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 Derek_1988

Joined: 12/3/2005
Msg: 51
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Posted: 12/7/2005 11:48:12 AM
Get rid of him two people have to apply themselves to a relationship in order to make it work.

Also when he's in drugs he's not only endangering himself but you.

Listen to me sweetie cut the rope.
 hairybum

Joined: 12/2/2005
Msg: 52
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Posted: 12/7/2005 11:49:59 AM
This thread makes me feel like I'm at the Jerry Springer Show.
 yardape_99

Joined: 9/23/2005
Msg: 53
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Posted: 12/7/2005 11:50:48 AM
Oh mom....We are all pretty much collectively thinking "WTF" when it comes to your daughter. Why she would want to be with someone like this guy, let alone worry why he is not getting back to her is beyond all of us. She is not right in the head (and I mean this in the nicest possible way) for wanting to be with a guy like this.

And yes...I think drugs could be an issue (your daughter being on them). Her thought process is messed even if she is not on them.

So if she is wondering if she should get back with this guy, it is her decision. Hopefully these harsh responses will serve as a wake up call. If not.....

WAKE THE **** UP!
 yardape_99

Joined: 9/23/2005
Msg: 54
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Posted: 12/7/2005 11:52:18 AM
^^^^ Hairy.....like at the end of the show where the audience members are asking obnoxious questions and the wack jobs on the stage try to run out to get a piece of them and security wrestles them to the ground as the crowd goes nuts? lol
 okieroper

Joined: 8/23/2004
Msg: 55
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Posted: 12/7/2005 11:57:09 AM
welp i just wanted to say it's spelled "you're" ......

okay ...... thanks .....
 Still_Sexy_At_60_

Joined: 9/12/2005
Msg: 56
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Posted: 12/7/2005 12:02:13 PM
You are asking for people's opinions here and now knocking the ones who are giving you their opinion.I must say i agree with the comments that are saying he has some problems and he should get help too but g/f if he wants to see you there are 24 hours in a day and even 15 minutes i am sure he can fit in.I beleive he has "issues" and cant face you or wants out..like you said get the help you need and then learn to love yourself and not set yourself up for a life of abuse and sadness of which probably will happen with this guy with what he has going on in his life..Then after and during the help you will find out why you are making the choices you are making and why you shouldnt be with him..i wish you luck..P.S Guys on a whole dont like to be chased or "bugged"...
 Shangrilah

Joined: 12/2/2005
Msg: 57
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Posted: 12/7/2005 12:07:42 PM
Okieroper

I'm rating this topic a 10
 Dani_Babi_D

Joined: 11/25/2005
Msg: 58
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Posted: 12/7/2005 12:14:14 PM
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Subject: dang Sent Date: 12/7/2005 223 PM







i read what guapisimo, ~iice~, and yardape_99 had to stay they are just made because they are old and don't have a cute gurl like u they are jus cranky old people who is bout to be put in rest home so better do all the talkin sh*twhy they can. before they be put in the home. they probably got laid off thier job so that is the best thing they can do is talk sh*ton the computer all. in the words of 50 "WANKSTA" all of them.
 Dani_Babi_D

Joined: 11/25/2005
Msg: 59
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Posted: 12/7/2005 12:14:44 PM
Look this is what my friend said about yall...Now go get a life
 7times

Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 60
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Posted: 12/7/2005 12:16:40 PM
okay,, did I read it right..

you broke up because he moved 15 minutes away???? damn it takes me over an hr. just to get to work
 okieroper

Joined: 8/23/2004
Msg: 61
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Posted: 12/7/2005 12:19:38 PM
welp ...... im cool w/ya and still think your young and beautifull ...just wouldnt want ya to waste your life on an addict or someone that doesnt treat you well....

I still think you could have about anyone ya wanted ...so hope it works out for ya and i wish ya all the luck in the world !!
 Dani_Babi_D

Joined: 11/25/2005
Msg: 62
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Posted: 12/7/2005 12:34:03 PM
THANKS OKIEROPER
 Shangrilah

Joined: 12/2/2005
Msg: 63
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Posted: 12/7/2005 12:41:24 PM
I totally agree, Okieroper

Danielle, you are beautiful - don't sell yourself short, hun
 yardape_99

Joined: 9/23/2005
Msg: 64
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Posted: 12/7/2005 12:44:55 PM
But all the beauty in the world doesn't mean much if you don't have a brain that works properly. I hope the time you are putting in to "get help"....pays off.
 okieroper

Joined: 8/23/2004
Msg: 65
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Posted: 12/7/2005 12:50:10 PM
damn ape .... poor thing is 18 .....awkward stage of life for alot of peeps, hell i remember being 18 and i for one didnt always make the best decsions either. It would have been nice to have the net back then , the girl is just asking for advice from different walks of life .You and i have lived enoupgh life to recognize this as a bad situation so although what you are sayin is very true, this girl is just not expereinced in life yet . Thanks for the advice in the bench pressing thread tho.....
 MMMBaby!

