| Why do men like to lead women on?
Posted: 1/18/2006 9:29:43 PM | | You know what i had the pain before, still have some of it now and its not my fault, or her's its just that certain things came up and we had to go our ways, in the end were both hurt. | |
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| Why do men like to lead women on?
Posted: 4/17/2006 10:02:55 AM | women and men do it, just as much as the other.
my motto is ...
never judge all, by the actions of a few ...
or you'll end up alone and miserable  | |
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| Why do men like to lead women on?
Posted: 4/17/2006 11:30:24 AM | | come on guys i have seen some of the women you vote for there are some really nice truthfull females on here but all you guys want are something from a page three paper when you cant get that you turn to the plain jane come on guys get a life | |
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| Why do men like to lead women on?
Posted: 4/17/2006 10:50:31 PM | | I agree, the amount of times I have been jerked around by women who apparently don't know what they want. Its not men its just some people do not feel that bad about using others for whatever they need | |
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| Why do men like to lead women on?
Posted: 4/17/2006 11:07:47 PM | | I sure wish I knew-it has been the theme of my life since one man I *thought* was a nice guy was showing interest in me since last summer/early fall. He then said his heart was broken, and he was not dating-now he is confusing me by hugging me the way a man would hug a woman he wants to know better but also flirting with a younger Hispanic woman....I wish I had enough money so I could move, my dating life definitely stinks...{And he was not the only one...} I was brought up to respect people, but it seems the men are not interested in decent-but sexy,lovable people like me anymore...And as for the sex,I only had one person intererested, so no it is not for sex, I am so attracted to this guy it is frustrating...Horny? You bet! Sex...Well guess that won't be in my life anymore and frankly that really depresses me more than I can say....And I'm not talking about casual sex, but a committed relationship...Argghhh! | |
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| Why do men like to lead women on?
Posted: 4/20/2006 6:52:05 PM | | I don't think men or women really like to lead the opposite sex on, it just seems that way to the one that is more into a person than they are to them....also sometimes the relationship beginnings are better than what it evloves in to....there is always going to be one or the other that feels more at any given point in the relationship...that's natural don't you think?? While you're waiting for the for that guy remember..."...don't look for the person that is right for you, but rather the person that you are right person for..." Peace...ET | |
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| Why do men like to lead women on?
Posted: 4/20/2006 7:07:17 PM | PepperStar,
you are absolutely right. We all know that everyone can be shelfish. But here's what I've found. For the most part, if a woman becomes single, she can handle that for a while until she finds someone who is to her liking. Now again for the most part, I find that when a man becomes single, he usually either already has someone waiting in the wings, evidently someone who he has kept stringing along, or he just gets right back out there and almost immediately finds someone whether he really likes that person or not.
I find that a women can take being alone for a lot longer period of time than a man. And once again, like Pepper said, a man will also keep company with someone even if he's not all that interested. But as soon as he meets another who is more to his liking, that's pretty much it for the other. But a guy like this, will usually not come right out and tell you he's met someone else. Because just in case things don't work out there, he'll still have you. Like I said, men have a terrible time with being on their own. Unfortunately, a good many of them would rather be with someone they don't really care for then be alone.
You know in your heart of hearts if this guy doesn't care for you. Leave him be and move on.
M. | |
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| Why do men like to lead women on?
Posted: 4/20/2006 9:02:21 PM | Hi red1963/M;
I am a woman and I really think the women can take being alone longer is not always true-I think everyone is different....I have been in one or two relationships since my ex left in 1989, and I have really gotten tired of being alone...I've always been a romantic cuddly type of woman , and regardless of whether you believe in astrology or not, I find myself fairly true to the Libra woman type-someone who does better in a committed relationship than being alone. Hard to find compatible men out there, too many hoochies, and drop dead gorgeous exotic types or bisexual men and women competing for the same men...All the escort services out there don't exactly help either-which is one reason I'm back online still looking again...All I need is one good man, that's enough for me.... | |
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| Why do men like to lead women on?
Posted: 4/20/2006 9:16:04 PM | Hi Floridian,
No, please don't misunderstand. I'm not implying that women can or want to be alone forever, or for even a long time. People who are warm, caring and sensitive usually do want to share their feelings with someone they care for. But what I am saying is that and listen to the words, for most women, we will be alone until we find someone our heart can really care for. We have a litte more staying power when it comes to being on our own. And men just can't handle it as well as we can. Of course there are those women who just can't be on there own for long and also need feel the need to latch onto the 1st guy that gives them the time of day. It's just an overall comparison between the strengths/weaknessses between women and men when it comes to being alone.
M. | |
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| Why do men like to lead women on?
Posted: 4/21/2006 12:20:59 AM | | I know that if a a guy isnt interesting enough the guy can feel it.This goes both ways!!!! Women should keep i guy intersted in him as well. My dating expierence has been that the women that i have gone out with are i a sense like kids,they only want to be entertainedand not put in the effort that should be put forth (i.e. kids and video games) they sit back and wait. Women need to stop thinking that they need to be entertained and just enjoy having a nice dinner (bought for them) and thank their lucky stars that a wonderful guy is willing to do that!In this way women do lead guy on into thinking that they have a chance. | |
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| Why do men like to lead women on?
Posted: 4/22/2006 2:04:57 PM | | Honey.women are the same too!.It's a dog eat dog world out there.Keep your guard up.You can only be lead on or used if you allow yourself to be,because you want this to work for you but the other person just takes advantage of you.Be more receptive of whats going on. | |
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| Why do men like to lead women on?
Posted: 4/22/2006 2:08:22 PM |
I've been jerked around BY women
Really? Women do that to? It's hard to imagine, just by me being a woman but I guess it happens. | |
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| Why do men like to lead women on?
Posted: 4/22/2006 2:23:12 PM | | i,m not leadin on to none of the ladys here and won't i,m supriced none have contacted me to see who i,am but i see onbe thing thou those that are rude to others need to remove them selfs of all the dateing sites. THE DOOR SWINGS BOTH WAYS | |
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| Why do men like to lead women on?
Posted: 4/22/2006 3:27:00 PM | Because they are sniviling cowards.I tell the relevent truth."Only one thing;me or dope.Can't do both-your call."To toy with affection is almost larceny by false promise.
Real deal:Why are you pickin'the same sort of guy?
I have many charachter witnesses8-80. If I were accused of lying,nobody who knows me would care-it's not true.
Would you be offended if a guy were to ask you to prove you didn't lead guys on for fun?
Every chance I get to prove I'm God's gift is a reason to show,with all kinds of people,I'm at least honest,and may hurt ya-never on purpose!
Honesty is not offended by truth. | |
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| Why do men like to lead women on?
Posted: 4/3/2008 7:26:31 AM | | Because it is an ego boost for them, cruel to the person being played with however, they aren't thinking of you, they are thinking of themselves....lets face it, no one likes to be played with male or female.... it is just an immature thing to do. | |
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