| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/6/2006 8:23:26 AM | Unconditional love doesn't happen for partners.
My child is the only one who gets my unconditional love..... | |
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| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/6/2006 8:28:05 AM | | Unconditional love? Wanting the person you love to be happy. If thats with you or not, thats how I feel. Does'nt stop the pain of them not thinking they could be just as happy with you. | |
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Hokage
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Joined: 11/6/2004
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| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/6/2006 9:05:11 AM |
Unconditional love? Wanting the person you love to be happy. If thats with you or not, thats how I feel. Does'nt stop the pain of them not thinking they could be just as happy with you. if you love to satisfied her needs which take maybe an hour or two often i will guanatee she will be happy. Most men only perform what makes them happy, hit and run.
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| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/6/2006 10:08:08 AM |
unconditional love to me is no restrictions, no requirements,no I will love you if onlys, in other words love regardless of income, weight, height or age. Also unconditional love accepts whatever health a person is in, what kind of car they drive or where they live... beautiful statement it says it all.
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| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/6/2006 2:21:42 PM |
I just want to say I am sorry for the caps. I did not do it on purpose...I will now be more aware......Thanks for sharing that..
most of us don't read the the rules at sign up and we all makes mistakes. i only put my statement in as as friendly message and should have tagged it so.
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| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/6/2006 2:28:47 PM | Unconditional love, to me, is not saying I will love you if.... It's being free inside to forgive the past ... and everyone who is in it ... and live comfortably with the memories.
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| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/6/2006 2:46:43 PM | Unconditional love is truly wishing other people and other things well.
Unconditional love does not mean passivity. It is in fact quite muscular, especially when it comes to defending truth and helping and defending others.
Unconditional love means allowing others to live their own lives, in their own ways. In fact, wishing them well and helping them live the lives they choose.
Unconditional love of course means giving them the space to do so. In particular, this means each group not increasing their numbers until they intrude on the space of others.
Trying to force others to live the way you approve of is not love; it is aggression.
A world based on unconditional love would probably tend towards small, rather different nations or states, each respecting other's right to live, wishing others well and being careful not to drift into interfering with them. On the whole, they would like their neighbors. | |
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| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/6/2006 2:51:26 PM | | It is something everyone wants but only a few are willing to give in return, thats why a dog is man's best friend. | |
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| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/6/2006 3:04:51 PM | The man who broke my heart was a cop, and if for some unkown reason,I was to discover he was the target of a snipers bullet and the only way to save him was to throw myself in front of it I would do this without a second though, this is how it works, I know he dosent love me and he never will. | |
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Ldygmr
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Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 112 | |
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| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/6/2006 8:00:19 PM |
Dying for someone is easy.
It is Living for them that is hard.
can you please be more explicit as to what you wrote. i don't get it. thanks
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| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/6/2006 8:16:53 PM | | Unconditional love to me is acceptance. Accepting their faults. Forgiving mistakes. But in return you shouldn't be ignored or treated badly. If you are its time to leave. | |
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Ldygmr
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Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 116 | |
| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/7/2006 12:04:10 AM |
can you please be more explicit as to what you wrote. i don't get it. thanks
To die for someone requires one choice. One sacrifice. And then you are done. Finis.
To live for someone requires one, after another, after another, after another ad infinitum.
It means putting their welfare foremost in your mind in everything you do. Always.
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| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/7/2006 9:33:53 PM |
To die for someone requires one choice. One sacrifice. And then you are done. Finis.
you are talking about death here. right? Then you are more out of it than I thought.
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| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/8/2006 1:31:28 AM | | you can love someone unconditionally and not be able to be with them... there is someone in my past who I love unconditionally and for whatever reason we can't be together but that doesn't negate the love that is there. lovers can have unconditional love... just because i love you doesn't mean we must be together. | |
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charem
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Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 119 | |
| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/8/2006 3:36:22 AM | Unconditional= Without conditions or limitations! Having no reservations, absolute, implicit, undoubting, unfaltering, unhesitating, unquestioning, unreserved and wholehearted.
