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| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/4/2006 7:50:27 PM | personally I don't mind a man whose living with parents but paying for rent, groceries ,etc.. you know paying his way... but yea a man who mooches off his parents not cool..
I own a 2 fam home with my parents... I live with them..technically.. but I also pay for the majority of things and have choosen to remain with them as their caregiver because they are getting older.. its a choice I've made.. but definately I don't mooche off my parent s.. they wouldn't be able to get by financially without my help.. why would I take from them.
saddly a lot of people don't have that mentality | |
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Peep13
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Joined: 1/23/2006
Msg: 78 | |
| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/4/2006 9:00:46 PM | If there's no good reason for it and he's just saving money to buy toys and it is causing him not to grow up...pathetic. Big turn-off for me and I'll never date a guy who lives at home again.  | |
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| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/4/2006 9:02:39 PM | | hahahahah for me when i was a teen living at home i never had to buy toys like video games and stuff my mom was into them more then i was so i just played hers. thats about the only thing i miss is all her video games oh and maybe her paying the food bill god i tell ya i now understand what she meant by put the fork down. | |
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| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/4/2006 11:14:15 PM | In our family no one leaves home until they get married regardless if whether they have the money or not. If u look at how the family unit has degraded these days it really makes u wonder why more people dont live at home. I mean who else out there can u trust more then the ones who helped bring u into this world. The family unit is almost nothing, makes u wonder why huh | |
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| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/4/2006 11:25:21 PM | | I wonder what sex was like in the Walton's home? Or in any other large home where you have kids, grandparents, parents, e.t.c all living under one big roof? I guess most of the sexual stuff would have to be pretty low-key and non-vocal? hehe | |
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AI03™
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Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 83 | |
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| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/4/2006 11:29:47 PM | | hey now i dont mooch off my mom but if she is making dinner and invites me over your damn right i will go home for one of my moms home cooked meals. is that so wrong HELL NO. | |
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AI03™
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Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 85 | |
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| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/4/2006 11:38:18 PM | | oh i will take a free meal from my mom but live with her not unless they want another person on death row for killing there parents lmao. my mom oh man she went thru the roof when she found i got a tattoo she just got acceptance of it after the tenth lmao. | |
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AI03™
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Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 87 | |
| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/4/2006 11:42:09 PM | ^^ Gotta love the 'rents huh? It's like they skipped being a youngin when it's their kid that does something they don't understand. I told mine that my tatt was "washable". And much as I LOVE them, I haven't lived with them since I was 18, and couldn't now unless they had a west wing for me. | |
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| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/4/2006 11:44:11 PM | | i aint lived wit my mom since i was 15 and i am never even going to think of living with my parents they kicked me out cause my bros were caught with drugs and they kicked me because they thought i was doing drugs. i wasnt i was just drinking. wich was still unfair cause they kicked me for not even trusting me. | |
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| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/5/2006 2:18:38 AM | | Just to make a point...i live with my parents because my father is Disabled with Parkinson's Disease, a Kidney infection and cancer of the blood. , along with diabetes and he has two stints in his heart. needless to say, i have no job/car/money because i spend alot of time being there for my father, so there are situations where living with your parents is nessicary.... | |
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| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/5/2006 3:47:18 AM | | If there is not a good reason and they are there just for free rent,food,having mom take care of them,then yeah that's a BIG turn off,although you see more and more of it these days. | |
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| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/5/2006 7:03:43 AM | | you have now two people living in huge homes, no parents, no kids on the way, ask them if they are having ANY sex... vocal or not. | |
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| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/5/2006 8:13:32 AM | OK . HOLD IT you woman don't have to worry IF mom or dad die BUT us males do . Some of us men live at home for a reason to take of mom annd dad til they pass away . Guess who has to pay to put mom or dad in a nursing home ? NOT the woman . it is the sons . they have to pay for the funneral because the girls name change . the sons don't .  | |
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| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/5/2006 9:15:35 AM | er.. when my grandparents passed all the children paid for the funeral...
that is not true... honestly it doesnt matter if you have to pay for it or not..thats not a valid excuse for living off your parents.. another thing is now in this day and age.. most adult/edlerly people have their arrangements premade and paid for for funeral expenses..
and might I add.. that when children live off their parents they usually end up nothing having money to pay for anything.. the other siblings who are married and more responsible end up paying for the expenses and often time taking in the mooching sibling cause they are to irresponsible to live alone. | |
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| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/5/2006 9:51:10 AM | well my brothe is going to be 40 and he is still living with my mum.
he was quite successful with the girls until recently, most of the girls did nto mind him living with mum, even he brough to live with him one of his girlfriends for over 7 years and the girl was happy | |
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| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/5/2006 10:33:31 AM | | I don't think you shoudl judge someone on where they live you do not know the curcimstance as to why they are living there. | |
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| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/5/2006 11:13:27 AM | | I agree Fishey, they must pull their weight. It just seems to me that most people just wanna live on their own and families dont really get along that well or compromise with each other anymore these days. I wonder if this is why there are many more problems with true intimacy these days. | |
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| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/5/2006 11:16:02 AM | Dacainaru you are talking about kids that want to leech off their parents. This is different then kids that pull their own weight. Where my parents come from the nursing homes dont make much money because the kids will never put their parents in one. Know why?
one answer: THE FAMILY UNIT!!!! | |
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| Adults living at home with Mom and Dad
Posted: 2/5/2006 11:36:18 AM | | absolute turn-off. i dated a woman with TWO kids living at home. well, the sex was good, however, the relationship didn't survive. felt like i was in high-school, spending the night, in a basement, while her parents and kids were upstairs. ugh. | |
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