| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 12/16/2006 6:12:54 PM | Gee Bikeman....I don't recall every mentioning anything about "trust" or "distrust" in my post.....jumping to conclusions here aren't you?
I was just stating a fact....that technology has been responsible for the demise of many marriages.
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 12/16/2006 6:24:51 PM | No need for me to lighten up eternalquest. I explained why anyone would maintain their profile on an insightful dating site like PoF. Now for other dating sites without informative forums, well the profile should be taken down for sure.
The only conclusion anyone can make from such a reactionary position that you took in your post is insecurity. You are posting on the forums, you must have learned a few things from them, haven't you? If you haven't, then the content of your post lost much credibility. Hey it's an opinion, we all have them.
You can't blame "technology" for your "perceived" marriage malaise of today. It's the application of that technology that is to blame. I'll agree today it is easier for a guy to cheat with the internet and disposable cell phones. It's always been easy for a lady to cheat--yesterday and today--just show up at the local watering hole and talk to any guy there. | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 2/1/2007 3:37:39 PM | i think you are an ***hole not to be trusted. i'm sorry but if you want to be a good boyfriend you don't hide anything especially when it comes to your sexuality, which is what pof is about. you are hiding something, you are not open and you are not trusworthy. you're a bad boyfriend and you better realise it fast if you want to be a good person. you'd better apologize to her, tell her you've thought about it and give her full access to anything she is interested in about you and your life. you're partners, and that means if you want her in your future as a mom or wife you'd better realise that openness and partnership go hand in hand.
by the way, do you know how to change passwords??? on our pof account??? if you do find me kellita... on pof and message me as to how.
thanks
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 2/1/2007 3:51:24 PM | Okay definitly a trust issue...she is a POF member and so are you...basically if you have nothing to hide then whats the problem? Just exchange passwords and you can both see what the other ones up to...unless of course you do have something to hide...I have suggested this to other people with the same problem...read this article it might help the both of you...
http://ezinearticles.com/?10-Crucial-and-Surprising-Steps-to-Build-Trust-in-a-Relationship&id=2136 | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 2/1/2007 3:54:38 PM | Kelli
do you know how to change passwords??? on our pof account??? if you do find me kellita... on pof and message me as to how.
Login to Plentyoffish.com and click on ‘Edit Profile’ at the top of the screen. Next, click on ‘Edit More Registration Detail HERE’ and you’ll be able to change your username and password. Click HERE to change your username or password.
It's in the Help section at the top of the page  | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 2/1/2007 4:03:39 PM | | She is a female, and your gf. Get used to it, it gets worst when you are married dude. You cannot be on the computer at all talking to anyone even if they are just friends. If you don't want to have the problem, and you still want to chat, you will have to lose the gf, or lose the wedsite. It is like murphys law. | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 2/1/2007 4:14:25 PM | if anyone in a relationship asks for a password to this or any site then the person would be foolish to give it to them. what ever happened to "trust" in a relationship. without trust then where's the relationship?
i'm sorry, i for one will never give any of my passwords to anyone.
sure, i'll give my mate (if i had one) my passwords so he can go into my account(s) and change my passwords on me....NOT!!! i don't think so. my passwords are important to me. sure i may be talking to "friends" in email but then again i might even have some important things saved in any of the sites (not pertaining to other men). giving my password up to anyone is like signing my life away and that's something i'll never do. | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 2/17/2007 9:08:11 AM | | First of all, why are you two on this site if you are in a relationship with each other? Second, did you cause her to not trust you? Also, if you want to be happy, make her happy and give it to her but get her password as well. If you don't care to be happy with her, don't make her happy and don't give her the password. | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 2/17/2007 9:20:40 AM | | she wants ur password so she can check things out...thats not the story at all. she wants to know whats going on,on yours because she probably feels guilty abut something she did on hers(like getting a little too friendly) | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 3/10/2007 12:01:36 AM | | if you have a girlfriend why are you in plentyoffish.com you should enjoy your woman and love her and be faithful - the world needs more good men!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 3/10/2007 10:21:25 PM | first of all, what the HELL are you doing on a dating site if you have a girlfriend???? that is just wrong.. I would be pissed..
but my ex boyfriend who lived with me for 3 years and made me lose my house cheated and had internet girlfriends the whole time..
i suggest if you give a crap about her, you need to shut the whole dating sites down! | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 3/11/2007 1:29:42 AM | I love the forums on PoF. That's plenty enough reason to frequent this site when you have a girlfriend.
