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| The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 12/8/2005 1:50:17 AM | Vulgar language is not in and of itself a turn off...more likely it puts me on guard that something else is going on here. Poor prersonal hygiene is far more likely to turn the heat to cool. But even there it is something that needs to be assessed individually.... Pissy, shitty personal attitudes and opinions made prior to meeting me about me that are incorrect are just about the biggest single turnoff I can think of... I gladly will dump a person that has a previously formed opinion of me without so much as meeting me first...especially if they are not laser quick to change that opinion when we do meet..
I have to little time to play around with opinionated a-holes with attepts to change how they think.... | |
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| The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 12/8/2005 3:14:04 AM |
I agree with questeor, the 'your a nice guy, lets be friends' uppercut to the jaw.
If you dont want to go out, then just say it; we can handle you being straight ;)
translated from woman speak - " your not my type of guy but i will keep you at arms distance if i need a favour from you or something from you for my benefit so i will call you a friend" | |
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| The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 12/8/2005 8:17:16 AM | Man, I like totally get what you're talking about dude.
In emails... asking for more pics, opening communication with a sex-related comment, or sending me repeated emails when I don't respond right away, asking why I haven't responded right away.
In person...mentioning your exes every few minutes...self-deprecating humour or seriousness, monosyllabic answers, talking about your mother a lot. | |
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| The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 12/8/2005 9:57:31 AM | Whe she says, "I can't do it for a month. I just had a sex change." 
Seriously, one of the major ones for me is the interrupter.
Most of the time, when someone is one of these, I'll just stop talking till they're done & tell her that, if she interrupts me, I won't be in the conversation.
This only seems to bother the rudies.
Some double posters are hotties.:wink: | |
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| The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 12/8/2005 11:10:32 AM | I have had dates where suprisingly, the woman had bad table manners. I usually date younger women than myself, but even at 22 or 24 you should have developed civilized table manners. Big turn off. I am not teaching a grown up what I taught my 4 year old.
OH! I had one grab the tip I left behind. That was a classy move.
They can speak and carry themselves so well, but the true colors shine through eventually. | |
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Kiano
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Joined: 12/4/2005
Msg: 41 | |
| The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 12/8/2005 8:27:46 PM | Assuming you've just meet the guy/girl...
I guess if you're looking for a turn off sign then that's it?
What about giving them another chance, what if they got the wrong idea about you and because of you?
With all do respect I don't think there's such thing called instant turn-off
Unless you were bored/disappointed instantly maybe because of the look, smell ...the list goes on and on... And looking for a way out! | |
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| The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 12/10/2005 1:23:24 PM | internet:
1. a guy who ims you and then says nothing........boring.....
2. yes, a guy who flashes on ims and gets mad cuz you wont....
3."whats your disability? can you still have sex?"
IN PERSON:
1.a guy who picks you up for a date and then says, so..., where do you wanna go?
2.belching
3.and as soon as the words "you need to..." comes out of their mouths.........i run!!!!! i think that is a major no no with me.
so basically it boils down to rude, know it alls and control freaks with no plan. are my biggest turn offs. | |
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| The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 12/10/2005 1:53:03 PM | If a woman tries to provoke me into political, religious or philosophical debate as a means of trying to prove intellegence, I will politely leave the discussion....or if I do choose to engage, and she wants to fight my opinion after asking for it, I again will leave.
Also, if she is overly drunk, I am usually put off.
Once, I was being compared to a womans ex...because I am a guitarist and so was he. He was also a cocaine addict and and infidel.(cheater) I am niether...that experience went NOWHERE! | |
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Rhett1
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Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 50 | |
| The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 12/10/2005 5:02:39 PM | I went on a blind date with a guy who had coupons for a movie. It turned out the coupon was expired, so I paid for myself. He sat through the whole movie rereading the coupon and cursing under his breath. Yeah...not so good.
I went on a picnic with a guy, it was a second "date", the first was just coffee for a half hour. We sat down and he reached over and squeezed my breast like he thought it dispensed something! Then he told me how "big" he was and that he couldn't wait until we were done because he was going to take me to his house (he told me his mom was out for the day! He was 38) and "**** my brains out". Needless to say, my appetite was done for. I got up and told him that I was leaving. Thank God, we went in separate vehicles.
So, to reiterate:
1.) If you're poor, that's okay, but the coupon thing was just strange,and then to keep mulling over it.
2.) Don't grope me
3.) I don't care about the size of your****until I want to use it (and even then, it's not THAT much of an issue)
4.) Don't talk dirty to me on our first official date
5.) Don't make it seem like you arranged for your mom to leave the house because you KNEW we were going to end up back there (I don't care if you live with your mom, a lot of people in their 30's do)
Extras:
6.)Anything that resembles a line
7.)Holding my hands tightly and staring into my eyes like a psycho
8.)Caressing my cheek and purring at me
9.)Asking me to reach under the table and feel your manhood
10.)Telling me you love me on the second date
(These were all done by one guy on our second date for coffee!)
11.) Don't tell me that you're going home to jerk off because I turned you on so much | |
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