online dating service

Free Dating Site    

REGISTER | MAIL/PROFILE | HELP | NOW ONLINE | SEARCH | RATING | FORUMS | SUCCESS STORIES
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest 100% free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Manitoba  > Red Flags....      Mod Threads Home login  
Page 6 of 11 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11
 Author Thread: Red Flags....
 DanoWpg

Joined: 9/27/2005
Msg: 126
Red Flags....
Posted: 2/5/2006 8:55:59 PM
...just my opinion of course
 DietCoke®Guy

Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 127
view profile
History
Red Flags....
Posted: 2/5/2006 9:12:31 PM

On behalf of the male species I'd like to apologize for the freak-a-zoids out there in the pond.


I would like to second that motion.
Having talked to many women on various sites, it absolutely blows my mind what many men say and do.
It must get to the point that a human with a penis becomes a red flag.
That is sad...
 Smartie Girl

Joined: 7/14/2005
Msg: 128
Red Flags....
Posted: 2/15/2006 8:29:28 PM
Time for some of the newbies to read this again!! pumping it up...how come this is all the pumping I'm doing ...sheesh...hahahahlolo
 Lil Redneck

Joined: 1/28/2006
Msg: 129
Red Flags....
Posted: 2/15/2006 8:35:37 PM
To many hits on the profle means some boyz are playin...........
Many kids like to play adult here like that......word of warning to new people.
 dream mate

Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 130
view profile
History
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/28/2006 1:41:46 PM
I guess you learn something new every day. I never even thought of that one Little Kitty.

That explains why some women never make it to the first meeting. Probably some kids sitting in the bushes laughing their a$$es off at the dumb guy looking for his friend.

That solves the mystery for me........thanks.....

I guess thinking people are what they say is stupid of me...oh ya...or don't say...

Even a picture is no guarantee........???????????..WTF.........
 twoshadows

Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 131
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/28/2006 2:41:23 PM
This all reminds of when i was dating 6 years ago. I spent a lot of time on phone chat lines like "Grapevine". At one point i was talking with a woman who said she had 1 child and would just love to have more,and I was interested in starting a family of my own. When we finally met for coffee she proceeded to tell me that she told "some guy" on the phone that she wanted more kids,but there was no way in h*ll that she actually would.
 Butterflys N Roses

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 132
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/28/2006 4:02:02 PM
for me i can't say there is one thing that causes flags... depends on what is going on and the situation at hand... however, if we are just chatting on here and they ask me how big are my boobs... yah that is usually a big red flag... just a note guys... if you really want to get to know the lady... hold off on the sex questions... there's lots of time to find that out...lol
 DietCoke®Guy

Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 133
view profile
History
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/28/2006 4:17:55 PM
So that is why they stop emailing me back!
Note to self: no more boob questions
 Butterflys N Roses

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 134
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/28/2006 4:20:46 PM
yupp ... no more boob questions... along with a few others...lol

1. shaved or unshaved

2. swallow or spit

3. and my favourite.. will you show me yourself on cam... NUDE?
 SpunkyPector

Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 135
view profile
History
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/28/2006 5:19:43 PM
Funny as it may seem it goes both ways ladies.There are some psyhco biatches out there too. I'm gonna relate here and you tell me, prior to meeting my very first PoF date we got along great, chatted every day. When i decided to go and meet her @ her childs birhday party everything was great had an awesome time with her famiy, as well as her & she seemed quite nice. I even went out and bought a bottle of chamaige for her daughters 18th {champaige B'Day}. After the party however things seemed to change dramatically all of a sudden I was being forced by her to make a decission as to whether i was going to be her b/f or not. Well I was blown away no actually kinda freaked out is more the word, and then she told me she was falling in love wih me. Red Fllag for sure...So as some time went on I tried to calm the situation by telling her we should take it slow. Her daughter even said to me yea my Mom's got some really bad mood swings {anoher Red Flag eh} No there was nothing doing, poke poke poke ,you need to answer me and finally I said ok I gotta go ~ awh bye bye. This is beyond any kinda rational,' strike 3 ur out Biatch'...
I got so many phone calls and nasty emails that i had to begin to laugh at the whole thing, why can't u understand I am not interested in what you have to offer i tried to tell her. Then she gets her friend to hit on me & start following me around on here and checking on what I'm saying and doing. Nasty emails like crazy, block her, and she changes her profile name, more nasty emails~blocked{ & reported} again & changed again & on and f**king on, it continues. She even tried to post a fricken thread about what an a$$hole i am & was bold enough to have people email her for details, people told her there are 2 sides to every story. So as recent as even today I get a plethera of phone calls asking me why I say things {oh yea I have her home # blocked but cells can't be }. Why must people assume thing are about them when they have nothing to do with them at all. Well lady this ones about you how many ttimes did she call today well about 20. So WTF? I say what I say because i speak from the heart and don't like to say bad things to anyone but this has become outrages and I'm not gonna be a nice guy to you any longer go ahead and say what ever the f#ck you want because now I have told the way it really is & your lilttle fantasy can no longer be a reality, please grow up & get a grip nothing ever happened between us, had you not pushed so hard something might have but i'ts far to late now.
Well she and her friend have this big story going on that says alot of things happened that did not. How do i try to prove my selfworth, I guess by continuing to ignor her & her friend {who she's convinced} about the things she wishes would have happened but never did.
Does anyone else see a red flag here?
 Butterflys N Roses

