| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 4/29/2008 3:35:14 PM | If you have a steady girlfriend then why the hell do you actively maintain a profile on a fxckxxg dating site? duh... kinda lame from her point of view... don't you get it?
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 4/30/2008 8:58:19 AM | why are you even on this site,its for dating ......
you should be more respectful to her and not even be out "looking", if your not sure you want to be with her , move on....... | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 5/3/2008 11:13:00 AM | How about having her go online with you, creating a shared profile. I know that some folks like to chat in the forums. It may be time to decide what's more important a real relationship or the ones of the flat online world. While you mention you have a girlfriend, I will share from personal experience that some women just don't care whether you have a girlfriend or not. Those women tend to have the view that you're on here, and you wouldn't be unless there was something missing from your relationship.
If your choice is your real life relationship, and there is something missing, how about trying to work harder on the relationship, instead of spending time in the forums or other distractions. I bet you get a huge pay-off. | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 10/12/2008 11:48:11 AM | If you have a girlfriend and you are in a manogamous relationship
then their is no need to be on POF? You shouldn't be. This is a sight for people
that want to meet someone special. If you have someone special and it is upsetting
her then you should delete your profile. Why rock the boat, unless you like to
make her feel insecure. I went through this with a boyfriend, these type of men
are not worth it. | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 10/12/2008 3:48:13 PM | I think she has every right to feel insecure and the fact that you're not willing to give her your password makes it even worse. Instead of writing a three paragraph essay of what I think about this i'll keep it simple >>> POF Forums or your girlfriend?? Make your choice. Sure, the forums can be entertaining but why anyone would put their relationship on the line by keeping their profile active on a dating site is beyond me.
The whole point of being here is to find someone special, you have and now you won't leave. If you don't do something about this soon the trust issues will ruin the relationship......but hey, at least you still have the forums right??  | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 10/12/2008 4:04:13 PM | I am open and honest with my guy, I didn't meet him through POF, but openly told him about my profile and the fact I visit the forums often. Sometimes we discuss topics that ive read and of course he didnt have a problem with me learning how to Deep Throat by using a trick I read on here.
The other day when he was over I showed him why I was still on POF and what interested me about the forums. He got a few good laughs at some of the Forums.
I don't think you should give your passwords to your lovers..... being open and honest should be enough. | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 10/12/2008 4:12:19 PM |
POF Forums or your girlfriend?? Make your choice. Sure, the forums can be entertaining but why anyone would put their relationship on the line by keeping their profile active on a dating site is beyond me.
A choise between POF forum and type of person who is so insecure and untrusting is easy for me. | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 10/12/2008 4:48:50 PM | Since both of them were on POF and both had their own accounts.........why not combine them?
I mean, if it's an honest relationship, and both have nothing to hide, yet they like the forums, the choice is obvious to me!
You create a joint account and you both have the password and every detail of the profile eludes to a happy couple that is their for the forums ONLY.
If only one side had an account on a dating site and the other felt uncomfortable about it, you delete the account.
What's more important to you?? POF or your SO's feelings?
To me..........that's a no-brainer! | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 11/14/2008 8:45:58 AM | Why would either of you have an account if you are already in a relationship. Sounds to me like some people want to have their cake and eat it too... | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 11/14/2008 9:00:09 AM | piscesangel: judgemental much?
Sounds to me like some people have preconceived notions about other's intents w/o knowing the full story!
Afterall, pof DOES have forums for people in EXISTING relationships AND forums NOT related to dating!
And, there are a BUNCH of women here that are either married or Not Single/Not Looking and fully happy within their relationships!
While I'm not one to EVER give out passwords, dispelling an SO's trust issues can be relatively easy.
Either delete the account, or sign on and let him/her look around, to see what you're upto.
When I'm in a relationship, I'm not going to be upto no good. So I have no problem letting her have a look-see. And if she still feel uncomfortable about me being in a place like this......then I'll simply close the account and find something else to do.
In MY mind, the relationship far outweighs any website! | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 11/14/2008 9:07:33 AM | ski with me: And thank you Darlin for dredging up an old post from 2005 to the top of the forums.
THIS POST FROM THE OP IS FROM 2005 and is 20 pages long.
I think its been covered. Last original idea added was in no later then 2006. How many times do people need to add a post here saying "why are you even on here when your in a relationship"? (long sigh...........)
Let this puppy die!
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 11/14/2008 9:07:38 AM |
When I'm in a relationship, I'm not going to be upto no good. So I have no problem letting her have a look-see. And if she still feel uncomfortable about me being in a place like this......then I'll simply close the account and find something else to do.
If he does not trust me and is worry so much of what I do on the internet, we have bigger problem than whatever I am do on the internet. | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 11/14/2008 9:54:55 AM | Lil Brooker:
Why don't you want to give her your password? Just asking. I'd like to hear your reasons.
Can I answer for him here?
Sweetheart... (long sigh....) Maybe because he posted this thread in 2005 and isnt on the friggin site anymore.
This is WHY these old threads should die.
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 11/14/2008 10:10:31 AM |
If he does not trust me and is worry so much of what I do on the internet, we have bigger problem than whatever I am do on the internet.
Alexy: I would agree, in the case of a matured relationship. But, a young and fresh relationship wouldn't and shouldn't have complete and total trust.
In a new relationship, we offer the other person an initial amount of trust and give them room to build upon that trust. Which is why I say that I have no problem with an SO checking up on me. It will soothe/ease her suspicions and curiosity and work to build upon that trust that she has afforded me.
Now, if we're 5 years in and we both think that everything is honky-dory and these trust issues arise? THEN, there is a bigger problem afoot.
But, to be blindly and totally trusting in a fresh relationship is childish and foolish!
BTW, I notice that your written English is getting better. Good job! | |
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Posted: 11/14/2008 10:21:41 AM | I totally wouldn't. I'm kinda stupid as in I use the same password for EVERYTHING.
eMail, Banking account, credit cards, PayPal, eBay, Amazon, work and so on *LOL*
Sure it's a hard password but hahahahaha
So No, I totally would not let anyone have my password. | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 11/14/2008 12:06:24 PM | You, OP, have found yourself a POF Nazi. There are also Phone Nazis, Computer Nazis, etc...
Privacy is a Right for a reason. There are other ways to create trust and confirm your commitment to her. This is NOT the optimal avenue to create trust and is a SLIPPERY SLOPE.
ER | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 11/14/2008 2:21:04 PM |
Alexy: I would agree, in the case of a matured relationship. But, a young and fresh relationship wouldn't and shouldn't have complete and total trust.
Okie, but we must draw a line, no? You refuse to give password, my line is different. I am open to answer simple question of am I dateing from this site, but offer proof because he can not believe my words is not what I am willing to do.
I enjoy the forum here and many other thing online, and should not be force to give it up only because he can not accept my answer. Even in new relationship, if he can not trust my words, there is little future. | |
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| Girlfriend Wants Plenty of Fish Password!
Posted: 11/15/2008 12:21:46 PM |
Sweetheart... (long sigh....) Maybe because he posted this thread in 2005 and isnt on the friggin site anymore.
I tend to not take note of the date of the original post. I should pay more attention to that. And yes, I agree, let the old posts die. Perhaps there is a reason, of which we are not aware, for POF keeping the ancient posts alive instead of sending them to an archive. | |
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