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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 11/3/2006 7:36:55 AM | Invite him out for drinks, spike his drink with a roofie, then dump his body in the ghetto with a dildo in one hand and a KKK hood over his head.
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 11/3/2006 7:43:05 AM | If it's fraud, take him to small claims court and get it back....it's an easy process and about 80 bucks to file.
For now, have a one day pity party........suck it up.......and get over it!
^^^^^Matallic Blue, that is too funny! | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 11/3/2006 7:58:44 AM | Or, suck it up [sounds hot], build a bridge, get over it, then burn it. I'm a pyro myself, I like burning things, especially bridges.
-- I'm looking for a bridge *I* can't burn down. *wink* | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 11/3/2006 8:08:06 AM | | Depending on what the Fraud was you have legal recourse, other than that, just remember what goes around comes around, and when it does...it's the sweetest thing. Don't let him make you bitter....its a waste of your time girl. Believe it or not your better off without someone like that in your life. Take care. | |
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tishie
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Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 157 | |
| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 11/3/2006 8:20:21 AM | Ooooooo this sounds all so familiar to me. .....I have also lost everything to a guy.....who by the way went of with my so called best friend.....and god was I angry, even planned what I would do for revenge down to the last T. Then I sat and thought about it ....I am a much better person than them, and refused to take myself down to their level. I am a great believer that fate works in a mysterious way,and what goes around comes around. Trust me, it will, and he will be the loser in the end.
It may take a while for you to get over it ....in my case it was 14 months but now I have many more friends and I know for a fact, that they aren't happy with their relationship.....and you know what.................That makes me soooooooooooooooooo happy.
Take care hun......and sod him......if he thinks you don't care, and you are getting on with your life regardless of what he has done to you, that will also get to him BIG STYLE
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Titian
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Joined: 6/23/2006
Msg: 158 | |
| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 11/3/2006 8:27:36 AM | 1ST IDEA:
YOU DON'T GET REVENGE.......YOU GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE ..YOU ARE MUCH BETTER THAN THAT...CHALK IT OFF AS A LOSS AND MOVE ON TO BIGGER BETTER THINGS...LOSERS WILL ALWAYS BE LOSERS...GETTING EVEN WITH SOMEONE....IS NOT THE ANSWER....DON'T STOOP THAT LOW.....
2ND IDEA:
LOCK HIM IN A JAIL CELL WITH ALOT OF GAY GUYS....HE'LL GET HIS....
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 11/3/2006 2:34:15 PM | Wow, what a Ass he is .....You should be proud of yourself what you did beautiful. You survived and did it , so now be happy and never, never let him see you sweat. That is your revenge, don't let him see you upset.
I had a similar experience...........
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 11/3/2006 3:49:38 PM | you dont get revenge my friend...its just your mind playing tricks on you..i am pretty sure you love this person deep down, and you want to keep the peace. Dont destroy a good friendship that could be (if thats possible with an ex), its happen to me and i used to tell my ex stupid shit all the time, just to make her feel guilty or just put her down, but in the end she just ended up callin me jerk and started to avoid me..and i didnt like this. I was forunate to have an understanding ex, and how we are cool again. so dont let your emotions **** you over mang. | |
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Joined: 10/14/2006
Msg: 161 | |
| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 11/3/2006 3:56:14 PM | Hello Love, No revenge allowed....just move on! It's his loss, not yours, but revenge would be your fault - is it worth it? I DOUBT IT! I could tell you a story or two about my ex - but heck he's not worth the breath I would breath telling the history/story....So love, just move on....Forgive - would be good, I know it takes time...I've been there and done that!!!!!! But I can tell you there is power in forgiveness...Please don't LOL me off POF, I'm just darn right honest.... Hugs Dee  You gotta love it or not! It's okay if you don't... | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 11/4/2006 12:33:12 AM | | I haven't read all the replies to this thread but I do know from experience that happiness is the best revenge. If he sees that this is eating you up, he's as happy as a pig in shi*t. I've had similar, and the only thing that really got to my ex was that I'd found someone who was willing to take me and my/his daughter on. I still have strong feelings of hatred for this person, but that only makes a person ugly. Move on.... unless the law can do something. It's really hard to take the advice of not doing anything, but trust me, it really works. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 11/4/2006 12:42:01 AM |
Invite him out for drinks, spike his drink with a roofie, then dump his body in the ghetto with a dildo in one hand and a KKK hood over his head.
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 11/4/2006 7:26:48 AM | revenge = childish and a waste of time. It is never the appropriate response to anything.
get it out of your system and move on.
An idea: write it all down as if you were perhaps writing him a letter, let it all out... no holding back and then once you're exhausted from that excersize, burn it. Now focus on good things and don't allow it to creep back in. :) I wish you well. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 11/4/2006 8:10:48 AM | If you really "loved" them, why would you want to hurt them?
Even when my relationships end on a bad note... I still dont want to hurt the other person. I can still see the good in them that once attracted me, I just simply realize they're not the one for me and move on.
Revenge = waste of time, just makes you look childish and means that they still have control over you. | |
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