j-mix
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Joined: 10/4/2005
Msg: 26 | |
| List of requirements to your potential girlfriend/boyfriend
Posted: 12/6/2005 3:35:21 PM |
look in:
15. wears halo
16. brings another girlfriend if not two
17. takes out trash
18. pays me for sex
19. oh hell, just hands me the paycheck
20. starts the day every morning being under the sheet alarm clock
21. had all shots
22. loves to give bj's has no interest in being satisfied themselves
23. can be satisfied themselves as long as they do it in front of me
13. Wild in bed. (good in bed) Ability to have orgasms at least several times per week. [I like when I can satisfy my women. ]
you lost me on that one, only several times per week, shouldn't that say day
and did you mean woman
15. agree ;)
16. we don't need another girls.
17. yes. We both can do it.
18. .... that's strange, why wife spouse should pay to another spouse. Probably your bf did it to you that why you are alone.
19. many couples have common budgets. when somebody gust give his/her paycheck it is bad. (unfortunately it happens very often)
20. ??? explain please.
22 - 23. both should sexually and emotionally satisfy each other.
13. sorry, i never tried to get you dear. See # 3 please. :)
But thanks for nice comments.
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sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 27 | |
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| List of requirements to your potential girlfriend/boyfriend
Posted: 12/6/2005 3:42:14 PM |
13. sorry, i never tried to get you dear. See # 3 please. :)
But thanks for nice comments
we got a real bright one here.
there was never an offer, you are into something much more pubescent than me
18. .... that's strange, why wife spouse should pay to another spouse. Probably your bf did it to you that why you are alone.
huh?
my additions were nothing but a joke, wasn't your list a joke  | |
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j-mix
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Joined: 10/4/2005
Msg: 30 | |
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sddude
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Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 32 | |
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j-mix
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Joined: 10/4/2005
Msg: 33 | |
| List of requirements to your potential girlfriend/boyfriend
Posted: 12/6/2005 3:59:23 PM | 16 year olds still get weiners what is the difference , it is just the law
ok... probably we need to go to the lawyer then.
According to information that i have, by international agreements, US accept foreign marriages. So if you legally married in Zimbabwe, then this marriage is LEGAL in the US.
how many of you girls did not have sex when you was 16? 14? 12?
What was the max age difference between you and the guy?
How many girls in their 16 looks like a well-developed women?
Again, i'm not into 16 y.o. girls... I like 22-31, but why we should close our eyes just because of the stupid law or public opinion? We should not get in jail, that’s important.
So if you do it in love and legally…
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| List of requirements to your potential girlfriend/boyfriend
Posted: 12/6/2005 4:04:03 PM | When I was 18 I fell for 28
I now have a 17 and 15 yo girls
warning, stay away
I feel that after the beheadings of males occur that would come after what I have invested my life in, than I wont have to worry about anything | |
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| List of requirements to your potential girlfriend/boyfriend
Posted: 12/6/2005 4:11:55 PM | A list...LOL! Wow, high expectations.
How about the basics...have fun, be honest (as humanly possible), trustworthy (as humanly possible), the physical would be between us (none of anyone elses business) and have a job.
I love kids, walks in the park and not having to be showered with gifts..i like giving and i like a man that respects his women. No, really.
I kinda have a guy in my life that is perfect for me as far, as i am concerned, without a list in place..he never asked for one! | |
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| List of requirements to your potential girlfriend/boyfriend
Posted: 12/6/2005 4:13:20 PM | I'm not saying its so, I'm just saying this is stuff friends and I have discussed and this is what we think. In itself, that is kind of important because these guys who date these much younger girls...and I stress here girls, because they have yet to become women....have to face the stigmatism of how we, well look down on them.
Men who date really young girls who have yet to mature, actually suffer from very low self-esteem and are easily threatened. They need someone who is easily controlled and influenced. But it is not an equal or healthy relationship. It can quite often do serious emotional and psychological damage to the young girl. Instead of becoming the person they should be, they are molded into the person who their boyfriend wants.
Again, not saying it is so...don't crucify me!!!!!
Just looking for feedback as to what ya'll think.
Also...there is a big difference between two adults involved in a relationship where there is an age gap and the situation of one adult and someone who is a teenager and not emotionally developed yet. | |
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| List of requirements to your potential girlfriend/boyfriend
Posted: 12/6/2005 4:22:05 PM | I'm going to ignore the flame-worthy part of this post for a moment and actually answer the question: what do I need in a man?
Ready to laugh, kind, good-natured, happy, emotionally/financially stable, strong-willed, intelligent, educated (hell, preferably at least a little opinionated!), and loving. I want a man who can touch me with passion AND with love, whose mind could keep me interested even if we were physically far apart, and who would laugh with me at life, not bring me down.
As for the 16 y.o. bit...
I want a partner, not a child. No, most teenagers can't take care of themselves - emotionally or financially. Yes, there are exceptions - I say most. Even allowing for an exceptional person...it just...no.
