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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/8/2009 2:59:08 PM | I still want one nice guy so I can clone him and auction off the clones.
It works the same with the men as the women. Those same nice guys want the hot young things while the hot young things want the hot young guys so no one actually wins. It seems many want what they cant get. Oh well its the life of the internet dating circus. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/8/2009 11:52:41 PM | | You're absolutely right, and I have had plenty of friends go through that, but you know what there's so many warning signs that women choose to not recognize before it gets that bad. I actually do volunteer work for victims of domestic violence and I see how things get out of hand, but again there's plenty of warning signs RIGHT IN THE BEGINNING, that I honestly feel it can be avoided 95% of the time. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/10/2009 2:12:24 PM | None of the above has changed my mind in any way, Yes, being beaten up is horrific and no justification can ever do, but we are not all like that, in fact I have known women who keep going back to the Ar**h*le, even though there has been a way out. I have to say again that I am sure that is not typical and deplore the total sh*ts that treat women in such a cowardly way.
So many of us guys send out polite messages and get totally ignored, I have friends on here where they just got sick of wasting their time and have come off. I would go as far to say that internet dating sucks for both men and women, as it seems nobody will budge and give the benefit of the doubt. Conclusion...Let's all get off out butts and meet people in person!,or maybe I just have a very dim view of dating sites through bad luck. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/10/2009 4:03:56 PM | I've got one, but who says I have to stop there? Why not go for 3 or 4 decent guys? 20? 80?!
I'm going to get a corner on the decent guy market and rent them out for ridiculously high prices to desperate women who've fooled themselves into thinking they're a rare species.
Awesome.
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I still want one nice guy so I can clone him and auction off the clones.
It looks like I already have competition!
You are aware that by selling them, you're allowing them to enter society and father children who they teach to be decent guys? Which would reduce the need for our services...
Sterilize and rent, my friend! Keep a few intact for our own selective breeding, and we're good to go! | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/11/2009 10:51:30 AM | It's hard to be a decent guy.. it seems that with 98% of women, if you treat them well (y'know, when we act like gentlemen and whatnot), they don't find it attractive. Even though 'they' (sorry for such a gross generalization) say they want a nice and decent guy, they really don't seem to want it at all. In this way, a lot of formerly decent guys get jaded and bitter, and so the cycle continues.
I don't get it. Like has been said, it goes both ways. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/11/2009 1:10:47 PM | | I just want to find ONE decent woman, I am sure that they are out there. But not talked to one on here yet. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/11/2009 4:29:54 PM | we are out there just really hard to spot lol just remember this phrase... dont judge a book upon its cover. youll find the right person for you.
-Sincerely,
-James. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/21/2009 10:32:28 PM | | I'd concider myself a decent guy. I've got a decent, secure job with good benefits. Will be there when you need me. I don't care for or play games. I'd rather someone just be honest with me, because I'm going to be honest with them. I don't yell and cuss at women. I'm tradional with opening up doors and such. I'll do what I can to go above and beyond for a girl that I really care about. From spending money on nice things such as jewelry or great seats for a concert or event, to small thoughtful stuff. Stuff that guys don't normally do anymore. One thing I did that absolutely blew the girl away was give her a bouquet of wild flowers. I happened to know where there was alot of all different kinds, so I stopped by and picked some before seeing her. This doesn't mean that I'm a push over. I'm not going to give up something I really enjoy just because a girl doesn't like it. I'm not just after sex. I want to get to know a girl before getting involved with them. I'd concider myself average-decent looking. Girls normally comment on my smile, eyes, and hair. I've gotten comments about my abs and butt. My only "baggage" is that I have a 4yo daughter. I'm a little shy at first, but can be extremely outgoing once I get to know someone. My biggest thing is that I don't think there are any good, decent looking women out there. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/22/2009 4:28:16 AM |
I just need ONE decent guy to prove that they're not all the same.
Do explain this because I'd like to consider myself unique. Sure I work and have a routine, but my mind goes off into many tangents and I have many interests. So do tell what is it that makes men all the same to you?
Descent equates to boring for many women. They want excitement, well then they need to go find it. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/22/2009 5:51:33 AM | Just wait until you get older and into my age category.
If they're not alcoholics, then they're in poor health from a lifetime of neglect, have anger issues, have more baggage than the Continental Air Terminal at Newark Airport, or they're emotional cripples who run at the slightest sign of adversity.
Good times, good times. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/22/2009 1:32:01 PM |
If they're not alcoholics, then they're in poor health from a lifetime of neglect, have anger issues, have more baggage than the Continental Air Terminal at Newark Airport, or they're emotional cripples who run at the slightest sign of adversity.
Yet, you're still on here JG. 
From a (female) friend's profile:
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I have to admit, I got a good laugh when I saw that on her profile.  | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/22/2009 2:52:05 PM | | funny a woman posting she's looking for one decent guy. there are plenty of good decent men out there but you'll never find them when the only thing that appeals to you is losers. | |
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Posted: 3/22/2009 4:55:33 PM | Yea I "want" one haha, "need" one nooo. Haha I just need one who's real!! No fake lien cheatin' ones please..if I wanted some drama I'd join in on the SOAP Operas. hehe  | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/22/2009 5:09:08 PM | I find it funny that the OP mentions Brad Pitt as the top of the line as far as how she judges men, but yet she requires no baggage or complications.
I laughed pretty hard at that. Probably a lot harder than a straight guy should have.
Anyway, decent isn't good. You shouldn't be looking for someone that's just "decent". That sounds like you're just settling for what you can get. How would you feel if you ended up with the man of your dreams only to have him call you just "decent"?
I say stop looking for decent and go for what you really want.
If you lower your standards, you just get a lower quality of man and is that what you really want?
On the other coin, I'm sure a lot of guys on here find themselves to be "decent." I personally don't consider "decent" to be a good thing at all, it denotes just being good enough to be acceptable. Who wants to consider themselves just barely good enough?
PS: Holy quotation marks batman! | |
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Posted: 3/23/2009 3:22:19 PM | All the good guys are here in Scotland, now if only we could balance the world out and get some good women here too  | |
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Posted: 3/23/2009 8:26:52 PM | | I'm a decent guy/good one's and still look for a good women but around here I'm one off the good old boy's. And yes I've have to kid's and some bagage but working on that. | |
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Posted: 3/24/2009 7:17:30 AM | OP, While I'm not saying you are like this, but i find it funny how women always cry for the decent guy and there are like already 10 decent guys posting on this thread right in front of them!
That proves that decent guys are everywhere, you just have to learn to look right in front of you and not so far away.
It took my GF nearly a month to figure out that I was her "decent guy" as I patiently listened to her complain like Cute_chica did about the lack of good men in Kansas City. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 3/24/2009 7:19:59 AM | "Anyway, decent isn't good. You shouldn't be looking for someone that's just "decent". That sounds like you're just settling for what you can get. How would you feel if you ended up with the man of your dreams only to have him call you just "decent"?"
There is nothing wrong with a decent man. Women who have the delusion that they need the whirlwind romantic dreamy man are often disappointed.
Decent men are like the tortoise. We may not be quick out of the gate like the hare, but we are dedicated and loving for the duration. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 5/3/2009 10:37:10 AM |
I need just ONE sent my way? :)
Don't we ALL!
I am sure the guys are saying the same thing about us girls though. This is a never ending dilemma! | |
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