| When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 9/5/2006 11:29:57 PM | Very nice comments. I tend to agree with you about the difference in relationships between men and women.
True buddies are grate, just look at the veterans of the 2 grate wars and they well tell you about some grate friends and comrades, something that most women well never understand.
And to the men that let themselves be used by manipulating women all I have to say is, “Grow some balls man”, there is plenty of non manipulating people out there.
A true friend dose not use you. Think about that. | |
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| When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 9/7/2006 6:56:58 AM | Hey dude i remember one sentence my dad told me and i never forget that look for some one who loves you not you love them and keep searching for that kind person i hope you will find ...............!
and dont give up ...... | |
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| When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 9/7/2006 5:32:19 PM | | Hey buddy you need to find another hot chick to take your mind off shes a waste of time shes playing games blow her out and move on | |
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| When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 9/9/2006 2:33:57 PM | My bestest friend is a man and yeah...with privledges...I happen to honour and respect him (& him ...me!!) above all eles...when you find yourself...raking yourself over the coals...thats the time to bail..thats when its not healthy....& you always got to look after #1..!! | |
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| When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 9/9/2006 2:42:48 PM | Sometimes she just wants the take things slow..so give it time ...not all women want a fast relationship..it makes things wayy....too complicated...
so try to be patient she might love you but want to make sure its true luvv | |
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| When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 9/9/2006 2:49:30 PM | | Don't listen to jazzhomie..end the friendship..clear your mind..let the clouds part..and begin a new life without her..i'm not gonna go in to my long boring story, but it almost brought me to the brink..it's a ****ed up situation (how can we explain it?) when a woman wants to **** some dude in the back of a car instead of a beautiful friend..it's a cruel truth though..and by the way..she will NEVER cave in..her mind is made up..YOU ARE A FRIEND..she won't give you a chance..just get out of there..it pains me to write this because I am revisiting some of my old feelings for this one girl and the cruel truth I had to face that she didn't find me attractive.. | |
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| When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 9/9/2006 2:54:24 PM | | ladder theory has some good basic points but don't get caught up in it..it is obsessive and even mysoginist..the point is ..if you love a friend and she doesn't love you back and you are obsessing and can't function properly..yes..the sad truth is..it is best to end relations, i think..one main thing you realize is that the relationship wasn' as beautiful as you thought it was..and if it was..well, you'd be sleeping with her wouldn't you..so it's best to move on and clear your head.. | |
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| When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 9/9/2006 2:58:37 PM | OK, you need to realize that most women speak in code.
Here are a few translations:
"I like when a man is a gentleman." Translation: I like a dumbass who will pay for everything.
"I just want a man who is honest and won't play games with me." Translation: I want a guy
I can lie to and manipulate, but I don't want him to do the same. I prefer to play games,
not be played.
"I just want us to be friends, is that OK?" Translation: You are never, ever gonna see or
touch my boobs! Understand?
If you hear any of these lines, pay for your half of dinner/drinks and dump her. She's playing
you. | |
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| When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 9/9/2006 2:58:44 PM | I've suffered from this with my last relationship. Things were so good... and then BAM just the she just wanted to be friends. I continued to do everything I had been for her and I think she lost all respect for me by doing that.
The times when she was nicest to me were the times I told her I had just about had enough. She kept stringing me along... Well the string can only be so long... I had to cut it or lose all respect for myself. I've learned it's not fun to get repeatedly kicked in the teeth and going back for more.
I'm now starting a new relationship. I'm doing my very best to hold back and she's doing the same. It seems the harder we try to hold back, the more attraction we are feeling for each other.
I don't really understand it, it's not a game or anything but it's a lot more fun than any game I've ever played. It's like a dance.
Learn to dance, my friend. | |
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| When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 9/10/2006 8:08:17 AM | | from a females point of veiw i agree with spidy we woman do want a challenge if it's easy we don't want it/ but it's the same with u men. Want some advise make yourself less and less available. ever heard absence make the heart grow fonder. | |
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| When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 9/10/2006 11:12:33 AM | | Just read the title... personally, if I really like a guy; but he just wants to be friends, I usually simply leave him be... too hard on the head to hang out and be friends with a person you want more from. | |
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| When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 9/14/2006 1:12:35 PM | This is a classic example of chemistry on overdrive. She can't help herself with the other guy. Simple as that. If you get serious with her he'll always be in the background as a temptation. I know all about this and it works every bit as strongly for women as it does for men, maybe stronger. Give it up Cusack. Try making movies instead. And take the guy above's advice seriously about not doing anything for her anymore. Maybe you can be friends, but I need friends 3 hours away that make me do work like I need a hole in the head. | |
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| When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 9/15/2006 4:30:22 AM | | Take it from a woman. It's supposed to be a kind way to tell you that you don't fit the bill as her ideal mate. You should accept it and move on otherwise you run the risk of her losing all respect for you, especially if you ALLOW her to use you as a doormat. | |
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| When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 9/16/2006 7:31:30 PM | LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL
Yes it is true that women need a challenge, If we wanted a puppy dog, we'd buy one
the woman is bad news, my friend | |
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| When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 9/18/2006 2:01:13 PM | | Being "just friends" with a woman is the worst thing that you can do when actual feelings are involved. Every time she goes out, you'll tear yourself apart wishing it was you, when she gets screwed over it will hurt you because you would have never done such a thing. She would respect you more if you told her "look, it's all or nothing, I know what I'm worth, and if you don't then I'm sorry, and I hope you find whatever it is you're looking for". Tell her that and walk. She's more likely to come out of it that way rather than you letting her have her cake and eat it, too. There comes a time when you have to grow a pair and send them packing. "You learn how to love something when you realize that it can be lost" | |
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| When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 9/22/2006 4:19:15 PM | Well...I'm truly sorry to hear about how that lady had given you plenty of heartaches and headaches. I know how that could feel to really love someone unconditionaly and getting nothing back in return. You do need to move on with your life and see what the Lord has instore for you. I'm sure there is something way better than that. Patience is the key! Very tough...I understand. I've been in a bad relationship myself and believe me, I do not ever want to remember that again.
Personaly...I think it was pretty dumb of you to have sex with her just like that. Yes, I know we all make mistakes in our lives, but there is absolutely no such thing of any of us being perfect in this world either...only GOD!!! May I ask where you met her?
It is really important not to set your energy, emmotions, heart and feelings right away with a person until you get to know them from head to toe. And I don't mean this literally or metaphoracly! Just continue to hang in there and things will fall into place for you.
Anyway...best of luck in your search for love and God bless you always! | |
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| When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 9/22/2006 9:02:34 PM | | Wow...I went out with this guy one time a few years ago and his sister also has three children from three different dads. That was exactly my question. | |
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| When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS
Posted: 9/25/2006 10:33:31 AM | | I was posting to the freinds with benefits mess.......I hate that club!!I did'nt want ta b there but landed that fish anyway. Not many men act their age or know what they want either!! Not gonna happen again, and u know who u r!! ha ha Now I need to find the.......when guys wanna b just freinds!! | |
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