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 suzisk8

Joined: 11/6/2005
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The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/3/2006 2:37:47 PM
First off, sorry for my previous post, it was a very bad day when I typed that.
But boy, its good to see that I am not alone in what everyone has said. Makes me feel a lot better that I'm being "picky" hehe.
 Hopeful47

Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 152
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The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/3/2006 4:02:20 PM
When he asks after the first drink arrives, "how many of those does it take for you to become frisky?"
 MmmNice

Joined: 12/13/2005
Msg: 153
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The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/3/2006 7:22:54 PM
what about when they're separated, and they talk on and on about how hard it is getting a divorce? I talk to my friends about this kind of stuff, but not perfect strangers -- jeez, I'm not a lawyer, and perhaps they shouldn't be dating if they're so afraid they'll get caught by their spouse.

Another REAL turn off is within 10 minutes of the first meeting they try to gag me with their tongue or ask what kind of condom I prefer -- ok, condoms are necessary, but not real good conversation material on the first meeting.
 Lux_Interior

Joined: 12/18/2005
Msg: 154
The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/4/2006 1:11:46 AM
Something along the lines of: Gosh, you're JUST a student.

Other:

Are you sure you're 35?
-no actually.. i'm too stupid to remember dates.. i may just be 17... who the hell knows?
I realize it's meant to be a compliment, but it sounds like they think you're lying right off or stupid.


 Cynnie

Joined: 12/24/2005
Msg: 155
The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/4/2006 7:27:33 AM
A man that keeps referring back to his possessions and money ..I talked to a few men who've mentioned something they owned or how important their job was in every sentence..
Me and my girlfriends call these guys the .."does all this cash in my pocket make me look short ?" guys.
 Sniper308

Joined: 10/21/2004
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The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/4/2006 6:56:35 PM

A man that keeps referring back to his possessions and money ..I talked to a few men who've mentioned something they owned or how important their job was in every sentence.


Well, women don't understand my job, so I never discuss it. They don't understand my possessions, so I don't discuss them. How much I make is no one's business. Basically, I just don't volunteer much.

On the other hand, there just aren't that many women who interest me, so this is all a moot point. How lucky you females are that you don't have to suffer being anywhere near me.
 Katherine001

Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 157
The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/4/2006 7:30:03 PM
Being addressed by any of the following (from a complete stranger)

Hey baby
hey hun
hey sweetie
hey hottie, etc.............


 eskaLaid

Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 158
The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/4/2006 8:08:49 PM
what about shhhnnoooookkmmmssssss, or shmooooppieeeeeee

i know sugar is ok ...right...

lol j/k.....hey ive read quite a few threads , surely yall are exaterating about some of the bonehead pickuplines or tasteless remarksss..

i went ahead and wrote a few down , just so i wouldknow what not to say....lol...

tonni
 carribeanking7

Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 159
The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/4/2006 8:54:08 PM
1) You men are all alike

2) How much $$$ do you make

3) Oh I know ...your type

4) Is your ex prettier than me

5) ......and then there was this other guy....who ya da ya da....and I told him to take a hike...bla bla
 eskaLaid

Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 160
The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/4/2006 9:11:12 PM
carribking you always there to back me up.....lol......
 livewirehere

Joined: 8/10/2004
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The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/4/2006 10:54:17 PM
OMG double cabin~~ I just saw your post~~
 scouse39B1

Joined: 12/16/2005
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The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/5/2006 12:12:10 AM
and then my b/f - husband said xxxxxxx

so , one more of these rye and gingers and i get really horny ..

if you take me shopping every week ill f*ck your brain out , youve never had better ..

so i was playing the tape of our last date , oh , I thought I told you id taped it ..

bleh ! is all i can say
 clif1602

Joined: 1/2/2006
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The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/5/2006 12:59:36 AM
This forum has been going on for about 15hrs and 160 plus replys. Great topic! I have been laughing so hard I blew milk from my nose.... Was that a turn off?

No seriously FilmakerMike feel free to share some names and numbers... I love giggles, and fun, and sex, and thirty somethings that like to have fun on the weekends. I can see your point ??
 Cynnie

Joined: 12/24/2005
Msg: 164
The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/5/2006 11:13:12 AM
The constant referring to the ex..thats one I can't stand
I'm not even a jealous type person..I had a boyfriend that would even talk about their sex life..
I dumped him so ****ing fast
 MsAnnThrope

Joined: 11/28/2005
Msg: 165
The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/5/2006 11:24:35 AM
How lucky you females are that you don't have to suffer being anywhere near me.

Any man who understands that I'm doing him a favor just being in the same room with him is the one for me. Sniper308? Call me.
 2betterdays

Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 166
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The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/5/2006 5:27:32 PM
She says:

1) "What are you thinking about?"

2) "Do you think I'm an airhead?"

3) "Do you still respect me?"
 flapjack flipper

Joined: 1/1/2006
Msg: 167
The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/5/2006 5:29:50 PM

The constant referring to the ex..thats one I can't stand


Man, don't I know that! My ex used to do that all the time and it sucks.


ooops...
 Sniper308

Joined: 10/21/2004
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The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/5/2006 6:19:49 PM
Ms. Ann Thrope:

I reviewed your profile; I can guarantee I'd make you very, very unhappy. I'm going to do you a favor by politely declining.
 MsAnnThrope

Joined: 11/28/2005
Msg: 169
The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/5/2006 9:21:49 PM
I was hoping the misery could be mutual. Ah, well.
 rippenrock

Joined: 11/20/2005
Msg: 170
The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/5/2006 10:34:44 PM
"Of course I still love him, he's the father of my children", then having to invite him for all the holidays.
 gapgirl

Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 171
The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/5/2006 11:19:51 PM
any kind of racial slur or joke is a total turn-off for me.
 mmmnicky

Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 172
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The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/6/2006 1:49:48 AM
didn't know i was so easy going, till i read this thread.


turn offs??

scratching me chin..

maybe someone that totally dismisses u within a few sentences etc. and u never hear from them again lol. doesn't happen often but every blue moon or so when it does.. i wanna choke a chook.

doesn't actually stop me from talking to them though.. coz that choice was taken away.. umm...

ahhhh...
 nipring

Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 173
The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/6/2006 3:32:36 AM
msannthrope l have read and looked at your profile and l think you look cool, thought it was harsh of sniper308, l think its great when express them selves with different hair styles and colours and at there ages as well you keep it up girl.
 Pgooperman

Joined: 8/10/2005
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The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/6/2006 7:46:54 AM
Oh man... I just got this message from a POF'er that just recently contacted me. I find it annoying that in the middle of his normal chit-chat he mentions his sexual preferences. Opinions?


I think people that take themselves too seriously are funny. Most comedies on TV I don't think are funny. I like Seinfield and Home Improvement the best as far as comedy.

Turning to sex, I like to be creative there but that may be a topic that you do not want to go into here.

How are you doing in POF, I would imagine that you have a lot of male contacts that write your regularly?


 Katherine001

Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 175
The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........
Posted: 1/6/2006 1:16:47 PM

surely yall are exaterating about some of the bonehead pickuplines or tasteless remarksss..


I wish I were exaggerating. I think I'm going to start and save some of my more "priceless" letters.
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