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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 12/23/2005 8:18:06 PM | | For any mother or father who has gazed into the eyes of their newborn child for the first time, then they know what unconditional love is. A baby looks into the eyes of their parents with unconditional, pure love. That's what I would hope to find in a relationship, a woman who would gaze upon me with the same love, warmth, and purity of emotion as that newborn possesses for his/her mother and father. But that's just my thoughts. | |
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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 12/23/2005 9:02:25 PM | | Every human being is perfect and complete in spirit and therefore unconditionally loved...its the ego of the human spirit that is flawed, tested, and invariably fails...human ego is the base of malcontent, not being human...sucks to be us... | |
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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 12/23/2005 9:08:03 PM | I knew unconditional love from the first viewing of my babies ... There is nothing that will ever compare to that.
All of us are capable of uncondtional love. It's easier to lock it off when you are are afraid you'll be hurt & re-hurt. Straight up-it does suck to be hurt.
Unconditional love is through the good, the bad, the ugly, the tears, the fights... Not all can achieve or are capable of recieving it because of thier own fears or past experiences.
Everyone is capable of it.
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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 12/24/2005 1:30:00 PM | I guess for me, unconditional love is where we love one another regardless of anything. We all have faults, none of us are even close to being perfect. It's not about picking out all the things you don't like or love about a person, but loving them inspite of that. Being able to accept one another for the person that you are. Looking beyond that physical attraction that so many are hung up on and look deep into the heart because when it is all said and done..that is where you will find true love because it comes from the heart within, not what is on the outside. So many are so quick to judge a person by what they have or don't have or by the way they look or don't look or because they don't like this or that about someone.
You see, I use to be slender and now Iam fat...and probably the reason why I don't get any responses to my profile...but that is okay because I know somewhere there is someone out there who will love me "unconditionally" as I will love them | |
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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 1/31/2006 7:24:38 AM | | To me.. it is the base foundation on which everything that is, exists. It is the oneness of all things in its simplest form... we just like to complicate it sometimes... sometimes to a point that we forget what it is, even though it is the one constant element of every event, object, and thought we have. | |
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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 1/31/2006 7:41:53 AM |
To me.. it is the base foundation on which everything that is, exists. It is the oneness of all things in its simplest form... we just like to complicate it sometimes... sometimes to a point that we forget what it is, even though it is the one constant element of every event, object, and thought we have. [/q] to me it is when 2 become 1.  | |
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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 2/2/2006 11:49:16 PM | | You can Love without any conditions,rules or such but It would take one strong heart to be able to do it.Many like me never get the chance to prove we can love unconditionally.It Scares the shit out of most women Ive known Once they do know | |
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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 2/3/2006 12:04:10 AM | | unconditional love to me is no restrictions, no requirements,no I will love you if onlys, in other words love regardless of income, looks, weight, height or age. Also unconditional love accepts whatever health a person is in, what kind of car they drive or where they live... | |
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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 2/3/2006 12:22:05 AM | Some interesting views.But if you let someone walk all over you that was never unconditinal love.What it means is that say if they become paralized or sick you'll still stand by there side.If they lose a job there not instantly worthless.If they gain a hundred pounds it doesnt matter because there your best friend. It is almost a myth cause most people today dont have strong enough morals to stick anything out.Its sad really. Kaisers take on marriage counsilng is if you need to come more than once then get a divorce.Its to simple to just walk away.many peolple are to weak to take the road less traveled | |
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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 2/5/2006 12:46:40 AM | | As far as I'm concerned, unconditional love only comes into play with my children and my parents. I'll love my parents regardless of the mistakes they make. I'll love my children forever, no matter what they do later in their lives. I don't believe it's possible to love unconditionally in a relationship. If my partner cheats on me, mistreats me or abuses my trust, my love for him would definately diminish, if not disappear altogether ... so it's definately conditional, and it should be. | |
