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Msg: 726 | |
| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/3/2008 8:02:24 AM | a confident lady, one that knows her sexuality is her power.
any woman has this power over men, the most "playboy" type men will act like puppy dogs if the lady has confidence in her sexuality.
or a tastfull tat or piercing. | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/3/2008 10:46:06 AM | T A L L . . Long Legs . . a Pretty Smile . . Hourglass shape . . Fishnets . . and . .
L O N G Hair . . !! . .    . . | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/3/2008 11:01:40 AM | YOU are an instant turn on. I like women who enjoy sex, and are not afraid of showing it.
Get in TOUCH ASAP | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/3/2008 11:25:30 AM | AS per most guys allmost anything SHE would do to let ME know hey... lets go NOW! saying it hinting at it anything.... my top 2 hmmmmmmm
Dirty talking like completely serious and vulgar.... not *giggle giggle* you wanna fool around *giggle gigle* ... Reaching over on the couch and grabbing my junk and saying mmmmmm god i want your hot C()ck in my mouth !... or taking my hand like on her crotch or something and saying hmmmm do I feel wet to you? in a playfull mannor......
Most women I dated can only do this like "kidding" and not like OMFG serious ....its all about additude....
but good lord you could write it down and drop it in my lap or something......
a close second..... and I mean close....... Video games !!!! a slightly but still fem Geeky® gamer chick FORGET IT....... then you can play all like little sexual favor games like ok ok ok fine but if i win this time you have to give me a crazy long slow super nice BJ for 15 mins !!!! k......go !
turn offs: ugh.... the "i don't need a man" additude... flame me if you like.. we are not talking about omfg oh baby oh baby oh baby how can I please you.. im all for chicks with confidence and morals and independance but .... come on... that just tells me and most other guys........ ive been hurt about 1/2 billion times.... this time... ill consider you but don't get your hopes up .. or something like that...
close second: hmmmm ill go with....women who are close minded about sex. that includes feeling the need to say things like *right up front* sure you can call me but im not in to phone sex... WHAT!@ i wasn't even asking good lord !................... or like won't even talk about it.. im not talking planning on doing it anytime soon ill wait for 3 to 6 months if you REALLY NEED TO... but damn it.. we can talk about it.. send pics letters SOMETHING to fill that need... good lord ! =P~
oh oh oh .. i f you at in public a bar, club ... the mall.. the movies... don't matter really... maybe not the grocery store.. and you say NOTHING... and just slip your panties in ANY GUYS pocket..... FORGET IT... we are leaving NOW and IF we make it home and not pull over on the highway..... its your fault not mine.... | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/3/2008 12:20:18 PM | Instant turn on.....
A guy who smells good... has a sense of style...
looks pulled together, but a bit rumpled.
Great eyes are a definite plus...
Guys who give good hugs... | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/3/2008 3:09:02 PM | Chemistry! When two people interact and everything is just clicking, they pick up on one anothers sunconcious signals, etc. I have found myself painfully attracted to people I would not have had an interest in if the chemistry didn't exist.
At work we scope out guys all the time and universally they are all guys that take care of themselves... they're clean, smell good and they look healthy, not too thin or overweight, good skin, etc. (Some of the chicks I work with are in their 40's and 50's and they check out guys that could be my dad. So weird. Anyway...). Past that things like hair and eye color, race and so on are subjective.
For my turnoffs...
Men who ASSUME things about me based on my age, race, height, etc. If they are so overconfident that they think I want them, the kind who won't leave you alone until they get a number. Being relentless is NOT a turn on. The ones that don't know me and just do the typical 'see a chick in public and approach her' don't have a chance. I had a man twice my age chase me through Walmart demanding if I was single or not, saying a ring on my ring finger couldn't be an engagement ring (and it wasn't) and saying I HAD to give him my number if I was a 'Nice girl'.
Stupid people... ignorance... people who can't use propr grammar or spelling in a message online or speak correctly in person, or whose opinions show that they are not open to anything which disagrees with what they personally believe. People who are unworldy and pretend that the world outside of their life and immediate family does not exist.
People who are dirty. Maybe that sounds cruel, but if you show up to see me and you're gross without a good reason to be, instant turn off. Guys who say all the cheesy token things like they're sticking quarters in the 'get in her pants' machine. We all know that game. Quit trying. :P | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/3/2008 3:16:47 PM | turn ons ;
smells good
looks after himself
tight white boxers
strong arms
dirty talk
being called "my girl"
my panties pulled aside
and being slipped a length !!!!!!!
turn offs ;
smelly breath
b.o
not had a shave ( unless hes got designer stubble !)
y fronts
no personality
he lasts 2 mins lol | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/3/2008 3:22:55 PM | For me it is a lady with dark dark brown or Black hair with bright BLUE eyes . Where a good figure is also very important it will never over shadow the hair and the hair and the eyes described ....
Also a lady with an attitude of the Glass is always half full (IE) an optomist someone that finds the good things in every situation | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/3/2008 4:10:43 PM | Instant turn on?
