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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 7/21/2009 8:02:05 AM | | In absence of extreme hopeless situations, suicidal depression tends to be due to imbalances in {i]brain biochemistry, and can even be caused by such things as food allergies (been there, but didn't quite carry it out, obviously). The "broken heart" is typically the trigger, not the real cause. | |
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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 7/21/2009 3:23:09 PM | It's understandable. I was pretty down there when my brother died, and still don't see the point of hanging around here at times, but suicide is a chicken-s--t way out. Don't know what your Biblical or spiritual beliefs are, but I believe if you kill yourself, you won't meet God in the afterlife, because you were created in God's image, and, if you kill yourself, you're killing God.
Have the courage to keep going! Something or someone sweet might be just around the corner! Open up your heart and you'll see... | |
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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 7/22/2009 12:22:15 PM | I doubt that someone 'simply' suicide because someone has walked out on them. The "broken heart" is more likely to be the final straw in a series of issues that finally broke the camel's back...
If someone becomes this depressed they should waste no time in consulting their GP and getting professional counselling. If they're not comfortable doing this, they could initially phone the Samaritans. | |
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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 7/22/2009 5:31:55 PM | When someone you love and have come to depend on for all your happiness in life is not there suddenly or they are treating you like garbage, the pain is like no other except possibly 3rd degree burns over 90% of your body.
You will do anything to get the pain to stop. You can actually feel your heart feeling as if it's split into pieces in your chest. You wake up in the morning to another day of pure torture mentally and emotionally, get through the miserable day as best you can, and go to bed with the pain right there, knowing tomorrow it will be no better, the same thing over and over and over again, with no relief and no one to turn to for comfort.
You are alone and lonely and have no one to talk to and no one who gives a darn about you. Your life is emty and meaningless suddenly. Your possibility for any joy ever again is over. Life is bleak and dismal and hopeless. Images of your one love are in the front of your mind but you can't be with him, you know he is with someone he loves but it isn't you. You would do anything for him, even wishing him happiness with his love even though you are in so much pain from it.
This is when you think of suicide. It's like why bother going through day after day after day of unrelenting pain? You just can't take it any more.
It takes a lot of bravery to know that some sweet day this will all be a distant memory, and you can find some peace and comfort in life.
Lots of people never make it to that point. | |
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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 7/22/2009 10:12:39 PM | | it might be dumb wingsonmyfeet to commit suicide.but when you are in the dark and no one there to listen and no one cares....i think we are just human beings not to think commiting suicide.......sometimes we dont want to feel the pain we are experiencing...sometimes we just think its the only way out ......we all know that its a coward thing to do.....but when you are in that dark side ..........its just to impossible not to think what is right and wrong......as we are living in imperfect world | |
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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 7/23/2009 1:56:07 AM | In their tortured minds, the thought of dying on the dumper's account sounds very romantic and martyrish. The suicidal person, at least to some degree, believes it will make the dumper sorry for the pain caused.
Trouble? Suicidal person, if successful, won't be around to obtain satisfaction.
Dumb, dumb and very self-absorbed; also extremely emotionally/mentally ill and in desperate need of medical treatment and therapy. | |
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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 7/23/2009 6:57:44 AM | Thing is, when the brain biochemistry's all out of whack, rational, psychological explanations are to absolutely no avial. All that talk about "having a lot to live for," and such, even if very true, just does not register, or get through.
I know. I've been there. And it was due to -- of all things -- food allergies, in my case. Yes, food allergies! Eliminating those very common foods from my diet turned it right around within a few days of "clearing out." Nothing else changed, but my diet, and the suicidal depression went away, just like that! Totally changed my perspective on the whole issue. | |
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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 7/23/2009 7:05:26 AM | I have had my shares of having a broken heart but reality is that no person in this world is worth taking ur own life. Although I'm one of d very few ppl that realize this but life is precious and should not be thrown away. That person just needs to love themselves. | |
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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 7/23/2009 9:37:35 AM | Everyone I've known who did it had people right there who would have listened, and definitely had people who cared, they just shut the door on everyone , the only person they want is the one that broke their heart.
