| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 4/23/2005 5:00:41 AM |
Posted By: jimi77 on 12/28/2004 7:13:20 PM
Subject: would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Message: depends on the women... each is differant.. if she got a divioces becasue she tryed to kill him for nothing.. then NO!.
lol, jimi..the word of reason, once again.  Personally, I think too many people are taking it personally. He did use a comma, have to give him credit, where credit is due. 
I don't think the original poster was saying any woman is trash just because she was previously married. I think he was asking which you would look at it as. Be careful how you word things, though...especially on a forum.
I would definitely date someone who was divorced..why not? They usually have lots to bring to a relationship, since they have experience. However, if they were carrying around old baggage from that relationship (i.e. I hate my ex and so, I hate you too, because all women are the same), then, of course, I would definitely NOT be interested. Thanks, but no thanks.
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Genia
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Joined: 4/5/2005
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 4/24/2005 2:58:38 AM | | I'm not a jesus freak but I do believe in god, and in the bible it says something like a person who leaves they're husband or wife is damned. And so is anyone who (not right words) gets with them. I don't believe in divorce I think it makes a whole mockery of marriage. Don't get married Unless you mean it. But do what you want to do we are all damned in one way or another I just TRY to do the right thing. | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 4/24/2005 10:59:20 AM | Hey if a man or a woman is in a abusive marriage either physically or mentally than how much should you take before you leave? Matt if you are married and you are constantly abused would you take it?
I would date a woman if she was divorced.there are a lot of nice women I know that are simply unhappy because of abuse done to them by their husband | |
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sarahb
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Joined: 2/26/2005
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 4/24/2005 12:20:35 PM | | If I was married I would take the mental and physical abuse, but that's just me. I took it for 4 years from my fiancee without being married. I would have just been getting married because of my son. And I decided that I didn't want to get married and be unhappy for the rest of my life. It's not about kid's or money or whatever, it's about love. To get married you would have to not just love each other but be in love with each other. But I'm not judging anyone given the right circumstances anything can happen. | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 4/24/2005 12:41:43 PM | TRASH????????? Excuse me ?? I did not even read the responses because this message alone offended me!!! I LEFT my husband because of his lying /cheating ways....Plus he was mentally abusive. So why would some of these women who deal with that kind of crap be considered trash...Just because we think we are better then being treated like that ? Ok Im off my mini rant
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 4/25/2005 4:38:30 AM | | Not according to Jesus, Matt. He realized we were but mere humans, and thus he knew we made mistakes. He specifically made certain conditions that applied to that. I sure hope you are never abused or cheated on, because if you are, something like that is a lot easier to accept from the outside looking in. Have your wife hit you enough times with a knife in your gut, and you might just see it a bit differently. It's in the bible, if he/she commits adultery or physical abuse occurs, you're free my friend, though you're not supposed to get remarried, unless you can't help yourself, hehe! | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 4/26/2005 8:01:57 PM | This is quite interesting....so because I am divorced and have two children...I am going to hell or is that only if I get remarried...(it was a justafiable reason) or am I obsolved of this because my ex didn't love me when he got married...he married because of the kids....oh heck what ever I am a firm believer that we make our own hell and the way my life stands right now I feel like I am in heaven...lol and yes I so would date a divorcee however, one of the questions I ask is 1)are you still friends with your ex (a good sign in my mind) and 2) why the divorcee and look for signs that he told the truth....sorry don't want another abuser or a cheater....lol
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 5/1/2005 8:08:13 AM | It takes two to say "I Do" and one to say "I Don't". Just because someone is divorced does not make them "trash". Things sometimes happen that are unforseen and the only way to solve it without making the problem worse, is through divorce.
Like a childs teddy bear that "trash" was loved at one time, shared memories.. not all bad, most good times. Like the teddy bear, all tatterd, torn, squished to death with all those once given hugs n kisses..... so ends up that "trash" your talking about. Only thing wrong with it, is someone didnt realize its worth, and tossed it out. So yes, if by saying "trash" if that is what you mean.. then yes, it can be another mans treasure.
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 5/1/2005 8:18:46 AM | | HELL NO!! why date someone who doesnt give a damn about their vows to their mate and just decides to give up? GIVE UP!! divorced people are quitters and losers in my book. those people who are willing to give up on thier vows to GOD to seek comfort in someone else give marriage a bad name and shouldnt have the right to marry again. furthermore, what kinda losers leave someone after years of companionship because "they are just too boring", or "we just dont get along anymore", or "we are having financial difficulty", or WHATEVER the weak ass case may be. see what i mean, QUITTERS AND LOSERS!! (only death of a spouse or infidelity are exceptions) | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 5/1/2005 8:34:34 AM | | everyone at one time or another is abused, to me, that is a cop out and if the individual was STRONGER then abuse wouldnt happen. PLEASE.....abuse must be the lamest excuse (besides finances). you want to leave cause your verbally abused? mentally abused? or physically abused? OK, physically abusive, maybe, but the others..........WEAK EXCUSES!! | |
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Ainsel
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Joined: 2/20/2005
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