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| The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 2/23/2006 10:30:45 AM | While I've had several "less than satisfying" dates, I can't say I've ever run up against what a lot of the guys here have experienced, which keeps me hopeful that there is a decent gal or two still out there.......but wow.....
It also makes me understand a little bit better why decent guys like me often don't get a chance.......I mean, after hearing what some of the ladies have put up with, I can't really say I blame anyone.....hehehe.
I did though, have a date once where it was revealed to me that she had:
1) Suspended license for the next two years,
2) Has to get up early for a pee test tomorrow
3) Violated her parole
4) Just got out of jail this summer after spending two years in the clink.
5) Before going to jail, had a 14 year "career" as the girl who sells roses at rock concerts.
Needless to say, this was a blind date.
You would not beLIEVE how fast I drove her home........lol........followed by a "spirited" conversation with the person who set us up.... | |
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| The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 2/23/2006 10:34:07 AM | I have to admit that after being one week on here that my 3 top "instant turn off's" are the ones that are so desperate and whiney that it becomes a tangible thing on their message...(you know the please please please just give me a chance...you won't be disappointed with my looks - but no picture posted or sent!)
2. What is your favorite sex position (we are at the 22sec mark in the conversation here)
3. I understand your situation but can i be your "special friend" until the right one comes along... | |
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| The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 2/23/2006 12:00:53 PM | | I am the same way, even when I get these email from men I ignore them. My profile is fairly informative, if they want to know something just ask. Seems to me this might mean they have poor communication skills and do not know how to converse in an email, etc. I also do not respond to the men who want me to ask them anything that they are an open book. Why in the h*ll would they say that to someone they do not know is beyond me. | |
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| The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 2/24/2006 11:14:08 AM |
Intercooler i've read your profile...can't imagine what your friend was thinking!!
She's not my friend anymore.......hehhhe, although not directly because of that....I think it was more of a "I'd be good for her" sort of thing as it turns out. I hadn't realized I was going to become a social worker for the evening.....lol. | |
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| The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation...
Posted: 2/27/2006 12:36:32 PM | | ...shallow people that msg you to say your profile is great, and that you sound interesting, and then ask for a pic without even trying to show any interest in you as a person. ...if you think someone is interesting, get to know them before you judge them by their appearance... | |
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SBS13
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Joined: 2/21/2006
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daisie
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Joined: 9/22/2004
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| The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 2/27/2006 10:42:27 PM | Quote ;
if someone starts on the oh woe is me, everyone is against me, I've had such a rough life pity pot......SEE YA
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and every where they go a dark cloud seems to follow........LOL
You attract what you are...I said these words to a friend 2 months ago after
his constant"why me "? rants......
You cannot go on doing the same old things and expect different results...
A very wise old friend of mine told me shortly before he passed on......
there are only 2 things you can do to change your predicament...
1) Solve it - do what needs to be done
2) Let it be - you cannot solve it because the problem is BIGGER than you at
the moment
When you blame external factors , you cease to have control over the
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| The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 3/1/2006 7:54:48 PM | one night at a dance club, a guy was hitting on me the whole night. We started talking and getting along fine, then he bent down and asked me: *it's too frightful to see in print.. I'll close my eyes to type it*
"Do you by chance have a dollar for a water"?
WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA>????? It didn't take me very long to get out of that situation..lol
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| The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 3/2/2006 9:31:46 AM | Perhaps I should have explained it a little better SHR1EK1NG.
I spent most of the evening being bothered by this person who arrogantly kept annoying me with constant compliments, references to how well he's doing in life, showing off his cell phone and all the features within.. total knob! Anyway, after all that naturally I was bothered that now he's going to try and sponge off me. I would have been annoyed if it were male or female.
Please don't make assumptions about me, it's unfair as you know nothing about me. Ask if you want clarification :)
Thank you
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