There are very very few people in this world who are completely alone. it's the people who create alone in their minds who commit suicide | |
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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 7/23/2009 3:24:56 PM | | Whats that gonna help? Sure they will be sad and hurt and feel like they caused you to do that... Then a few months will pass by and he will be with someone new... You wanna hurt him for the pain he caused you? Go sleep with his friend lmao jk dont do that I was so kidding dont flame me please | |
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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 7/23/2009 4:19:03 PM | I am in agreement with Working Girl that the act of committing suicide is a permanent solution for what is just a temporary situation, your hurting deeply.
I once heard/read that suicide is the most sincere for self-criticism that there is, but if accomplished, there are no way back. There are ways back from a broken heart, there are ways back from losing the one that means the very most to you, but suicide is not an option as it is “End-Game” if completed.
There will (for the best chance) always be another one waiting not that far away, and if by chance you hadn’t noticed, there are well over one-hundred thousand fish on this site every single day, we are all looking for the same thing, just in our own distinct way.
Yours (suicide) is not what one would read in the standard profile, and writing your thread and starting this avenue in this Forum, may have narrowed your chances with the right one, but it may also show that you have a very large and warm heart.
As a fellow human being (male) I and very much hoping that its not the real you that is thinking of doing this tragic act, as I feel that there is no one on this planet that is worth ending your life over. This person that has you at wits-end is not worth the pain that you will cause to your family, not worth the pain that you will cause your fiends, and is certainly not worth taking yourself out of the picture for good.
Let’s look at your future, not the past, as the past is just that, “The Past” and in order to continue down the road, you must take time to think of what you are planning. Look at those faces that love you (family and friends) and think of what they would feel deep inside if they woke tomorrow morning to find out what you did.
I am not trying to talk you out of anything, just give love a chance. We all do, so why can’t you???
Again, look at you in the mirror and think this and only this, “think of all the people that love you very much (your family, your friends) that you are going to hurt by doing this, do you want them to feel a loss like you are feeling. Please before you say to yourself that it’s time, contact the Crisis Center in your area, as they are there to help you, to define your self worth, and to keep you from doing something that is tragic as taking your own life.
It takes an incredible amount of fortitude to accomplish this act and first you must overcome the fear of death itself.
Talk with friends, talk with family, talk with complete strangers as to get this out of your mind, as sure, it is quick and painless, it could be very frightening, but not worth it whatsoever. | |
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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 7/23/2009 11:47:03 PM | The thing about suicidal depression so many people just don't get (or abjectly refuse to acknowledge) is that in most cases the "pep talks," counseling, "guilt-tripping," and good advice are just this side of useless, because it's the brain biochemistry that's running the show.
Trying to rationally convince most suicidal people to want to live is like expecting a person with below average math skills to do differential equations. 
Most depressed people (unlike most paranoid schizophrenics) want to feel better, but don't know how. The best thing one can do is point them in the direction of doctors who can help them ... the caveat being that sometimes (as in my former depression), conventional drug-oriented psychiatry misses the mark, and the cause might be something as unexpected as chemical sensitivity, parasite infections, systemic Candida "yeast" infection (a very common one), or food allergies.
So ultimately it often comes down to the strength of one's will to get better.
Of course, abuse of certain drugs such as cocaine (especially crack), ex, or meth can completely burn out one's mood-elevating neurotransmitters, such that they need to be artificially boosted to alleviate depression for the rest of their lives. Such people are incapable of feeling good without some sort of biochemical assistance. | |
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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 7/24/2009 1:33:41 AM | | It's not worth it. Think of all the people who care about you and would miss you if you're gone. You would only be hurting those nearest and dearest to you. Life is hard, and love is even harder, but suicide is a pemanent solution to a temporary problem. | |
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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 7/24/2009 4:39:56 AM |
When someone you love and have come to depend on for all your happiness in life is not there suddenly or they are treating you like garbage, the pain is like no other except possibly 3rd degree burns over 90% of your body.
You will do anything to get the pain to stop. You can actually feel your heart feeling as if it's split into pieces in your chest. You wake up in the morning to another day of pure torture mentally and emotionally, get through the miserable day as best you can, and go to bed with the pain right there, knowing tomorrow it will be no better, the same thing over and over and over again, with no relief and no one to turn to for comfort.
