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java41
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Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 180 | |
| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 1/30/2008 10:17:18 PM | | Please mention the fact that one wants to get along and it is usually the woman but the man refuses to understand or listen anymore. It wasn't like that in the beginning when he became Prince Charming. He now has been married for years and has looked around and seen all the lose women and it has gone to his head that he can go with all these women. It's called Mid Life Crisis. He romances the second woman the same way. Give me a break you men! | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 1/30/2008 10:23:30 PM | | I want to be someones trashy second,,,, grin,,,,thats wife yall pervs lol .There is no taking that ops question seriously with out a serious smack, yahhh me an you scooby,,,,nooooo snack for you | |
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D_lily
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Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 182 | |
| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 1/30/2008 10:26:30 PM | Unless you have some sort of religous problem with it I think that is a narrow mined thing to say. The reason may not have been one she made it may have been something she could not control. Would you rather someone stay in a physically abusive relationship or stay in a relationship in which one was constantly getting cheeted on?
With all the games and players out in this world and the poor treetment of one person to another would you deny the heart of another just because they were a divorced person? With statements phrased the way you have it written I wonder at the value of one human life to another in your views. | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 1/30/2008 10:39:28 PM | As far as I'm concerned, She's as clean as a unused sheet of paper to me. I write my own stuff.. and until I have to start correcting mistakes, crossing out, editing, & spell checks for MYSELF..she stays out of the waste basket,.. and MAY even get copy righted!  
Every person is different, every relationship is different, every circumstance is different. If you don't believe that, just look at the MANY different responses to the same question from ANY thread in here. I have LOTS of bad relationships behind me, but that's not to say the next won't be the one I'm looking for...or SHE is looking for.
If she wants to condemn me for someone elses scribbles & wrinkles, she wouldn't have the intelligence I 'm looking for anyway. Besides,.. there are TWO sides to every sheet of paper ( I hope I'm not getting too metaphorical here... some of you out there get lost pretty easy)...   | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 1/30/2008 10:53:21 PM | | I just had to respond to this one...I can't believe someone in the real world would even ask this question. To say would you date or marry a divorced woman ?....because it is another mans trash?...first of all ....will you only date or marry a virgin.?......because I would say it is hard to find one over the age of 12 in this day and age... .man or woman...and second ...you cannot judge a divorced person (be it woman or man)..to be trash..that is such an insulting and rude statement...there is not a flea market for people because they are "used" goods...like they were automatically the reason the marriage went wrong. ....if you are looking for a perfect..untouched...unscathed ......woman to grace your existence ...then you are looking on the wrong planet. If you are even thinking or considering this statement...then you shouldn't be dating at all. Look at each woman as an individual..not as "trash"..because she has been divorced...in time...you could find yourself in the same position . You have such a antiquated way of thinking and I would say you will find yourself alone for a long time. | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 6/12/2008 10:12:47 PM | | Thats a genocidal attitude. I think you should prbly think about your steriotyping and open your mind a little. You gotta pay attention to why they are divorced and remember, when they tell you their side of that story, it's their side of the story. Who knows if they saw what the man was seeing or if they are lieing. | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 8/12/2008 7:36:38 PM | How very sad that you would assume the woman was another mans trash...
My ex deceided one day he didnt want to be married wanted to be single without responsibility of the family he created.
After my husband left during a mid life crisis he told my children that he made a huge mistake, that he could not find any woman who was willing to date him bc he wasnt a 6 figure white color man.
He wound up living 5 years with an alcoholic that couldnt even go to a disney matinee without stopping at a beer depot.
He had put everything he owned into her name, though he met her at the end of our divorce process. she kicked him out once her sons finished college, she got the house.
He is now living with a lady who was his subordinate in his department in a job he took after that. he now supports her two teen aged daughters and their 3 babies, as well as his mom.
Ironically I have been single ,dating ,independant, caring and financially stable.My kids are all independant with homes of their own and great parents and spouses. .
What you assume is sexist, open your eyes , you limit many beautiful opportunities to know someone who is caring and had the strength to pull it together when the "head of the House" couldnt manage to hold it together, lost more then he gained. | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 8/12/2008 7:56:36 PM | Hell yes! The best woman I ever dated (relationship ended due to job separating us...) was in the process of divorce when I met her, she had two kids, and was 8 years my senior. Talk about a triple whammy of things that scare away people. But still, I don't regret dating her for a minute. She was a wonderful woman who improved my life. I only hope I did the same for her.
But bottom line, Divorce in itself is no reason to exclude a woman. | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 6/3/2009 4:42:33 PM | She may be another man's trash...
But then so is a second hand Corvette... or an antique car... or a resale home... would you not bother with them for only the reason they aren't "New"....
I look at my G/F and I've met her Ex husband...(what a fcuking loon he is....) He had no appreciation of the lovely lady he had, instead he abused her and 'trashed' her.... and pretty much broke her spirit.... Her getting a divorce from him was the first step, of her building herself into the person she is now...and to what she will eventually be.... and no finer lady have I met when it comes to love and compassion and kindness....
None of the other men she was with thought of looking beneath the surface and taking the time to bring out the lustre in her eyes and the sparkle of her smile...
I was lucky no one else saw what I saw in her....
If you always think all you'll find is trash, that's all you'll ever see.... | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 6/3/2009 5:07:37 PM |
I can only assume you posted this to start something, and succeeded. Marriages dissolve for many reasons, and guys are at fault at least as much as women. I am divorced and don't feel that I am 'trash', and despite some anger at my ex, she's not 'trash' either.
If one can find true love in this world, grab it with both hands and don't let go, and if he/she is divorced be grateful because if not you wouldn't have found them.
They say 2 out of 3 americans have some form of mental illness. Look at your two best friends, if they are ok it must be you!
Nice answer, MajMikew! | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 6/3/2009 5:10:49 PM | | I frankly find that a very rude question, scoobydont. .as I see, many others have, too. As for myself, I'd have no problem dating a divorced man. I certainly wouldn't think of him as 'another woman's trash'. You might want to readjust your attitude about that, otherwise you may not get many dates, yourself- and certainly not from divorced women who read your thread ! | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 6/16/2009 6:14:50 PM | That depends on the conditions of her divorce, if she had problems in the first relationship, often they are unresolved and will continue into the next, such as you are marrying both her and her ex.
You have to take into accountablity her emotional status, her baggage such as children, property, illness, mental stability, and a plethra of other facets....
Dont make a bad decision just because your horny.
Becareful about single women with kids, thier feeling oriented and easily manipulated, you have to be the father figure with them and they'll hate you for it.
What a cycle. | |
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