| | Why do guys take your number and never call?Page 9 of 10 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10) | Also to Ideallady.
In response to men giving the girl their number. What is the problem with that? Oh, men are trying to take some power away from women using a trick women have used forever.
I would do it just to be different. Not everything is some sneaky manupulation. Just saying that you sound like a "Rules" girl. | |
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| Why do guys take your number and never call?
Posted: 7/24/2007 5:33:25 PM | | I've had a couple guys contact me on here, exchange a few emails and ask for my number and then never call. That makes no sense to me... but then again neither do the men that just want to be email buddies with you and never meet. Personally, I have no time for that nonsense. | |
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| Why do guys take your number and never call?
Posted: 7/25/2007 2:55:05 AM | You mean we can actually get away with saying, "It was nice meeting you, but I'm not interested"? Wow. I'll have to rethink this whole thing. Go figure. | |
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| Why do guys take your number and never call?
Posted: 7/25/2007 3:47:59 AM | He's just not that into you.....
if hes interested he will call. Hes not, and hes too scared to say so so asks for your number as an 'out'
Often if a guy is keen, he will not just say he will call but will actually plan specifics like lets do a movie - does thursday work for you, etc, ie he will try and get it all settled before he lets you leave.
if he doesnt call theres nothing you can do except realise hes not keen and move on.... | |
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| Why do guys take your number and never call?
Posted: 7/25/2007 3:52:37 AM | WTF?
I think Id be having 2nd thoughts after the 'some other girl is messaging me but shes a friend and shes weird' - why is he telling you that??? TMI for someone you havent even met yet... | |
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| Why do guys take your number and never call?
Posted: 7/25/2007 6:22:19 AM | Because she wrote the number down while you're both really drunk and you put it in your wallet. 6 months later you clean out your wallet and say "damn, I'm such an ass for not calling her".
Yes, I actually did something like this. Except I'd laid her number on my desk and it ended up in a drawer while I was waiting something like 3 weeks to call til after her LSAT studying was over and didn't see the number again for 6 months. I felt like a huge jerk, and even worse since I was actually interested. | |
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sheis
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| Why do guys take your number and never call?
Posted: 7/25/2007 6:54:41 AM | Hey, i agree with you 100% when you said that man are chicken shit to tell the women that they are not interested, instead they just ask or take your number for an easy way out...
"Guy's" you really got to stop doing these awlfull things to womens, the word spreads out you no!, women talks about these awfull things that man did to them so it could backfire on you, just remember the next time! keep it honest with respect! thats all women need from a man, me anyway...lol. | |
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| Why do guys take your number and never call?
Posted: 7/25/2007 7:42:18 AM | they take your number and never call for the same reason i receive a number, call her and get an answering machine for the next 2 weeks. they're playing "gotcha" games. it's pathetic and lame. the women are scared little bunnies. the men are mental midgets out to get their cookies off. they're not worth your time. move on. i'm here to date and see if i can find "the one". Tom - near Youngstown ohio | |
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| Why do guys take your number and never call?
Posted: 7/25/2007 8:46:07 AM | Who knows and frankly if he doesn't call he isn't worth my time. To avoid this get his # but only if you are interested!!!!! I am in my forties and if I go out with a guy my age who is too afraid to call because of the possibility of rejection then I think he needs to go back to mommy. Come on we are all here for the same or similar reasons so why bother if you cant step up to the plate. By the way this goes for both men and women.
Lois | |
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| Why do guys take your number and never call?
Posted: 7/25/2007 8:54:44 AM | | I know for me, sometimes I'm not ready to leap from writing messages to phone calls. Especially if I've known a woman less then a month. But then again, I never ask for a number, they tend to give me their number and I in turn explain why I haven't called. I don't just "not call". | |
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| Why do guys take your number and never call?
Posted: 7/25/2007 1:09:48 PM |
You mean we can actually get away with saying, "It was nice meeting you, but I'm not interested"? Wow. I'll have to rethink this whole thing. Go figure.
I dated a guy that said he met a woman one time and at the end of the meeting, he asked her if she would like to go out again sometime. She very bluntly said something like, "no, I don't think so". LOL Sometimes I wish I could be so bold... I always have such a tough time telling someone I didn't feel any chemistry. ... especially if they did.
I met a guy a couple months ago that I would have liked to have kept as a friend, but when I told him that he didn't like the idea, removed me from his favorites and never contacted me again. The sad part is that he was a nice guy & we shared common interests.. so what was wrong with us being friends? | |
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| Why do guys take your number and never call?
Posted: 7/25/2007 7:05:33 PM | ^^^^^^ we don't want friends only. that sucks. we want a friend, lover and sex all in one woman. when a woman wants to be friends mr. stiffy gets insulted.
Janet... i can't believe you did the scared little bunny thing. why?????? | |
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| Why do guys take your number and never call?
Posted: 7/25/2007 7:27:58 PM |
I always have such a tough time telling someone I didn't feel any chemistry. ... especially if they did. .
For exactly this reason. and why I'm no longer looking for anything but "friends" on POF. I'd just rather meet someone the normal way and not set myself up to be another guy's disappointment. | |
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| Why do guys take your number and never call?
Posted: 7/25/2007 10:08:27 PM |
^^^^^^ we don't want friends only. that sucks. we want a friend, lover and sex all in one woman. when a woman wants to be friends mr. stiffy gets insulted.
I want all of those things in a man too, but that doesn't mean I can't have friends in the meantime. I think it's weird to find somone you get along with and then just let it go completely because there isn't a love connection. | |
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| Why do guys take your number and never call?
Posted: 7/26/2007 12:14:06 AM | | people don't generally want to be friends and associate with someone whom they wish they could have a more intimate relationship with. Think of it like a person trying to lose weight not walking around in a bakery. Why would you surround yourself with something that you cannot have to the extent that you desire? | |
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| Why do guys take your number and never call?
Posted: 7/26/2007 12:39:07 AM |
wait for him because he's got to phone this other girl and do some chores and feed the cat, and would you be willing to wait 45 minutes
What a manipulative narscicist. See I would tell him to bugger off because you had another date... are there actually women who wait around for these dopes? | |
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| Why do guys take your number and never call?
Posted: 7/26/2007 3:24:33 AM |
I usually meet someone when I go out. They seem very interested. We exchange numbers or I take his number. Never hear from them!!!
Hey guys, what's up with that?
I think it's the same instinct as when dogs chase cars down the street, but really have no intention of driving them ..... it's all a game .... it's the chase, not the capture | |
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| Why do guys take your number and never call?
Posted: 7/27/2007 12:20:18 PM | Every now and then I exchange numbers at a bar/party, whatever, and then she calls me an hour after the party for either sex or because she's frickin insecure.
Either one isn't something that I'm interested in, so I just immediately delete if that happens. | |
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