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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 5/3/2009 12:14:45 PM | | pretty stupid for women to say they're looking for a decent guy.....especially when the decent men know that the only thing that appeals to women are losers.....bumbs with no jobs.....d!cks that can't keep their pants zipped.....etc etc etc | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 5/3/2009 2:36:20 PM | ^^^For a 'decent' guy you sure do carry around a lot of bitterness, maybe that turns women off? 
This isn't directed at you mycroft1974, but a lot of so-called 'decent' or 'nice' guys act like they are saints trying to bring pure love from on high to desperate women. Almost as if their motives were purely selfless, like they weren't after anything for themselves when nothing could be further from the truth.
Of course when the woman they desires doesn't return their affections they show their true colors and turn nasty, labeling all women as golddiggers and such. Why can't guys get it thru their heads that no amount of groveling or throwing money and gifts at women is going to make them any more attractive to them? If a woman threw money at a man would that make her sexy in the man's eyes, or just desperate? | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 5/3/2009 9:26:24 PM | | omg! serious! i have been having the hardest time tryin to date! and just when i think i found a decent guy they turn into a tool! and its not like im socially retarded either....what is it with these guys? | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 5/3/2009 9:40:14 PM | | Ummm, I kind of find that offensive actually. There are plenty of decent guys out there wondering the same thing about women lol...is your issue that you message guys that don't respond? I mean, the problem could be you. I don't see a picture of you?? | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 5/3/2009 10:33:58 PM | There are decent, normal guys everywhere: you walk by them all the time, and you talk to them everyday. The problem is not meeting them, but how to get into a situation where its appropriate to ask them for a date or vise versa.
At my work, I meet great ladies all the time, but I'll not jeopardize my relationship with them by getting personal. Oh, and decent guys usually are a bit shy and respectful of ladies and therefore will as a rule not hit on ladies as readily as say "players". I am not talking about guys who wear their pants up to their nipple area or are generally unattractive, unpresentable, or incomprehensible in their speech variety either.
They are confident, just not pushy. They are everywhere, you just have to invite them out to play. If the guys that approach you are the ones that you go out with, and you find are not decent.........
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 5/3/2009 11:39:42 PM |
Where, oh where, are the normal cute guys? I'm not talking Brad Pitt. Decent looking. Decent personality. Decent brain. Minimal drama and baggage. Are they hiding on some planet somewhere?
Does anyone know how to send them a note that I need just ONE sent my way? :)
The problem isn't guys; it's the ones YOU CHOOSE. Usually people that claim the victim card are terrible at choosing a guy; they constantly are terrible at picking a guy then they blame all guys.
Look in the mirror; the answer lies within; take responsibility for the guys you chose, instead or crying about it. There are great guys; you just choose the bad ones. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 5/4/2009 8:46:32 AM | | they are all married, gay or don't want a relationship....just kidding I may have found one but he is mine hands off, I don't share well with others...if it doesn't work out with him I will send him your way ok?? | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 5/4/2009 12:12:57 PM | Would you like some cheese with your whine? Decent guys are EVERYWHERE. You just don't find them for a variety of possible reasons:
1. Women are generally passive and are afraid to go after the guys they find desireable.
2. You have ridiculous standards (even though you think otherwise).
3. You are not attracted to these decent guys (who merely have average looks).
4. Some women are very much stuck in the phase of trying to tame the "rogue outlaw badboy", then complain when he treats you like a rogue outlaw badboy.
5. Decent guys may not have the bravado / balls to approach you as their better looking, c0ckier counterparts.
6. You don't give him a chance, too quick to judge e.t.c
7. Self sabotage.
8. Decent guys may may not think you are a decent girl.
Yup, that about covers it.
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 5/4/2009 2:04:27 PM |
Would you like some cheese with your whine? Decent guys are EVERYWHERE. You just don't find them for a variety of possible reasons:
1. Women are generally passive and are afraid to go after the guys they find desireable.
2. You have ridiculous standards (even though you think otherwise).
3. You are not attracted to these decent guys (who merely have average looks).
4. Some women are very much stuck in the phase of trying to tame the "rogue outlaw badboy", then complain when he treats you like a rogue outlaw badboy.
5. Decent guys may not have the bravado / balls to approach you as their better looking, c0ckier counterparts.
6. You don't give him a chance, too quick to judge e.t.c
7. Self sabotage.
8. Decent guys may may not think you are a decent girl.
Yup, that about covers it
9. You already know decent, average/good looking, single guys but have placed them in the "friends" category.
10. Same as above except that you think its too good to be true or that he must be hiding something
11. You really don't want a decent guy. You enjoy the drama of dealing with a "bad boy" but won't admit to it. You may not even admit it to yourself
12. You set higher standards on the decent guy than you do the "bad boy" and quickly dump him if he doesn't meet them even if he's trying.
13. .... | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 5/4/2009 4:03:07 PM | cute chica,
Go out and find a guy. You women claim to want equality. Real equality entails having to work for it and also experiencing rejection. Go do it and stop your whining. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 6/9/2009 3:41:17 PM | | i agree too they really set there standards to high like the guy has to be perfect in every way and they just pass the decent guy just because he does not fit there high a** standards | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 6/9/2009 5:13:16 PM | The decent guys apparently want "indecent" girls! Or at least decent women who can be indecent in the bedroom.
There are plenty of decent guys and women - matching them up is the hard part. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 6/9/2009 7:23:55 PM | You can't, because:
A) the hot ones are all with someone hotter than you
B) the rest are all d-bags
Boom! | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 6/10/2009 7:59:16 AM | | Constantine, you don't see a picture of the OP because this thread was started nearly 4 years ago, and her profile has probably been deleted that long. I hate when threads this old get dredged up! | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 6/10/2009 3:40:03 PM | | I'm not a decent guy, LOL, i just like to pull hair and get freaky once in awhile, keep looking ;) | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 6/10/2009 6:07:19 PM | yeah.... don't you know they are like pandas? endangered species. just sitting around being lazy and eating bamboo.... waiting to die and not having a care in the world...
maybe we should form a group and start looking under rocks.... T_T | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 6/10/2009 6:28:19 PM |
yeah.... don't you know they are like pandas? endangered species. just sitting around being lazy and eating bamboo.... waiting to die and not having a care in the world...
maybe we should form a group and start looking under rocks.... T_T
i tried looking under rocks and even under bridges too. Im told using shiny objects sometimes works though.  | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 6/11/2009 11:26:48 AM | | We're out here trust me it's like most girls go for guys who aren't that great mostly cause they think they can change them in my opinion so until then I'll continue being myself even if I'm too nice to be noticed. | |
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