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 Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 776
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/7/2008 10:56:45 PM
Long dark hair and blue eyes...
A kiss on the forehead...
A nibble on my ears...
Whispers of sweet nothings...at least nothing I can say on here!!!
Heaven I say!!!
 Dragon_Boy

Joined: 2/14/2008
Msg: 777
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/8/2008 12:39:28 AM
Biggest turn on? Wow.. Umm.. when I see a girl with a booty that looks like it could replace the airbag system in your hummer, and a little bit of pudge on the tummy you know nice little round buldge and the only thing that would make it perfect is if she looked at me smiled and blushed.

Same situation? What would turn me off? When she goes into her purse and takes out a pack of ciggeretts and lights one up, thats a complete shut down bye bye c ya later not interested.
 GREAT EXPERT 800

Joined: 3/4/2008
Msg: 778
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/8/2008 2:28:59 AM
a pretty woman with pretty ass feet is an immediate turn on.
 cooky1962

Joined: 3/4/2008
Msg: 779
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/8/2008 3:09:26 AM
You know farting is not good when getting intimate.Drugs not cool.Turn on if I believe your being yourself everything works from there--yes
 kittenshere

Joined: 6/16/2006
Msg: 780
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/8/2008 3:56:25 AM
a beautiful personatliy.
 1971mach1

Joined: 2/16/2008
Msg: 781
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/8/2008 4:21:16 AM
Seeing a man jerk off and cum on his abs....turns me on !He does not even need to touch me.
 cailin beag

Joined: 1/31/2008
Msg: 782
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/8/2008 4:21:26 AM

Whats an instant turn on for you

reading through some of the posts on here, seems to be doing the job nicely,
but seriously,
instant turn ons:
great kissing, kissing my neck, hot breaths on my neck, white t-shirts on tanned torso's, sexy eyes, great smile, big muscular arms, great @ss, tattoos, and the biggest turn on for me is when my lover looks straight into my eyes as we both cum together, OMG that is sooooo hot!!

turn offs:
bad breath, bad manners, poor hygiene, guys who dont like kids or animals, @ssholes!

 cailin beag

Joined: 1/31/2008
Msg: 783
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/8/2008 5:18:44 AM
ooooops, i forgot to add this bit ^^^^^^^
the biggest turn off for me is too much hair on guys!
especially downstairs!!
 Photozilla

Joined: 2/14/2008
Msg: 784
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/8/2008 7:44:35 AM
instant turn on: a beautiful smile with lots of sparkle
instant turn off: expressing feelings that i don't reciprocate... feels like smothering
 expat57

Joined: 2/20/2008
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/8/2008 9:39:14 AM
Immediate Turn On:
That quality of Machismo without the chauvinism. Arrogant without being egotistical. It's hard for me to define it in words but a woman can *feel* such a man from across the room. It's the way he carries himself. The way he looks at her(me). The sort of man I find myself dropping my gaze around, heart beating so loudly, surely he must hear it, pink flush making my interest obvious. Suddenly I'm self-consciously aware of every nervous gesture I make, every eyelash blink, every breath. Will he speak to me? Will he have an intelligence that melts me? It's a rare man that catches my eye. When one does .. gawds, but I love that emotion!

Definite Turn off:
A loud braggart .. a man who believes the difference between masculine and feminine is about him getting to do as he pleases and her serving his every whim .. a drunk. Women can sense that sort of men from across the room too and are doing everything they can *not* to catch his eye. To be rude to him would turn off other men watching the interaction and make her seem unapproachable for their efforts if she handles it poorly. It's best if she not arouse his interest at all. She won't have to come up with a clever, polite of telling him to go away while preserving the appearance of still being approachable.
 CRAZY 4 DOGS

Joined: 9/12/2006
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/20/2008 8:30:35 AM
An instant turn on for me is after initially realizing you have a strong physical attraction to a guy right off the bat, and he kisses you before you go your separate ways, and it is perfect and exactly your style. For me that is slow for a sec then the mouth opening and slow tongue action (almost like ur licking each other but not sloppy) with our eyes open and his head tilted to the side. If he puts his hand on the back of my head and gently (at first) pulls or tugs on my hair thats a definite bonus!!!! Lots of ideas go through my head if I am very attracted to the guy, such as how great he is at showing me how sexual he is and this is just a preview of how he would lick me. This probably sounds like I'm asking for a lot but it actually just happened to me! I'm hooking up with him this weekend!
Another instant turn on for me is when the guy talks dirty but not in an insulting way but very sexually explicitly...Like " I love the way you suck my **** " of course while ur doing it...Do guys like it when the woman talks this way?
Instant turn off? Easy.....1) Bad Kisser
2) Smelly Genitals. Uncircumsized and doesn't know
that he needs to CLEAN!!!! YUCK!
 cmdr_iceman

Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 787
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/20/2008 4:31:22 PM
A woman who is submissive.
 xerograv

Joined: 5/31/2007
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/20/2008 5:12:21 PM
Intelligence. and a great neckline.
 Linds32

Joined: 2/6/2005
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/20/2008 5:15:09 PM
Nice BIG biceps.. get me going every time!
 welshwmoan

Joined: 6/26/2007
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/21/2008 3:29:08 AM
Gentlely kiss to start with, the breathing in my ear, this is getting too exciting for me
 pipeman110

Joined: 2/19/2008
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 3/21/2008 4:07:20 AM
heels and a whip!!!!!!!!!!!!! ......................
 fancynanci

Joined: 8/21/2007
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/7/2008 8:45:10 PM
hot, wet, lusty, and extremely passionate kissing
 Kazot

Joined: 8/11/2007
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/7/2008 8:58:40 PM
Submission!

When she says "Take me, use me, I am yours!" She pretty much owns me at that point.
 Love_on_Fire

Joined: 11/18/2007
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/7/2008 9:11:35 PM
The basic things you know....Beautiful smile, beautiful eyes, 5'4" to 6'1" feet tall, long thick full healthy hair up to 4 feet long (up to her butt and longer would be a bonus) especially if it's dark hair. Also a great feminine butt, a well defined, sexy rich womanly curve and offcourse another given, big, rich, healthy and sexy looking womanly/feminane breasts that signify so many crucial things about the female including vitality and health and dignity (to SOME men). A simple yet sexy voice that penetrates into your heart and just sweeps a guy off his feet along with the rest of her stunning beautiful rich appearance.

Just the basics, nothing too much. Other things can be negotiated around.
 TouchofXTC

Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 795
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/7/2008 9:30:01 PM
Nice smooth legs and well manicured and maintained feet...
Absolutely sexy and a turn on when a women is wearing a nice skirt or short dress with smooth silky legs and a nice sexy shoes that shows her well maintained pedicured feet....mmmmm
 nocalsingledad

Joined: 11/27/2007
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/7/2008 9:33:45 PM
1. Whats an instant turn on for you

Giving me a peek at something I am not supposed to see. And doing it in a somewhat public place is even better. Giving someone ELSE a peek and somehow telegraphing that they know that I know that she did it is even MORE of a turn on ...

An instant turn off would be jealousy or controlling behavior or a lack of basic application of soap and water.
 birdonthewire

Joined: 1/21/2008
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/8/2008 8:28:28 AM
turn on ......a guy who desires only me not just a........
the eyes and eye contact, telling me what is sooooooooooo good.

Turn offf a man who has not bothered to make effort with appearance or hygine because he thinks he no longer needs to for me.
 usmc67

Joined: 4/4/2008
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/8/2008 8:54:51 AM
a girl that bends over to show her breasts and then looks at you..
knowing your turned on.. or to see if your looking... kinda hot
 blimeylimey

Joined: 8/3/2007
Msg: 799
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/8/2008 8:55:36 AM
A woman in tight jeans! Sexy lingerie too. Eyes and kissing.
 Notinit4

Joined: 1/18/2008
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/8/2008 12:41:15 PM
The biggest turn on for me ever was when this guy made eye contact from across the bar ( I had met him earlier that night but that's beside the point) anyway, he kept his eyes on mine and walked through the crowd to me grabbed 2 handfuls of my hair at the nape of my neck, pulled my face up towards him by the hair and kissed me hard. I'll never forget how I felt that moment and that was 11 years ago. :P Still love that intensity and the hair pulling. There's definitely a technique
Other turn ons are confidence and charisma. When a man is confident and carries himself as such, he has my attention. If he has the attention of others in a quiet confident way without being an obnoxious loud-mouthed idiot, then he has my FULL attention. Sense of humour is a huge turn on too. If he can make me laugh, he's a shoe in!
Turn-offs? Too many to list! lol BO, bad hygiene in general...men that need to be obnoxious or arrogant to try and be the centre of attention. Lack of a sense of humour, no ambition etc...
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