Joined: 10/25/2005
Msg: 66
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Posted: 12/7/2005 12:53:19 PM
They're right, you are beautiful to the point of excess. You could have just about anyone you wished, don't settle for anything less than the best. I see you're 18. You are too young to be devoting your love to someone who might not have the best attributes for your lives together. I'm just trying to be realistic, but sometimes love doesn't allow us to be realistic when we are involved.
One thing for sure though, he's not good enough for you. He's been in jail, drugs, probably fairly young... Too much wrong at too early an age. A bad choice, in my opinion.
 dbndon

Joined: 7/15/2005
Msg: 67
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Posted: 12/7/2005 12:55:53 PM
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It’s interesting to watch the predicaments teenagers can get themselves into when they do not have proper adult supervision. They want to be treated like adults but, in fact, at 18 years old they are but adults in training.

Ooopsgurl, I find your response both offensive and misdirected. I am the father of girls, the oldest brother of five sisters and four brothers, the uncle of forty some, and the great-uncle of enough kids to populate a medium sized school. And I’m here to tell you that if some wayward boy like that ever came to date a teenage girl in my family he would trip and fall numerous times on his way back to the street. If that instant action was not taken, I would personally have issues to discuss with the man of the house.

At 18 years old, the child belongs in school, not spouting off with drama-queen problems best left to the Jerry Springer Show crowd. It is our responsibility, as adults, to provide the guidance necessary to ensure that happens -- and so our kids stay out of trouble along the way.

Protecting the less than good actions of your child by blasting others who realize this concept sets a very poor example that could impact on the proper development of your daughter. While I may not agree with the exact words used by some others above, I do understand that they collectively see what could be a major lifestyle problem developing here. You should, too. And you should work to nip it in the bud. Immediately.

That’s just my little bit of advice. Take it or leave it, I don’t care.
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 quailmann87

Joined: 11/18/2005
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Posted: 12/7/2005 2:28:40 PM
first of all why in the hell would u put a cat on a dating website is the cat tryin to get a date or are u to ugly to put ur on picture up there
 quailmann87

Joined: 11/18/2005
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Posted: 12/7/2005 2:32:19 PM
do u do drugs looklike u been up all night smoking that powder, and crack and u look like shit come on old man ain't time for u to go to bed.
 quailmann87

Joined: 11/18/2005
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Posted: 12/7/2005 2:38:29 PM
where the hell your beauty at. know wonder u ain't got no man nobaody wants you. it's that simple. in the words of a rapper "watch out for the big girls them real, real, real big girls watch out for the big girls" got a problem with hollar at me
 smitten2meetu

Joined: 11/16/2004
Msg: 71
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Posted: 12/7/2005 2:41:27 PM
I remember when I was 18 and dating this guy that wasn't meant for me, but I figured I was old enough. Looking back and laughing over it, I saw how this person wasn't right for me, and I wanted this person to be in my life. Although this guy wasn't anything like this person you want, it still wasn't going to work no matter what i hope for. Take it from the older people in life, that we all met people who weren't right at young ageor even now. Don't limit yourself to one person, and date many young adults that will open to new possibilities. This guy you're hung up on, is trouble down the road, and he needs to get his life straighten out, just as you do. Have fun in life and don't limit anything and it will all work out.

Good luck.
 quailmann87

Joined: 11/18/2005
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Posted: 12/7/2005 2:48:57 PM
my last three remarks where for guapisimo, ~iice~, and yardape_99
 mogrl

Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 73
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Posted: 12/7/2005 2:49:39 PM
he moved 15 min away????????????
big deal.
 yardape_99

Joined: 9/23/2005
Msg: 74
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Posted: 12/7/2005 2:58:42 PM
I see she has found a new drug dealer.
 quailmann87

Joined: 11/18/2005
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Posted: 12/7/2005 3:46:32 PM
to yardape 99 man i ain't never did no drugs in my life so what in the hell is u talkin about have u had ur hit of ur powder man. is that all u got to say
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