And you're asking if we girls were sexually active that young? Fine. I, for one, was not. I chose not to go to bed with anyone until I was old enough that I thought I could handle the responsibility of preventing diseases and pregnancy, and the possibility of prevention failing in either case. | |
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| List of requirements to your potential girlfriend/boyfriend
Posted: 12/6/2005 4:46:20 PM | Many 16 y.o. can taking care about themselves. it is not necessary money.
16 y.o. could be very wild in bed. [if girl can have sex only under the blanked in dark room this is NO]
Mostly 16 y.o. girls know how to cook (if they are not americans of course)
Mess dosn't depend from age. yes, i will check her room.
She can be good in school at least.
Many 16 y.o. wants to have children.
P.S. if you don’t have such abilities in your 30-40, it don’t mean that 16 y.o. girl don’t have it. Think wide please.
Many 16 yr olds can spell better than this too and have a better grasp on life. Dude...speaking as the mother of a teenager...get near her with your retarded list...end up missing a digit..and I ain't talking about your fingers or toes. Capice? | |
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| List of requirements to your potential girlfriend/boyfriend
Posted: 12/6/2005 4:48:01 PM | | I have been waiting for something like this. Ok, here it is. There are things that occurred in previous relationships that I now KNOW were wrong. Back then, I felt I was possibly being too judgemental. Not anymore. For me it is not so much what you do. The person who currently holds my attention seems to DO what I want, or she would not hold my attention. But no matter what someone does for you or what they say, the fact is that with me, there are things that I would instantly run away from someone for. Basically, if I described what took place in my last relationships, and I really have not, fully, on the forums, you should be able to see what kinds of things I am talking about. I really cannot describe it better than that, without going into alot of detail. But I have found what I want, as to what they DO. All thats left is that they NOT do those kinds of things. There are certain things I WILL take as evidence of someone doing something wrong. I have seen it too many times and no one will ever convince me against my gut again. | |
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j-mix
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Joined: 10/4/2005
Msg: 43 | |
| List of requirements to your potential girlfriend/boyfriend
Posted: 12/6/2005 5:03:22 PM | smile with your eyes: Many 16 yr olds can spell better than this too and have a better grasp on life. Dude...speaking as the mother of a teenager...get near her with your retarded list...end up missing a digit..and I ain't talking about your fingers or toes. Capice?
Capice, capice!
Could i invite your daughter for a dinner? ;)
Ona menia polubit! Poniatno? | |
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rc3
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Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 47 | |
| List of requirements to your potential girlfriend/boyfriend
Posted: 12/6/2005 6:58:43 PM | Most people can only gues at what they want... I bet the original poster got over the 16 year old thing real quick after all the complaints.. 
I think it it simple.. Most men want someone cute, who isn't a pain in the butt, who is good in bed, and makes up for his shortcommings... Most women want someone tall, short, thin, fat, ugly, handsome, intelligent, stupid, etc .. all at once .. | |
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wayne
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Joined: 5/9/2003
Msg: 48 | |
| List of requirements to your potential girlfriend/boyfriend
Posted: 12/6/2005 7:44:09 PM | Ok after reading had to chime in.
1. passionate
2. caring
3. loving
4. smart and
5. witty (to those who know these are two different things)
6. sentous and sexy
7. funny
8. personally responsible
9. over twenty five
10. a good freind and listener
Ya I know good luck right! | |
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Posted: 12/6/2005 7:56:48 PM | My list of requirments in a woman
1) pleasant attitude. Too many women are mean and b*tchy and think that is cool 
2) open-minded, preferably. This is because my beliefs, when I am willing to share them, are not necessarily conventional or "orthodox"
3) down-to-earth. Sort of like number 1, in addition to the fact that they don't think way too highly of themselves and don't think that they are allowed to treat you in ways that they themselves would not like to be treated.
4) nice foots I can rub on 
Sounds pretty simple doesn't it. Now if women these days can't even meet those simple requirements..... I feel sorry for the relationships of the next generation. | |
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| List of requirements to your potential girlfriend/boyfriend
Posted: 12/6/2005 8:08:32 PM | ok...ignoring the 16 year old my stuff...geez even typing that made me feel weird..ok...
My "list"
The must haves:
Intelligent - I want us to be able to learn from each other
Aware - so they don't piss me off with their narrow minded views
Responsible (at least one of us should be hehe)
Laid back
Sense of humour
Enjoys both physical and mental stimulus from me and enjoys returning it
Loyal and honest
Attractive....they don't have to be Johnny Depp but I'd like there to be some physical features that I find attractive
Respectul
Secure
Tenacious
Has a spine
Creative
The preferred:
Taller than me
Successful - This is not just a monetary thing. Its about effort and having some kind of accomplishments they are proud of.
Always takes my side 
Protective - but not in a jealous creepy way
Generous - what goes around comes around
Non-conformist - like guys who walk to the tune of their own drummer
Musical - I don't know why I like this because I'm not musical but for some reason I just find it very attractive
Loves nature, animals and children
Sensitive - but not needy
Spiritual but not necessarily religous. I do think religous beliefs are very important and its important to me that we respect each others.
The list is long...prolly why I'm still single. People talk about settling but I actually find the longer I remain single the more focused on what I want I become. I would rather remain single and become a "cat lady" than settle for someone just out of a need for companionship.
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