arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 8:49:26 PM | And I thought I was mad at someone.
Find someone better, tell him/her to **** off, don;'t let them ruin what a good person you are, and let them know they're missing out. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 9:01:05 PM | I usually never reply, but if you really had a love relationship, where you both loved each other and you are now apart, you wouldn't be wishing hate or revenge.
Lori I don't know your situation, but from your e-mail it sounds more like you were played and I am sorry, it hurts just the same even if it is one sided. But take it from an older woman, if you like, if there is love on both sides, hate is an easy emotion to drift to, love and hate are so close, but not revenge, because if you truly love someone you can't wish or inflict bad things or thoughts on them, it goes against the true nature of love, not a pollyanna here, just expierence, and truth. Love is true and to the heart, revenge is anger, it has nothing to do with love.
Last year at this time I was at the top of the world, engaged, shared it with my family and this year I am dreading every Holiday occasion. However without getting into particulars I loved that man still do, really did, glad I finally learned that, that I could do it.
I am in no way diminishing your pain, but if you truly loved, you couldn't want revenge.
Revenge comes from a feeling of being wronged, it will consume you, do what you can to right the wrong(s) but you are so young, don't let it eat you up or do something stupid.
I am sorry you feel so bad, I understand and as much as it sucks things will get better,if you love this season then wrap yourself in this, give it a shot I am.
Mery christmas to you and all my blessings from one broken heart to another, just think before you act, some things you can't take back, Since this is the season of giving with my whole heart I give to you!
Merry Christmas Sweetheart and blessings for a New Year! | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 9:02:16 PM | Revenge is never really,,,,,,,,,,,,,,GOOD. I think we are our own best friend,,,,,Look out for yourself...YOU , all all you need.
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 9:04:47 PM | My reply is: You are your own best friend,,,,,Look out for yourself...YOU , all all you need.
^^Very good advice....I think My main point to the OP would be...to just be stronger...who knows this boy friend may have been planning to do this to her from the start....don't let or give people the impression they can walk on you.. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 9:06:45 PM | | Rant Rave Cry Yadda Yadda. Then go murder the bas*tard. 7 to 10 minimum sentencing guidelines. Just don't have a joint or a pill on you. That's a serious offense. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 9:09:42 PM | | Remember He Who Angers You Owns You. Let go, accept, move forward, be good to yourself, remember you cannot change it, and pray for the guy (which will alleviate the resentment). Just a little humble advice from South Florida. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 9:10:37 PM | okay okay okay
I went out for revenge from my ex
I did it I did it I did it
One of the best things I did for myself, but fortunately the other parties involved fell right into it.
long story, short version here
split up
ex finds girlfriend
wife is afraid of losing children
wife takes control (this is the revenge part maybe best not told)
ex puts out ro on girlfriend
girlfriend puts ro on ex
ex and girlfriend have to go to "Family court"
While at this point wife shows up at court to laugh
as she will no longer loose children
if put to work correctly revenge can be sweet, as long as there is a true purpose | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 11:40:53 PM | A drop or two of Visine in his drink everytime you see him should do the trick.
(OK, OK, I'm just kidding!)
Really, there is no better revenge than letting him go. What ever he took from you will be nothing compared to the energy, time and resources that you might spend thinking of ways to get back at him. That's one more minute of your life spent on someone who isn't worth it.
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/9/2005 12:26:36 AM | | i just want him to hurt as much as he hurt me i will move on i know that i am but i just want to know that what hes done wont go unnoticed.i just don't get how somone who loved me as much as he said he did could do this to me he was my world at one point i was so in love with him i just feel like i don't have anything anymore like he took who i am when he did this i know i shouldn't let him have that power over me but this just took the wind outta me | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/9/2005 2:06:34 AM | Have been in your situation myself.
Although revenge may give you that ultimate feeling of instant gratification, are you able to search inside yourself and stoop to that persons level.
Are you not a better person than them.
The greatest revenge, knowing you are unconditionally loved by a real man. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/9/2005 3:37:04 AM | | Well if he is single, you could find some knock out and hook them up with out him knowing it was you behind it. Someone he don't know, and would let you in to get your stuff, when he is at work. Then she could dump him afterwards. Takes skill but it can be done. I normaly wouldn't say something like that, but if he took your stuff that you bought and paid for then he has it comming. I have never been done that way yet, (Knock on wood.) But if I was done that way, no way would he get by with it. Its not stealing if its your stuff right. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/9/2005 3:44:55 AM | Lori, the best revenge is simple. Nothing. Let fate or Karma get him then sit back and laugh. You are guilt free and loving it. I speak from experience. What goes around, comes around!  | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/9/2005 3:59:13 AM | ok anyone who would murder a cat has serious karma coming to them i hope had came already.as for him stealing my stuff it feels like he stole just more than stuff a part of me that i don't know will ever come back. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/9/2005 4:55:13 AM |
how do you get revenge on someone you loved
I'm so hurt by my last relationship he took everything of mine .i want him to hurt as much as i'm hurting. i know revenge wont be the answer but if you were frauded out for everything you had and thensome and left with nothing before xmas what would you do?i'm just really angry and hurt
Move on and be happy, that's the best revenge. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/9/2005 5:02:20 AM | | Living well is the best revenge. Forget about trying to hurt your ex. Just forget the ex, move on, enjoy life, acquire bling, and then let the ex find out how happy you are with someone new. Your ex will then hurt from missing out on what could have been had with you. If you focus on the revenge-rather than the moving on-you will waste your life, and so miss out on what you could have had...which will make your ex gloat over you. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/9/2005 5:06:47 AM | | Screw these hippies. Put his name, picture and phone number up on gay dating sites advertising that he will trade sex for money. Hire some neighbourhood kids to fill a bunch of paper bags with rocks and dogshit and throw them through his windows. Pour honey in his gas tank. Keep on him until you've long repaid him for his thievery and have reached the point where you are able to feel sorry for him. Then go meet someone else. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/9/2005 5:11:13 AM | | It is impossible to murder a cat. Murder is homicide...the unlawful killing of a human. Then, too, a 19 year old cat is pretty near dead to begin with. Sneezing on it may kill it. If your ex beat, strangled, poisoned, etc, your cat to death, he should be doing time for animal cruelty. Did you charge him? | |
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