You are alone and lonely and have no one to talk to and no one who gives a darn about you. Your life is emty and meaningless suddenly. Your possibility for any joy ever again is over. Life is bleak and dismal and hopeless. Images of your one love are in the front of your mind but you can't be with him, you know he is with someone he loves but it isn't you. You would do anything for him, even wishing him happiness with his love even though you are in so much pain from it.
This is when you think of suicide. It's like why bother going through day after day after day of unrelenting pain? You just can't take it any more.
It takes a lot of bravery to know that some sweet day this will all be a distant memory, and you can find some peace and comfort in life.
Lots of people never make it to that point.
Well said. Someone just hurt me really bad and this is exactly what it feels like. And this is the straw that broke the camel's back so to speak. I can see how easy it would be just to do it. When you're fed up and have had enough of life and being crapped on day after day, suicide does seem like a valid option. | |
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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 7/30/2009 8:54:05 AM | I'm currently going through a very painful time at the moment too, man i adored and loved with everything i am left me a little over 2 weeks ago. My instant reaction was i can't live and the thoughts of oh my god not again. How could i let this person destroy my heart, simple i gave it him to destroy. Worst thing is this guy says *hes confused* and *still as feelings for me* BUT wants to remain friends. This is screwing with my head so much, il admit i felt like ending my life. Thats all it was tho, i felt like it BUT i wouldn't do such a thing. Like many have said what would this actually achieve, you kill your self and leave a trail of broken hearts in the form of ( Family & Friends ). How selfish would such a act be?, answer is very!.
I am inlove with this guy still and am dealing with the pain, to stick with it a deal with the pain shows more strengh than to kill your self. Eventually you will move on and meet someone new as will I. Just let time do its job, learn from what you had together and heal. Don't rush healing, it takes time and you need to be fully happy and over the past. Keep the memory sure but never let the past relationship and how bad that person in the end made you feel dictate your future relationships.
No ( ONE ) person is worth ending your life over!, good luck to you and whom ever else may have felt like this.
Take care | |
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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 8/1/2009 7:58:15 AM | These are the things people should think about when they are treating others in a cruel and unfeeling way.
it is amazing how selfish people can be, you get offered love and give coldness in return. pain is something that eats your very soul and if we were all aware of that the world would be a nicer place.
Stick by your commitments and mean them.
Coldness runs the street in this world and the problem is the cold heartless person that caused such pain will feel none in your passing, the only solice is the pain will be over .... FINALLY. | |
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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 8/3/2009 4:05:10 PM | Bottom line, we are our brothers keeper.
People dont takes these things lightley and to those that say love your self, it is self love that leads to this, to love your self enough to not let yourself suffer like this.
When you people (male and female) raise the hopes of others and dash them because you felt no butterflies, or tell them your love them in one breath then drop off the planet for days you contribute by the laws of causality.
Ask yourself would this HUMAN being still be alive if I had shown love back?
often the answer is yes. And if you DO feel love for a person then show it, make him/her a priority, live like this is your lovers last day on earth, and he/she will have a reason to think the world aint so bad, but I am sure many of you arent listening, you too absorbed in your own lives and will continue to view your SO"s like a spare tire or something to do on your day off and the hurt will continue. | |
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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 8/4/2009 3:45:12 AM | I think that if someone is thinking like this than they need to got get some help. Go see a psychiatrist or talk to your doctor, take medicine, etc.
As far as is suicide selfish, from the outside looking in. But in truth depression and suicidal thoughts is actually cause by a chemical imbalance in the brain which the person experiencing them can not control with out help. Though if they do not get help when needed and/or those that love them don't help them get help that is wrong. Someone depressed and suicidal is not always able to make good decisions.
GET HELP, if you feel like that!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart??
Posted: 8/4/2009 6:27:29 AM | i nearly did once.
met a girl about my age, only 21 so obviously very beautiful
overheard here say she already had a boyfriend (she knew i'd have been listening)
didn't mean to catch her conversation.... she acted quite "nice" to me so i automatically (as most guys do) assume the best as we are optomists..
anyway..when i found out she was with someone i was very upset..
i took a blanket up to my room and was a bout to hang myself over the door with it when a mate stepped in and stopped me.....(please let there be some haapppiinnneessss.......
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