| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 12/10/2005 6:37:58 AM | | Isn't it funny how Americans feel the best catches live in Canada and vice/versa! Perhaps this is because we rarely ever meet in person and get to see eachother as the real humans we all are. I can't see chewed finger nails in a tiny profile pic, or cat hair all over a woman's sweater, an annoying laugh, a dirty house, nor all those other stupid little petty things that are sure to make a person begin to look elsewhere. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/5/2009 8:05:00 PM |
Does anyone know how to send them a note that I need just ONE sent my way? :)
Well, you see that is the problem. There is ONLY one out there and we all need just THAT one. So the ratio is........... 100 of us to just that one guy.  | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/5/2009 10:00:12 PM | We've all gone away.
If you believe that "Men are from Mars..." BS, we've all gone to Mars. Yes. we are officially Martians.
We all got tired of being labeled, stereotyped, over psycho-analyzed, and in general, being treated like a household appliance. (Quick! Do you use the same adjectives to describe your washing machine and your significant other?)
The "men" we left behind are just caricatures to sustain inappropriate stereotypes.
We apologize for this inconvenience.
When you develop FTL drives you can come to Mars and visit us. But of course, by then, we may have moved on to somewhere else.... | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/6/2009 6:06:46 PM | i feel ya, truly. it gets old seeing the same thing over and over and not getting anywhere, not to mention frustrating when it comes to reliability.
im not even picky about the kids as long as its not an entire football team! i dont even give a damn about looks most of the time the personality just takes over and (not trying to be offensive) i dont even notice much about looks anymore.
seriously though i wouldnt mind just one either. hell i found one but hes busy running around like a headless chicken 24/7 and that just undermines the "reliable" part.
and i know where they are, theyre gay and their bfs are holding on tight to them ;) | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/7/2009 3:17:07 AM | | When you find this ONE can we clone him and sell him on ebay. He would be worth a fortune. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/7/2009 7:22:20 AM | Maybe there in the same place where the normal, decent looking, decent personality,decent brain. Minimal drama and baggage girls are.
It must be a secret place. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/7/2009 10:00:26 AM | All I can say is there are decent guys everywhere, some could be even under your nose, but due to circumstances the girl doesn't show interest or can't show interest.
Maybe these guys are decent, but physical attraction is not there because he's too fat, too skinny, too tall, too short, too balding, too much hair, whatever.
Like I said, there are decent guys everywhere, but the majority of the time being a decent guy doesn't give him the opportunity to attract the ladies. I have many friends who are decent guys who because of their lack of physical attribute (and it's not like they're ugly either) gets looked over, and they're the ones always wondering where all the decent girls are. Go figure  | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/7/2009 2:53:11 PM | | I agree with thebestbeancounter. The decent guys are all over the place, the trouble with internet sites is the inner personality can not come out, and all you have is a profile that states "I have a good sense of humour". But if you met that person, they might have a really dry and sharp wit that would be attractive in itself. Also on here, everyone is looking for someone that looks like a film star or model, Get Real, it is not going to happen. Perhaps it is time that we should all reply to ALL messages that get sent to our inbox and give someone a chance to prove they are decent. All to often people could be missing out just by being too picky. Yes, you do have to have things in common, but all too often people are looking for better and better pictures on profiles instead of going by the profile, even if they find they are a match in their likes and dislikes. Remember, if you look for that perfect picture, the chances are they could be so different in real life. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/7/2009 5:21:38 PM | | He is a figment of our imagination! Silly us we still believe in fairy tales. A little revised....not a prince and not handsome. A guy with a job that showers occasionally and isn't so ugly he scares your pets. The revised version doesn't even seem to exist! | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/7/2009 5:29:37 PM | | Funny how men say the same thing with women. IS there really a reason for this disconnect? | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/7/2009 6:02:13 PM | | A whole bunch of them got together, elected a spokesman and gave me a call. They asked that the woman put up a profile, have an education and *** well * *** that's about it. Nothing fancy. Does she have anything to say about herself? Background? Education? Age? History and minimal detail stuff that some guys might be interested in. Age? Children? That kind of stuff. Anyone home? | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/7/2009 7:58:51 PM | | ive got $5 that says you have had good guys message you but you ignored them and didnt ****in answer them back. Seems to be the popular thing to do around here | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/7/2009 8:09:07 PM | | amen to that. girls complain that they cant meet nice guys, but they already have. its called your best guy friend. you most likely met him by going on a date with him, and didnt "like him like that". the good guys get tired of throwing themselves out there and feeling ignored. i know i am. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/7/2009 8:29:47 PM | | Well women have the same thing. I have a lot of guy friends that call me for suggestions as to how to win over their next date! It works both ways. Or the man I dated for 2 yrs. that I am crazy about but, he is living with someone else...he calls me everyday...has to keep you hanging just in case. So guys stop acting like the victim. At least when you are victimized it isn't usually life threatening. I have had ribs broken, nose broken, black eyes, bruises, choke marks. You see 66% of women murdered are killed by the significant other. Even after all this I am looking for a nice guy. Oh and the one that did the most damage to me physically I met him in church! | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/7/2009 8:44:49 PM |
Where, oh where, are the normal cute guys? I'm not talking Brad Pitt. Decent looking. Decent personality. Decent brain. Minimal drama and baggage. Are they hiding on some planet somewhere?
They already all have boyfriends! | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/7/2009 9:10:13 PM | As you're too young for me...bars-if ya want a drunk.
Take a class,volunteer in a field that interests you.
The Starbuck's coffee flirt.(flirting is advertising).
Relax and get out of your own way.And please be safe. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/8/2009 7:52:26 AM | I think its absolutely hilarious when women say this. HILARIOUS!
Decent guys are everywhere. EVERYWHERE! You just fail to acknowledge their existence because..........wait for it..................YOU'RE NOT ATTRACTED TO THEM!
Decent guys, nice guys, however you would like to juxtapose the two, are boring. They're usually what you decide to pick up in your mid to late thirties after your first marriage crashes and burns. The only problem though is by that time they've probably already gone through the ringer with women and have become bitter and mean and no longer have the want or drive to be decent or nice. This certainly isn't the case with all of them, but its a pretty high percentage.
And if you are actually having trouble finding these individuals its probably because they've at some point realized that you weren't in fact attracted to them so they've decided to "go another route."
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/8/2009 11:00:26 AM | | Most of us aren't attracted to bitter, grumpy old men. Like I said before women go through the ringer too. Be thankful it is usually only your egos that are hurt. Most of us see an emergency room or two while going through bad relationships. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/8/2009 11:11:37 AM | | Given that you don't even have a picture of you on your profile, spruce yourself up instead of expecting others to be seek out a no face profile.... | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/8/2009 1:32:59 PM | | You are right Ms. Gidget. I don't even look at ads without pics...guys with pics hide enough without also hiding what they look like. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/8/2009 2:12:57 PM | I wouldn't say decent guys are boring. Decent guys more often than not just doesn't fit the bill when it comes to ideal physical attraction. I can see guys that have no social skills as boring, there's a difference. A nice guy with social skills will have a far better chance finding a date than a nice guy with no social skills.
But hey, if these decent guys can't get one girl they want to be attracted to them, at least they know they have the criteria to make their future special girl happy. | |
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