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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 2/5/2006 6:31:27 AM | YES,I AGREE WITH YOU....I COULD LOVE INCONDITIONAL AND ACCEPT SOMEONE FOR WHO THEY ARE..HOWEVER I DO NOT NEED TO ACCEPT UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR....THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH CONDITIONS...I LOVE MY EX HUSBAND, HOWEVER HE IS A WOMANIZER, I HAVE DEALT WITH IT FOR A LONG TIME...I MOVED ON SINCE...WE CAN BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER AND CO=EXIST..IT JUST CANNOT BE..IF I WANT TO GIVE MY LIFE TO GOD I WOULD OF BEEN A NUN....THIS IS AM MAN...AND I AM NOT A NUN....I CAN DEAL WITH ALOT, NOT CHEATING CONSTANLY...PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES, BUT WHEN THEY CONTINUE TO DO THE SAME THINGS OVER AGAIN AND EXPECT DIFFERENT RESULTS, THIS IS CALL INSANITY....HE WILL NOT CHANGE, ITS YEARS NOW, AND HE IS STILL DOING THE SAME THING TO OTHER WOMAN...HE HAS ISSUES, AND THEY ARE NOT MINE, OR ANYONE ELSES.. BOTTOM LINE: I STILL LOVE HIM.....I JUST CANNOT LIVE WITH HIM...GOOD LUCK | |
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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 2/5/2006 8:22:49 PM | YES,I AGREE WITH YOU....I COULD LOVE INCONDITIONAL AND ACCEPT SOMEONE FOR WHO THEY ARE..HOWEVER I DO NOT NEED TO ACCEPT UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR....THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH CONDITIONS...I LOVE MY EX HUSBAND, HOWEVER HE IS A WOMANIZER, I HAVE DEALT WITH IT FOR A LONG TIME...I MOVED ON SINCE...WE CAN BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER AND CO=EXIST..IT JUST CANNOT BE..IF I WANT TO GIVE MY LIFE TO GOD I WOULD OF BEEN A NUN....THIS IS AM MAN...AND I AM NOT A NUN....I CAN DEAL WITH ALOT, NOT CHEATING CONSTANLY...PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES, BUT WHEN THEY CONTINUE TO DO THE SAME THINGS OVER AGAIN AND EXPECT DIFFERENT RESULTS, THIS IS CALL INSANITY....HE WILL NOT CHANGE, ITS YEARS NOW, AND HE IS STILL DOING THE SAME THING TO OTHER WOMAN...HE HAS ISSUES, AND THEY ARE NOT MINE, OR ANYONE ELSES.. BOTTOM LINE: I STILL LOVE HIM.....I JUST CANNOT LIVE WITH HIM...GOOD LUCK i agree with you on your unconitional love and not to deal with a man who is a womanizer and unfaithful to you in trust and love. giving your life and soul to God, there is no laws of God for you to become a non. you need to read up on what you have done in giving your heart and soul to God.. it merely means you love God. There are some things which God would like you to do, read the Bible online.
lastly there are rules which you agreed to when you signed up. one of those rules are not to write in uppercase letters. two reasons its harder to read on our side, plus its rude.
your post is still excellent.
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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 2/5/2006 8:30:37 PM | Unconditional love is loving without condition. Simple enough.
No matter what they do where you are what they say where they go who they are with You love them and want them to be happy and well.
I am fortunate to have this in my life both from me and for me. There is no better feeling. | |
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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 2/5/2006 9:10:07 PM | No matter what they do where you are what they say where they go who they are with You love them and want them to be happy and well.
I am fortunate to have this in my life both from me and for me. There is no better feeling.
very nice expression. i dont know where you are coming from or where and how are you going into your future. your expression leaves open ends. can mean different things for different folks. however it is an excellent post.
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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 2/5/2006 9:29:47 PM | | I agree with Summer Teeth and Look In, except for pets I would put them in the same basket as partners. Family are the only ones that have your unconditional love. I know with my children there are times when I feel would gladly give them away, but at the end of the day when their in their beds sleeping and I pop in to check on them My heart melts and all the bad feelings go away or when my 6 year old brings me in a coffee in bed (its so I will get him his breakfast) or after school when they say they have missed you and they love you. But there is not unconditional love for partners that is why there is a thing called divorce. And to the person you started this forum love is a two way street. Where was her unconditional love fot you? | |
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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 2/5/2006 9:37:59 PM |
I agree with Summer Teeth and Look In, except for pets I would put them in the same basket as partners. Family are the only ones that have your unconditional love. I know with my children there are times when I feel would gladly give them away, but at the end of the day when their in their beds sleeping and I pop in to check on them My heart melts and all the bad feelings go away or when my 6 year old brings me in a coffee in bed (its so I will get him his breakfast) or after school when they say they have missed you and they love you. But there is not unconditional love for partners that is why there is a thing called divorce. And to the person you started this forum love is a two way street. Where was her unconditional love fot you? i'm with you 100%.
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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 2/5/2006 9:38:05 PM | Donating your organs to a family member or loved one who requires it with no hesitation. Even when the odds are stacked against the procedure being a success.
I respect anyone who has ever had to do this. This must be a form of unconditional love. | |
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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 2/6/2006 4:55:01 AM | | I just want to say I am sorry for the caps. I did not do it on purpose...I will now be more aware......Thanks for sharing that.. | |
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| What is unconditional love to you? Posted: 2/6/2006 8:21:34 AM | | Unconditional love is proabaly love that can not be chosen, in a sence. I love my parents and brother uncondtionally, because they are family. I think in the future I would love my children unconditionally. I hope this helps. Take care. | |
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