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 136
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/28/2006 7:18:30 PM
omg spunky how could you do that too me... how could you expose me like that.... oh wait we never met... and I don't have an 18 yr old daughter...lmao

ooops sorry case of mistaken identity... lmao

hmmm another one I gotta hide from now at the pig roast
 RenegadeMb

Joined: 4/11/2006
Msg: 137
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/28/2006 8:34:56 PM
I don't have a house phone myself. The only reason I had one was for the line to hook up to my old DSL service. I got rid of it once I switched to cable internet. I talk to most of my friends online after work so my cellphone is good enough anyways.
 WigglesInMyKinkiBoots

Joined: 10/26/2005
Msg: 138
view profile
History
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/28/2006 8:49:28 PM
Here is a HUGE red flag

when you have someone on your msn and their soon to be ex spouse comes on saying they are the person then preceed to be stupid and then turn around and admit to being the soon to be ex .

Then during the stupid conversation they say the person is right there laughing as they their ex which most likely isnt their ex to be is sitting there typing crap and insults.



 twoshadows

Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 139
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/29/2006 6:13:50 AM
That's happened to me on the phone chat lines,Wiggles. While talking to a woman,just before she sent the message I could hear a guy in the background say,"Oh my god that's funny,baby. Lead him on some more!" Makes you wonder how often it happens on the computer.
 freakycoole

Joined: 4/17/2006
Msg: 140
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/29/2006 4:04:13 PM
how about when he starts talking about his drug addiction?
 The SquareSpot

Joined: 4/2/2005
Msg: 141
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/29/2006 6:54:10 PM
Yikes, I guess the advantage of not getting any replies and emails is that I don't have to deal with freaks like that. On the other hand ... if not even the freaks reply to my emails, maybe I should take one of those "how to write pick-up emails" courses.
 Cinnamon_Heart

Joined: 4/28/2006
Msg: 142
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/29/2006 11:04:01 PM
When a guy tells you that he's already made you his display pic on his computer (by taking your pic off of your profile, without your consent) and then sends you a screenshot when you get home that evening.

Also, he had 6 children that he had nothing to do with...all with different women!
 JPD and SLB

Joined: 3/20/2006
Msg: 143
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/30/2006 2:17:31 PM
When I see on the scientifically accurate matchmaking program they use that the woman mentions Tim Horton's coffee in her profile, there's no chance of even an email. It's all about the mind control drugs in the coffee you see.........
 WindyNym

Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 144
view profile
History
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/30/2006 2:35:03 PM
...if he's living with mom

...he wants to know my income right away

....wants you to pay for everything or buy him something when your still in early stages

....he chews his gum with mouth open (red flag for me b/c I can't stand that and it's a pet peave and I'd just end up getting pissed off and telling him off lol - same as if he ate his fork)
 abovetheclouds

Joined: 10/26/2005
Msg: 145
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/30/2006 2:53:49 PM
Red Flag....meeting for the first time at your childs birthday party....did I get that part of the storey right??????
How to lose a guy in 10 seconds.....say you love him!
 northguide

Joined: 10/30/2005
Msg: 146
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/30/2006 3:04:17 PM
tell you a real life experience that was a definate red flag,,,

i went on a trip to a kind of far away town to meet a woman ,, for a date,, i met her on another dating site i was once on ,,
we had dinner and a few drinks,, all good ,, no problem ,, we actually split on the cost of the meal on her request,, figured it was a comfort issue, like than she didn'towe me anything or something like that ,,,


well it was all going so well we talked for a long time,, and ate desert of chocolate cake , and had coffee,, ,, than it was time to go , as they were closing we had to leave,, so we got in my truck amd i started to drive her to her house,, and on the way to her place she just gets undressed completely in the passenger seat of my truck ,, i mean right down to nekkid,,

i was impressed , but,,, did i say but??? oh yeah ,, but,, i figured this was not good as we had only just met ,,

guess that is a red flag,,
 JPD and SLB

Joined: 3/20/2006
Msg: 147
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/30/2006 3:07:39 PM
Red flag or GREEN LIGHT, c'mon you can't leave us hanging like this, details man we want details!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 Smartie Girl

Joined: 7/14/2005
Msg: 148
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/30/2006 4:03:06 PM
Northguide..you talked for a long time......how was that a bad thing...maybe she wanted to be your ultimate fantasy!! lol
 DanoWpg

Joined: 9/27/2005
Msg: 149
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/30/2006 4:42:40 PM
Sounds like a green flag to me!!


A red flag would be some guy asking you for money for dinner he insisted to pay for...a few months after you had the date!!
 twoshadows

Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 150
Red Flags....
Posted: 4/30/2006 4:47:44 PM
Come on,northguide,that's a big fantasy for a lot of guys!
Page 6 of 11 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11
 
Show ALL Forums  > Manitoba  > Red Flags....