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 caramelkiss31
Joined: 2/5/2008
Msg: 751
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A turn on for me is
1: A man that smells great! I'm a sucker expensive cologne on a clean showered body....
A man's body i love touching and kissing on him, if he has what it takes to turn me on. Touching his skin, licking , feeling him makes me quiver.......

2: Kissing: If he knows how to kiss me , not to wet not to dry...just right
kissing on my neck is a definite, Turn on !!!!!!1........sensuous and sexy
(and a few other places that i won't mention)

3: His Voice... deep and sexy talking to me, making me feel as if I'm the only woman in universe that he wants and needs.

4: Touching: When a man knows how to softly and carefully touch me in all the right places. Hot oil massage, scented candles, soft music.......all the right moves.

5. An Orgasm!!!!!!!!

My turn offs: saying the wrong things, not knowing how to kiss (sticking their tongue down to my tonsils) not knowing how to make love to give me an orgasm.
 SydneyLady
Joined: 12/23/2007
Msg: 752
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/12/2008 7:18:23 AM
Turns-ons for me:
A nice smile
Nice eyes (preferably dark)
Big muscular arms
Muscular solid legs
Guys who take pride in how they dress and appearance
Respectful
Smells good
Knows how to kiss
Tattoos
Goatees
A deep,masculine voice
Makes me feel like a sexy,desirable woman
Maturity
Honesty
Affectionate
Intelligence
Loves animals
Knows when to back off and not be pushy
Great in bed
Gives me a certain look like im the most beautiful woman hes ever seen in his eyes

Turn-Offs:
bad breath
negative attitude
treats his mother disrespectfully
bad manners
immaturity
pushiness
big egos
meanness
plays head games
goes from hot to cold
just a general jerk or idiot
 star100280
Joined: 1/27/2008
Msg: 753
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/12/2008 7:55:56 AM
Firslty a guy that smells really good makes me feel horny and then what i really like is a guy to start attacking my ears and work his way down my neck simple but its what works for me
 zestyvirginia
Joined: 1/14/2008
Msg: 754
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/12/2008 12:13:17 PM
Hate Secrets and Lies,,,,turn offs} for sure , and turn on"""" is sucking my lower lip and a gentle kiss but in a teasing manner the slow dance of LOVE>
 nicenurse64
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 755
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/12/2008 3:59:09 PM
Smell of a man! & science has proven it! Check out the new issue of Psychology Today, great article on scent & attraction!
 inonostranger
Joined: 10/16/2007
Msg: 756
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/13/2008 6:54:08 PM
I agree with the scent of a man. It has to be a good scent though. However, that doesn't always mean he needs to wear colgne. I'm usually turned on by the deorderant. Come on, I can't be the only one that has asked a guy, "What are you wearing? You smell good" , and he replies "Deorderant".
 BigDoggie
Joined: 11/24/2006
Msg: 757
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/25/2008 9:31:20 PM
A cuddly woman that smells "good" I don't know how to put it other than she just smells clean not smothered in perfume just crisp clean like fresh sheets on a hot summer night.


Turn off: B.O.
 Kazoom
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 758
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/25/2008 11:17:02 PM
Well in the past it was pole dancing but I gave up on that now.

I think now/today seeing a woman changing the oil on her own car would give me a instant boner.
 Shakin389
Joined: 1/31/2008
Msg: 759
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Posted: 2/25/2008 11:32:21 PM
Turn ons: Black panties and black lace

Turn offs: granny panties
 timeflies72
Joined: 12/15/2007
Msg: 760
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/25/2008 11:57:25 PM
Instant turn on: When I take control and tell him & show him exactly what to do.

Instant turn off: Being called a **** during sex.
 plussizeandohsohot
Joined: 8/23/2007
Msg: 761
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/26/2008 12:54:02 AM
Instant turn on: The way he SMELLS when he holds your face and comes down to kiss you. That wonderful "just got out of the shower" smell that makes you tingle, especially when he is working down your neck to your shoulder and then back up again. Also, when a man can initiate plans, not "I don't know, where do you want to go eat."Just the idea that you are interested in coming up with some ideas that you can share with me is an instant turn on as well.
I am instantly drawn to his charisma, knowing he can take control of situations if need be and protect me, also. The confidence he exhibits in himself, knowing what's on his mind and speaking what's in his heart.

Instant turn Off: not being clean, body odor, just being overly confident, rude, a show-off, incompetent, trying to be something he's not.
 jojoaus
Joined: 10/28/2007
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/26/2008 1:03:40 AM
I always change the oil in my own car. Its so easy, why the heck would I pay anyone to do it?
 theinnerdark
Joined: 2/9/2008
Msg: 763
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Posted: 2/26/2008 2:04:42 AM
In regards to to the OP, I have an enormous number of instant turn ons. Firstly, a light touch behind my ear and I'm all yours for as long as you want. Can not resist that in the least. I also like to have a woman run her fingers through my hair. It's a bonus if she pulls on it.