Giving her your pass is a baaaaaaad thing to do. Don't reward her for her insecurities or lack of trust. The people you talk to don't affect her, so its none of her business. Everyone needs their space.
Do I have anything to hide you ask? Yes, my personal space you insecure jealous little...sweety you. | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 3/11/2007 3:08:38 AM | Grow upppp !!!! LOL !!!! Just have one together if you are only looking for friends. Are you that lonley you have to come on POF for more friends and not let her be apart of it. Why not give each other you passwords or keep one only for the both of you if you are both together. I mean really !! hello , talk aboit turst !!!! The person who typed this { if anyone in a relationship asks for a password to this or any site then the person would be foolish to give it to them. what ever happened to "trust" in a relationship. without trust then where's the relationship? } I bet you never had a boyfriend any more then 5 years , lol. maybe even 2. I have to say it. Real men who want something real will be willing to do what ever it takes to keep there woman. I know if I had a man and were n POF and he wanted my pass word or wanted to see my email I would open it or give it to him. I am very trustgul and if not , I would be thinkong somethign is up. Why would my man hide it , hmmm someone thing must be going on. I love the old days my grandmother talks about . smiling at eachother , Guy asking the girl ut , going out dancing , courting , dating , steady , engaged, married , kids family , loing eachother for the rest of there lifes. Hmmm. Makes you wonder where every thing went wrong with this technoagly. : feck
 ok yeah , I am drunk , so I should be typing anything , :( but I couldn;t help it. Love ya's Softhearted :)  | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 3/11/2007 3:10:42 AM | You still belong to a dating site whenyou are with someone! Of course she has issues. If she still has one too then she isn't very introspective realizing that she is doing the same thing. Still, if you want her to know that you aren't doing anything wrong as a taken man on a dating site. Give her the password.
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 3/11/2007 3:26:30 AM | RUN AWAY
Next she will be reading your mail, checking your phone and looking through your trash. That's evidence of deep seated mental problems which no amount of reassurance will fix. | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 3/11/2007 4:09:01 AM | This is between the OP and his girlfriend, but I have to say that anyone in an exclusive relationship that has a profile on POF or any where else is suspect. If you want to read the forums, fine. Delete all the text on your profile and simply type "Here for the forums only! I am not accepting messages as I am now in an exclusive relationship." If you can't do that, you are a lying stack of shit and you are not here for the forums only. (This is a rhetorical situation, I am not raving against any posters on this thread, so hold the hate mail!) IF I had a relationship going, we would spend enough time together that I wouldn't have time for the forums anymore. If she needed to keep a profile up on a singles site, it tells me she is not ready for a commitment, and that is a deal breaker for me. Bye bye! As it turns out, I am on the "demand" side of supply and demand, so I can be a little more picky about what goes on in my relationships.
Why don't the two of you just combine your profiles?
drg1301 must have stayed in a Holiday Inn express last night.
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 3/11/2007 1:21:24 PM | | in all honesty...if you're girlfriend and boyfriend...which means that you have committed to each other....then why are either one of you on this site??? shouldn't you be making friends in the real world were you can double date or party together with other people that you can see and know are real? in my opinion....if you insist on staying on these sites when you supposedly care about someone...then you're not committed and your motives may change if something that you might consider better, might come along. and that goes for the both of you. so why not take a chance and see if something really special can develop between the two of you without the online defensives. you may think because you're admitting that you have a partner and you're just looking for chat, that it's harmless....but i think you can already see the problems that it can create. neither one of you should give up your passwords and both of you should delete your profiles. just my opinion. | |
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