Love= Is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes and always perseveres. 1 corinths 13:4-7
Unconditional love to me is acceptance (and all of the above). In saying 'without conditions', does not mean without morals/values etc therefore to have unconditional love between two people there must be communication and like-mindedness. I believe this is possible!
Without the above meanings of unconditional love in your life, it is not possible to attain, including unconditional love for your children. How many parents/children do you know who have ostracised themselves from each other? How many families don't speak to each other?
We all place certain expectations on our kids (behave, mind your manners, sit up straight etc)...this surely is conditional love if we don't love them because they do not comply? We all place certain expectations on our animals (dont bark, sit, fetch etc)....this is surely conditional love, if we do not love them if they don't perform?
I personally believe in unconditional love and I am working towards attaining it, and it starts with ME
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| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/8/2006 3:44:23 AM | Excellent post Charem, and good points .. I only disagree with one aspect.
We all place certain expectations on our kids (behave, mind your manners, sit up straight etc)...this surely is conditional love if we don't love them because they do not comply? We all place certain expectations on our animals (dont bark, sit, fetch etc)....this is surely conditional love, if we do not love them if they don't perform?
If parents actually DID stop loving their children for not sitting straight, then you could call it conditional. The love between parent and chlid is unconditional specifically because it doesn't rely on conditions. I love my children. If one of them misbehaves, I'll be upset with them, and I'll still love them. If, as an adult, one of my children commits some horrible crime and becomes the most hated in society, I'll be disappointed, but I'll still love my children. There are no conditions on that love, because there is nothing they could do that would make me stop loving them.
The love in a relationship is very, very conditional however. No matter how much I love my partner, if he were to mistreat me, abuse me, abuse one of my children, or countless other variables... love would fade most definately. | |
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| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/8/2006 5:41:47 AM | Unconditional love:
Love with no-hold backs.
ACTUALLY think about it. How many people would you still "love" if they spat in your face everytime you saw them? Didn't reciprocate a kiss everytime you started one? Never GAVE something you thought they OUGHT to give?
It's not a myth - it's a choice.
But doesn't mean you should be a fool. Just because you unconditionally love someone in a relationship doesn't mean you should allow them to disrespect you. Some people think, "I'll love you always. But if you disrespect me, you can't be with me, unless you fully apologise, intending never to ever do that again."
By the way, "love" isn't just a fuzzy feeling. It's different between any 2 people. Sometimes, I reckon people should set down clearly what they mean by "I love you" before saying it. I.e. not just saying "Do you love me?" - because that's what "I love you" means when you just want to hear it back. So - does "I love you" mean "I'll do anything to make you happy?" Then let the person know! Then, everytime you say those words, they'll appreciate even more what you mean. | |
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| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/8/2006 6:12:58 AM | Unconditional love.....Being arround that person an feeling safe, and fuzzy inside. Not being able to go an hour without thinking about them, or wanting them there. You love the trivial things about them.
You would die for them. You make eachother better people, for even knowing eachother. You downright hands down head over heals no holds barred LOVE THEM. And when you have a fight even a small one....you felt like you have ben hit by a mack truck, and are the first to appoligize.
Unconditional love is all about sacrifice, you give your soul your heart and your body to them and fully trust them.... | |
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| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/8/2006 7:15:53 AM | You would die for them. You make each other better people, for even knowing each other. You downright hands down head over heals no holds barred LOVE THEM. And when you have a fight even a small one....you felt like you have ben hit by a mack truck, and are the first to appoligize.
Unconditional love is all about sacrifice, you give your soul your heart and your body to them and fully trust them....
'would you die for them' when two have this deep love, it is the best life can offer. no reasons to die for someone in any case. it is wrong. enjoy this event as it will contine to grown.
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| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/8/2006 2:10:41 PM | Dying for someone is easy,
If its so easy, why dont you try it?
And as for what Tyler Derdin said, right on, thats what Im talking about, couldnt have said it better myself, you go boy! | |
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| What is unconditional love to you?
Posted: 2/8/2006 2:29:37 PM |
Dying for someone is easy,
If its so easy, why dont you try it?
if you are talking about real death then its selfishness to do the deed you mention.
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