a person becamea vegetarian for health reasons, then sure, I would date them, as long as (as many people have mentioned), they didn't try to convert me. I like my meat. And there also has to be some give and take. Want me to cook a vegetarian meal for you? Are you prepared to bbq a steak for me?
If it's a moral, ethics, animal treatment / exploitation sort of reason, then no, probably not. That's more likely for us to have socio-political differences that are unresolveable.
True vegans are vegetarians to the extreme and will not consume or USE anything derived from animals. No milk, eggs, leather, silk, wool etc. It's as much or more of a moral issue than a health one. So dating a vegan? Ain't gonna happen. And I know all the vegans out there are absolutely heart-broken right now  | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/6/2007 6:20:46 AM | Ladies if you met this nice guy and you hit it off and you asked up to your place to eat for a nice turkey dinner or something with meat in the menu and he mention he's a Vegan vegetarian. Would you still see him and make him something that he could eat? Or would you dump him?
I couldn't see a vegan being interested in me... I live a carnivore's diet, and no bones about it (full pun intended.) I just do not see that working at all... I can't imagine being looked at as if I'm evil for having cheese sauce on my veggies, cream in my coffee, deep fried curried grasshoppers for a snack. And then all the work to make meals work out between us. Having to get creative with tofu and beans so I didn't get bored with my diet. Eek. Nope couldn't see it happening.
I once had a friend who preached on the evils of eating meat, how animals scream and feel pain, so I let her hear the sounds trees make when they are faced with a forest fire - they scream... before they are even heated up by the fire. I had so much fun with that.
I'm off now to eat my bacon, eggs, toast and butter, portions of cheese, milk and coffee with mucho cream breakfast... | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/6/2007 7:56:09 AM | | well, considering most people i know are vegetarian, non-dairy, etc...wouldn't bother me. that's the least of my concerns when meeting anyone. in fact, it tells me oftne that they have princples and have thought about what they're eating, etc. i like that cause i have my own principles and thoughts when it comes to food, etc. we could have a really good discussion about it over a stir-fry or something :) i might be a meat eater but i still have a lot of values associated with that and my own code of ethics. | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/6/2007 9:14:14 AM | OMG YES!! I would be soo thrilled to meet a vegan/vegetarian that I was also interested in dating!!! However I would never limit myself to that as I would never go on a date!!! I only know one male veg personally and he's married. | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/6/2007 9:54:57 AM | I'd quickly call my Vegan sister for one of her awesome recipes
I don't know about it lasting in the long run though. It would be hard unless that person was as accepting of the fact that I like to eat meat. I find many people tend to get a little preachy when talking about their choices, whether it be eating, smoking/non-smoking, drinking, abstaining etc. As long as that didn't enter into it things would be fine. I just wouldn't date someone who is making gagging noises and giving me disgusted looks when I'm chowing down on my nice medium-rare steak.  | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/6/2007 10:44:30 AM | Due to health issues I am not only Lactose but "Catene" intolerant. This is a chemical used in most dairy processes, including Soy beverages. So not many substitutes available to me either.
I LOVE red meat, but stay away from potatoes as much as possible... don't ya know, that stuff gets in yer mouth?!!!!! I wouldn't kick a good man outta bed for eating celery, and would think he wouldn't kick me out for eating ribs.
My question is this, if lactose intolerant people swallow, and they do...lol...why wouldn't Vegans?  | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/6/2007 11:13:55 AM | Being mostly vegetarian and having had vegan periods I would certainly have no problem dating a vegetarian! (but I'm taken, moot point).
What I do find is that not all people are tolerant or considerate of my food choices. My softball team, for example, consistently ordered pizza and wings at the after-game get-togethers and no one seemed capable of remembering that I prefer not to eat those grease laden dead animals.
Good luck staying the course!  | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/6/2007 11:56:23 AM | Being vegetarian myself (since 1993), sliding to veganism, I certainly wouldn't have any trouble, its an added bonus for me. I chose to be vegetarian because of my love and respect for animals and health issues that plague humans due to the consumption of meat. Vegan/vegetarian men? BRING THEM ON!!!!! | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/6/2007 1:11:42 PM |
Well, all I can say is that some of the literature on the subject actually specifies "non-human" animals So I guess cannibalism is ok  
VVVVV Nope, Vegans will not use anything where animals are exploited either. Like milk, cheese, eggs, wool etc. | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/6/2007 1:26:44 PM | or if the meat is alive, it's okay to swallow it kinda like when you milk a cow... the cow doesn't have to die for it, so it's okay to milk a guy, too | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/20/2007 9:12:09 AM | | absolutely, healthy is in, and would a Vegan, Vegetarian be upset if the companion decides to have a steak??? hmmmm NEVER dump a good companion, eating alone sucks | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/20/2007 9:14:59 AM | | oh those #$%%^deposits... you are right, since I switched to more vegetables... there has been a noticeable improvement in less swelling and more mobility | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/20/2007 12:08:39 PM | Slightly off topic.. Ladies, you if are vegan, does that exclude oral sex?? Counsellor troi >>
or if the meat is alive, it's okay to swallow it kinda like when you milk a cow... the cow doesn't have to die for it, so it's okay to milk a guy, too
considering the french word for orgasm is "la petite mort" - the little death, is it still ok? | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/20/2007 2:25:04 PM | | to twotrue I have 2 nephews that are 16 and 14 and both are vegan, When we have family get togethers we always make something for them. I do not eat red meat but i eat healthy | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/20/2007 7:31:53 PM | I know many people who are vegetarians and who are vegans. I even know people who will only eat an organic vegan diet. I'm totally cool with it. Even as a carnivore I enjoy eating vegetarian from time to time. Just last night I made a rippin pot of vegetarian chilli because I felt like it. I'm also considerate and I try to be sensitive to any issues my veggie friends might have with meat that i'm eating.
I have no problem dating a vegan or a vegetarian because it's so easy for me to cook vegetarian food. Right beside the burgers, on a separate part of the grill, I've been known to throw on a few portabello mushrooms and use those as the "burger" when I have vegetarian friends over.
My thing is what a lot of people say...i'm fine with it so long as I don't get a "meat is murder!" speech every time I chow down on a good steak.
My question for you vegetarians/vegans is would you date a meat eater...even a "considerate carnivore" like me? | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 3/20/2007 7:57:18 PM | tttbugs there is veggie hot dogs and veggie burgers that can be BBQ'ed, and they taste almost the same as meat.
Harvey's makes a good veggie burger. And St Yves veggie dogs loaded with the usual street meat fixin's, who can tell the difference? Not me!
I was a vegetarian for 4 months once (still ate dairy) to switch to a healthier lifestyle and it is tough at times, especially when you are a guest in someone else's home. I spent a week in France during this time with my girlfriend's family and they just couldn't grasp the concept. Luckily I was not opposed to eating meat cause apparently , in France, "it's only ham" means it's not really meat!! LOL
In terms of dating someone and preparing special meals, no problem! I can eat my meat at lunch (which is usually only itty bitty bits in my soup), better to cook light at night anyways! | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 1/24/2008 10:48:50 AM | | It always gets me when people say "eat MY meat" or "Can't give up MY meat". I find myself having to say "what do mean YOUR meat...don't you mean the poor dead animals meat?" | |
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| Ladies would you date a Vegan, Vegetarian? Posted: 1/24/2008 2:05:09 PM |
"what do mean YOUR meat...don't you mean the poor dead animals meat?"
Nope. MINE by virtue of inheritance after the animal's passing. And I make no distinction as to the animal's fiscal wealth. Don't care whether it was rich or poor. | |
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