Secondly, and most weird, a soft kiss followed by a good slap. Fills me with the old "Fighting Spirit" lol

As for a turn off, I don't know. If a woman seems like she's just doing what I want, It's time for her to go. That just bores me.
 docmegaman
Joined: 2/19/2008
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/26/2008 11:23:25 AM
Hello Tallycat

The biggest turn on for me is when my lover looks at me right in the eyes when she is having an orgasm.

The biggest turn off is when a lover fakes an orgasm...and yes, nobody is that good of an actress...but some guys are clueless and thats why some women can get away with it.
 kittenshere
Joined: 6/16/2006
Msg: 765
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/26/2008 12:05:59 PM
a man with kind words of wisdom and a beautiful personatliy.
 happyrebel
Joined: 11/8/2007
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Posted: 2/26/2008 12:48:44 PM
Turn ons:

The look - the one where you know he just wants to do you now
kisses - slow, passionate kisses with nibling/sucking on the lips, slowly making their way to my neck.
b]strong hands
self confidence
sexy smile
charisma
worn jeans or shorts without underwear - both with no shirt
the scent Love that fresh sweat smell of a man...but a clean, just showered or a hint of cologne is ok, too.
someone not afraid to take control of a situation -Love walking in and he immediately starts kissing me and removing my cloths

TURN OFFS

poor hygiene
poor kissing skills
Selfishness

There's tons more turn on & turns offs to list...but I think the OP only asked for one

HR
 diveinme
Joined: 2/26/2008
Msg: 767
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/29/2008 8:45:57 PM
Ahh I've never been as turned on in my life as I have been these past 7 months with my boyfriend. He's got the sexiest accent - Romanian. But he has such a soft voice that he makes the language sound so beautiful. He's 20, a punk kid but not a stereotype by any means, his hair is wild and curly, and his pants hug his body so tightly...

Anywho, I looove it when he talks to me in Romanian during sex
He also does this thing where he licks and nibbles and breathes into my ear that makes me instantly want him
And when he says "come here, let me hold you like I like to" I just melt and dive into his arms
Once he was hovering over me on the bed, just staring at my face, and said "Im getting a boner just looking at you, your lips", and he was!

Turnoffs? When he turns me on then leaves me hanging. Or when he goes to play x-box while Im sitting in his room waiting...
 dean1920
Joined: 2/25/2008
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Posted: 2/29/2008 8:58:11 PM
yes please im here when your ready xxx
 dean1920
Joined: 2/25/2008
Msg: 769
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 2/29/2008 8:59:39 PM
calling you bad words when im ****ing you
 Dynamic3
Joined: 8/13/2007
Msg: 770
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/7/2008 7:23:04 PM
My Ideal Man would have the following qualities,

Polite and a genuine smile,

Keeps fit and is not vain, looks great in a suit or jeans

Dresses smartly,

No jewelry as he has confidence he is important

Has the know how to make me feel comfortable

Sence of humour

Intelligent not boastful

Knows not to be pushy, as if I smile, we will blend when

we are both comfortable with each other.

A romantic at heart,

loves to give and receive surprises,

A delicious natural scent, not covered with fragrance.
 wjh55
Joined: 1/31/2007
Msg: 771
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Posted: 3/7/2008 8:59:52 PM
Turn-on: A woman wearing a jean skirt w/no panties and high heels

Turn-off: lying
 sweetiepi
Joined: 9/18/2006
Msg: 772
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/7/2008 9:29:17 PM
Lightly kissing the back of my neck. Does it every time.
 zonea
Joined: 2/14/2008
Msg: 773
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/7/2008 10:17:42 PM
Believe it or not, for me the big turn-on is intelligence in a guy. Add a dash of self confidence to it and I find him irresistible.

Turn offs?
Bad hygiene and arrogance in that order.
 catisangel_1987
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 774
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/7/2008 10:42:14 PM
Turn on: it doesn't take much for me but when I'm not
a man either soaked by the rain or sweaty clean
any kind of kissing
his eyes
his face
sensitive, or passionate
candles
flowers
massages
cuddling
Turn off: I really don't know,haha
my parents might do it

 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 775
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Posted: 3/7/2008 10:56:45 PM
Long dark hair and blue eyes...
A kiss on the forehead...
A nibble on my ears...
Whispers of sweet nothings...at least nothing I can say on here!!!
Heaven I say!!!
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