Animalistic up against the wall passion
When we are out somewhere and he looks at me with that "I want you now" look and we both know we can't leave yet.
Biggest turn on of all? A man who doesn't play games and doesn't expect me to read his mind. If we have good communication I feel free to cut loose.
Turn off? A man who never tells me what he wants but expects me to just "figure it out".
Physically? Bad teeth, a picture of the deer he just shot. | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/3/2008 4:56:31 PM | Instant turn on? Hairy chest. Nice, manly hands, LONG slow kisses, kisses on my neck w/gentle sucking, holding my hands down while having sex (just that little bit of force jacks up the sexy factor), complimenting my body (hey, at least I'm honest about the need for compliments!)
Instant turn offs? Certain dirty talk, like mentioning "daddy", or when it sounds false, bad kissing, criticism, talking bad about other people, putting down other people, having too big of an ego.
Kaylie | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/3/2008 5:34:26 PM | | Instant turn on? When he comes up behind me to kiss my neck and he smells like a MILLION bucks- right there where we are will do it for me! | |
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| Turn-ons .... and offs
Posted: 2/3/2008 9:01:39 PM | Turn-ons: a glint in th eye; THAT smile, he he; licking my ear, or kissing my neck; a finger running up the small of my back, as we are engaged in conversation.
Turn-offs: cigarette smoke on clothes or lips, hair; selfishness in the bedroom. | |
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| Oh my... here goes
Posted: 2/3/2008 11:15:23 PM | I like a man who knows when to be in control. Sometimes the concept of being pushed up against the wall and waking the neighbors really just gets me going.
Aside from that, brains. I love a man who can write and speak well, and who can converse on a variety of topics. I love a man who has interests and is passionate about them and can be engaging.
Turn offs:
Bigotry, as a historian, I find this one hard to deal with
Lack of interests or passions, seriously, what is it that you do? nothing? anything?
Poor listening skills, I am a person, not furniture that every now and again makes a sound. | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/3/2008 11:19:07 PM | | When a woman can do "The Look", the best way I can describe it is affectionate and passionate and very directed. I think I am turning myself on just thinking about it. | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/5/2008 7:00:14 AM | | I love it when women wear a red maids outfit or dresses like a school girl. you know the kind britney spears wore when she started her career. | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/8/2008 1:20:38 PM | Turn ons:
When a woman REALLY digs me and I can feel it. When she is attentive to me and gives me 'scritchies' (which is nails on skin, not a disease) and cuddles. When she is horny more than not. LOL. When she dresses in the whole vampish makeup/slitskirt/high heels thing. When she cooks for me then seduces me. When she tells me what she thinks about me, and it's positive, and it's real.
Turn offs: When she controls. Judges. Manipulates. Lies. Cheats. Does drugs. Cuts me off of sex. Stops being affectionate. Starts dating a new guy. Leaves me stranded. (Oh hell, I just described the 'ex'.... lol) | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/8/2008 1:22:05 PM | | O I forget: SENSUOUS, TEASING, SOFT YET OCCASIONALLY DEEP KISSES.... I can tell how artful a woman is in bed by how she kisses.... more than once have I been turned off by a woman who kisses awfully. | |
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roddw
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Joined: 1/7/2008
Msg: 747 | |
| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/8/2008 1:29:45 PM | visually, an athletic body and a long tongue.
sexually, everything! especially a blow job from a latin girl with c cups, a thong or botty shorts, a killer tan with a drooling problem, who has been hypnotized at a comedy show... to think that cum has the flavor of Baileys Irish cream. | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/11/2008 7:42:51 PM | instant turn on is KISSING. Kissing makes me super wet!
instant turn off: a guy who just lays there when i'm giving him oral. i prefer men to be a little more involved (i.e. run his hands through my hair, hands down my back, etc etc) | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/11/2008 9:39:27 PM | Turn-ons:
1) A woman wearing femanine clothing. (as in, skirts, dresses, tight jeans, heels, etc...)
2) Stockings/pantyhose
3) A woman that cares about how she looks, at least the majority of the time.
4) A sense of humor.
5) Honesty and Openness
6) Openmindedness
7) Respect (Being treated as a human being, and not as insignificant compared to them)
8) Someone who likes to read.
Instant Turn-ons:
1) A good kiss
2) Touching the back of my neck
3) Grabbing my ass.
4) Seductive eyes
Instant Turn-offs:
1) Touching my lower back
2) B*itching/whining/complaining
3) Sloppy drunkenness
4) Snobbiness
5) Massive quantities of facial piercings (2-3 earrings are fine, a nose-stud, is fine. Lip rings, gauged earlobes, and bars in noses or eye brows are very distasteful)
Turn-offs:
1) Baggy clothes (like baggy jeans, shorts, shorts, etc...)
2) disrespect
3) partying all the time
4) Not liking seafood
5)Not liking animals | |
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