me.too
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Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 676 | |
| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 1/19/2008 12:30:06 PM | A man with beautiful, sparklie eyes...
He looks at me and tells me how beautiful I am and how much he wants to F**K me...
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 1/19/2008 12:45:15 PM | Alright well i guess i will take the bait at bite on this.
Turn on- when she nibbles softly on my ear.... i melt like a popisicle during summer and become helpless to her.
Turn off- arrogance easy enough | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 1/19/2008 12:48:29 PM | Turn on from across the room: A leather studded band around his bicep or pierced nipples. Don't ask me why. I have no clue. Maybe it's something about the kind of guy who would wear or do that, but the physical response is immediate and strong.
Once we're closer, I like it when they talk when we're cheek to cheek and don't feel like doormats to me. Someone really needs to be as strong as I am to date me.
Turn offs: Lying and seeming pimptastic. If a guy lies to me or is surrounded by women when we meet, I assume he's taken by one or just a player and move on. | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 1/19/2008 1:28:38 PM | I like a guy with a great smile that loves to laugh.
turn off is a jacked up smile with bad/missing teeth and bad breath. | |
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tngolf
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Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 680 | |
| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 1/19/2008 2:28:54 PM | | A woman in a pair of worn wranlgers. Bare footed with a wife-beater t shirt, nothing underneath, leaning in the doorframe of the house when I get home from work. My girlfriend flashing her breasts in a crowded club, while looking right at me... | |
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tngolf
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Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 681 | |
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RodNut
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Joined: 12/21/2007
Msg: 682 | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 1/19/2008 9:45:17 PM | With my current and fairly new man.. looooooooove it when he just gently squeezes my ass as he brushes past... mmmmmmmm 
When we are in bed, i love to hear him tell me how much he likes to fvck me... not a word i like usually but hearing him say it then... instant melt... | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 1/19/2008 11:55:25 PM | I turns me on when the right person grabs me and kisses me slowly starting at my lips and moveing down my chin to my neck and shoulders moving up and down my neck and shoulders.
Turn offs bad teeth, bad slobery kisses and stupid people. | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 1/22/2008 10:00:01 PM | Turn ons: the physical stuff others have mentioned, but here's one I didn't discover until a recent date -- a mental connection. I have some views on work and school that run a bit against conventional wisdom (not in a bad or anarchist sort of way). This girl that I was with, though, holy crap. It's like she was reading my mind, and not just once either. It was again and again and again.
It didn't last with her, unfortunately, because:
1) She swore like sailor.
2) She slouched.
3) She had virtually no muscle tone. She wasn't fat, but given how much she works out, I was expecting just a little bit of definition.
Most importantly though, she didn't contain her stress well. She'd get angry with her friends and family. There's always going to be some sort of stress in your life so if you take it out on others, that's a HUGE turnoff. | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 1/22/2008 10:23:26 PM | | the way he leans into me...his hands just barely resting on my hips....and then his lips brush my cheek as he whispers in my ear.... | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 1/23/2008 7:29:02 AM | | Sexiness, Intelligence, Charm and a witty sense of Humour turns me on. It's just so damn difficult to get all of that in one package however... | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 1/23/2008 8:30:11 AM | A man with a job.................mmmmm, gets me going everytime.....lol
Hmmmm, lets not forget, great teeth, beautiful eyes, a goatee, tattoos....muscular arms, bonus if your bald.( I will hump your leg) if you can speak in proper english, also HOT!!! HEY where is this man???? | |
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| SECRETS.....Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Posted: 1/23/2008 8:35:05 AM | Well i didn't know until I had one guy I was with, during sex he would say "Such a good girl for me" that drove me crazy in a good way.......
But my biggest is a certain growl, only certain men with deep voices can do it....It's not just a grrrr but a growl....I will melt and I am all yours IF you can do it  | |
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| SECRETS.....Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Posted: 1/23/2008 9:21:41 AM | Turn ons? I like a sexually strong woman. So if she can step up and tell me what she wants then I'm hers. "KISS ME!" FVCK ME! Go wash my car!
Well maybe not that last one but you get my point.
Turn offs. Easy one. All the guys know this one I'm sure. When you start out your date and say "I was thinking we could do blah blah blah OR blah blah blah and SHE SAYS.... "I don't know" in that sickening sweet voice. Like fingernails on a freakin chalk board. UGH! Just pick one. CHRIST! Do you have a brain and an opinion or are you just good lookin in the kiddie end of the pool?
Ladies I don't mean to stereotype but if you want a guy to stay with you then communication WITH us is just as important as communication FROM us.
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 1/23/2008 9:31:39 AM | Clean cut man in a shirt with a collar turning his sleeves up...men's ankles in dress socks...a man in an apron...good driving...good guys, basically!
KILTS, KILTS, KILTS!!!!!!!! | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 1/23/2008 10:00:38 AM | | A woman in a pair of jogging pants in a nice restaurant spewing off a rant on something in an intellectual field... | |
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| SECRETS.....Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Posted: 1/23/2008 1:37:04 PM | | SensualAquarian: You totally rock. I do that growl thing. Infact my friends tease me about it because it doesnt take much for me to do it. Hahahahaha. I thought I was just weird. Good to know there are others out there. | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 1/23/2008 5:25:24 PM | instant turn ons
clean hands and well groomed nails
manners, he opens the door
likes to cuddle (really)
thoughtful and considerate
good conversation, varied interests
a good dancer
can make me laugh
instant turn offs
dresses like a 16 yr old boy
talks and doesn't let me get as word in edgewise
smokes
drinks too much
asks too many personal questions early on
his place is dirty
bad grooming | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 1/23/2008 6:21:27 PM | | Watching a big, hairy, rough, tough, manly guy being tender with a child or older person or someone who needs help. | |
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