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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 6/11/2009 11:26:48 AM | | We're out here trust me it's like most girls go for guys who aren't that great mostly cause they think they can change them in my opinion so until then I'll continue being myself even if I'm too nice to be noticed. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 6/11/2009 1:25:44 PM | Thereislifeinthis, don't you believe it for a minute, that if a guy is too good, he won't be noticed. And if you don't have any obvious deal-breaker type behaviours, then by all means, just be yourself.
If the right one for you hasn't arrived locally yet, or isn't available yet, you don't want to have a situation like in the 60's song, "it's sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along".
If I may suggest, be patient, keep your standards high, and be ready when "the right one comes along".
I wish you all the best. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 6/12/2009 10:54:10 AM | | There are loads of decent men out there. If you can't find one, you must be doing something wrong. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 6/12/2009 11:09:52 AM | | There's a girl at work thats had a rough history with guys. This one guy started flirting with her and treating her decent ( by her standards). I informed her that he was married, but she brushed it off because he was seperated (not ver long though, and still in love with his "ex"). I was labeled as****locking and being a hater. I had a talk with her again about it a couple weeks later, and was dreading hearing all the****locking crap again from other co-workers. I talked to her again a few days ago, and the guy totally left her hanging and went back to his ex. The point of all this is, is that while this is going on, she had other people telling her that I was a better guy. I just wasn't as much of a "bad boy". Women seem to go after the loud, in your face type of guys, compared to the laid back ones. Even with the evidence right in their face, they'll go with the "bad boys". | |
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Sheah1
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Joined: 6/6/2009
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 6/12/2009 3:14:37 PM | | This was great advice! I have been on this site for a very short time and have already begun to feel discouraged--your advice is sound and appropriate :) | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 6/12/2009 3:15:21 PM | "Gave up and now just read forums."
I hear you, girl, but I leave my door open in case.............thus not deleting my profile but hoping to be pleasantly surprised. Always expect the unexpected......... | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 6/13/2009 8:12:32 AM |
"it's sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along".
Nice, yes patience is a virture in this game. One decent guy will be coming your way when it's your time. | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 6/13/2009 4:58:59 PM | Caspian
You are so right
Im geting sick of looking though all the profiles of woman and they all want you to write them a thoughtful book but if you do not spot there eye the message is not even read
I think if a guy looks normal hes looked past as boring
hey thats were alot of the good guys look like
And alot of us are not boring | |
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| I just need ONE decent guy...
Posted: 6/25/2009 7:12:44 AM | "Where, oh where, are the normal cute guys? I'm not talking Brad Pitt. Decent looking. Decent personality. Decent brain. Minimal drama and baggage. Are they hiding on some planet somewhere?"
They don't exist. Just about every woman here knows that, just ask around. Except of course in Hollywood, the NFL, NBA and other sports where guys make big bucks. Oh, and romance novels, fairy tales, soap operas...................now there's an idea. Get a recently released violent ex-con, then you can make your own real life soap opera!
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