| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/17/2008 3:55:44 AM | Watching a gal who can work a room. No shit, after that, and the sheer numbers of all the amatuers you come across, it is a sheer wonder of the world, a cosmic event, to see a 9 on the body scale, with a 9 on the "manipulator" scale go to work.
To watch a gal float through a room and COMMAND attention without ever speaking, and she knows it, and uses it. To watch a gal, with only the touch of her hand, damn near drop a man where he stands. To watch a gal barely move, but drag the whole room with her an inch at a time.
Trust me, it is amazing. And worth the learning experience of finding a TRUE pro that can do it. I got lucky (still know that gal too). "Traffic Stoppers" are dangerous indeed, especially when they are good at it, and put work and effort into refining movements, sounds, smells, speaking skills, touch refinement and timing, you name it.
I don't mean the wannabes, which are most of them you meet. I mean the true, and amazing women you rarely find. They are out there, but damned if it isn't something that won't get me going every time. The ones that make you hold your breath, and you didn't even know you WERE holding your breath......
Other than that, that weird ass spark (this one only happened twice to me), of passing by a gal, that lightning strike when you both look at each other and feel it, instant "lust", out in the open. BAM! You both know it...........
BETTER than sex.......................the pinnacle of of "sex/not-sex". And with ONLY a look no less.
Plus, the old boring stuff too. | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/17/2008 7:16:03 AM | Looking into a mans face when he wants to have sex, or during sex or when he wants to kiss you...
Its really sexy. To see a satisfied look or a look of longing...Gah
Its hott. | |
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mxcniz
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Joined: 2/23/2008
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/17/2008 11:13:22 AM | | Nice legs and a woman who wears garters/hose or thigh highs,and not afraid to let me know she's wearing them. | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/19/2008 4:44:51 AM | I Love it when a man can look you in the eyes when your giving great sexual pleasure to each other...and can snuggle with you when it's all said and done...  | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/19/2008 5:09:26 AM | lol
One day many years ago I came home from work walked up the stairs, turned the corner to the living room and bam my girl friend slamned me into the wall, pinned me a bit and began to kiss me. I playfully put a bit of resistance up only to get slamned into the wall again then I surrenderd ;-)
Was hot as hell for me but then again I a kinky geek!
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/20/2008 11:25:25 PM | | When a very attractive women talks to me. I get even more of a feeling if they are Italian/Sicilian, Greek, or Hispanic. If I ever get to meet Monica Bellucci, that would make my day, my life. Really, no joke. | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/22/2008 5:58:34 PM | | A womanly smell, a black or red dress that reveals her thighs, and that look that she is having secret thoughts of being with you | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/22/2008 6:49:36 PM | I'm going to use actual events because that's what obviously is true:
1. Years ago, in night club, so crowded people that when you were trying to make your way across past the bar, people were pressed together. A blond with one of the best asses I've ever seen was in front of me (yes, on purpose, as I hoped to begin some kind of communication); inches in front of me, as with all; then obviously someone pushed the crowd back and her into me. Her ass was pressed into me and I pressed against the person behind me. I got a stiffy in a jiffy and she felt it and then actually pressed her ass into ME. I don't think she was wearing panties because I could almost feel that sticky feeling of a bare ass that has a bit of perspiration on it. Instant and unforgettable turn on.
2. When you feel that rare sexuality between yourself and a person of the opposite sex, typically where, although they are practically a stranger, their is an acquaintanceship through mutual friends. At a party and hot brunette with dorks all around her. This is about 10 years ago, when I was in top physical condition and never happens these days, but I just broke in and took over and we talked and the other guys went away. Then we broke apart, mingled with others, then talked again, then apart, mingling with others and so forth. The party was in the host's backyard, with hardly anyone inside. Went to piss inside and she was coming out of the bathroom and suddenly, with no communication, we were kissing passionately and couldn't stop for some time. Just that spontaneous, unexpected sexual moment you had no idea was coming. Instant turn-on. And no, I didn't get laid.
3. Motel girl cleaning my room. Good-looking. Asked why she didn't do anything else to make more money. Said she thought of being a stripper. Asked her if she REALLY could take her clothes off in front of complete strangers. She said yes. I said, well, I am a complete stranger. She had second thoughts about that. I told her I'd tip her a $20. No deal. Then she went to clean the bathroom. I came and asked her again. No. I put my hands on her shoulders and said, "If you want me to leave I will, just don't freak." She didn't say anything, but breathed really hard. And I asked again and she pressed back a little. Then I put my hands around her waist. Another deep breath. "Is this okay?" Whispered yes. Hands on breasts. She turns around and unzips my pants. The instant turn-on part is where I put my hands on her shoulders and realized it was going further.
So much for finding a long term girlfriend on POF. And I pray no one I know reads this. Oh, well. | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/23/2008 12:24:58 PM | Okay turn on: whispering/kissing/going anywhere near my right ear (I don't know why but the left one just isn't as sensitive)
Turn offs: Okay besides the whole drugs,racism,beatingup women things that are obvious a huge turn off for me is those guys who all they want to talk about is how sweet the car they drive is/how much money they make/how much weight they can lift at the gym. Shameless self promoting-huge turnoff | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/23/2008 12:27:30 PM | | Instant turn on is having my neck licked and kissed gently...progressing to little bites... Mmm lol | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/23/2008 12:32:47 PM | When he says, "let me tell you a bedtime story."
Then he describes in detail what he plans for the two of us to do in bed. | |
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Posted: 4/23/2008 1:57:02 PM | hey--I,m a little girl too and my HUGE instant turn-on is: from across the room he tells me to come n sit on his lap. Then he tells me he wants to show me how to French kiss, then he explains to me wispering in my ear every detail...etc...  | |
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Posted: 4/23/2008 2:17:49 PM | | honestly I can think of nothing about my lover that turns me off-I've got it BAD just lately huh? I mean I would eat the corn out of his shit..! | |
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Posted: 4/23/2008 2:42:59 PM | Turn ons for me: cute face, smells nice, confidence, boldness
Turn offs: Poor hygiene, too****, unibrows | |
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| SECRETS.....Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Posted: 4/23/2008 2:47:57 PM | Turn on- I major turn on for me is a man who is tall, smells nice and walks up to you not touching but is close enough to feel the heat and looks at you like your dessert.
or licking around everything patiently, teasing me until I finally I can't take it anymore and I grab him, throw him down and take him.
Turn offs- insecure men and bad kissers by far. | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/23/2008 3:23:50 PM | instant turn on .....for me is there tight asses mmmm nibbling ears sucking of ...........on him you know cant say that its like an ice cream yum .dressing up playing games is great to
turn off mmm will think on that on not sure | |
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mxcniz
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Joined: 2/23/2008
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/24/2008 6:34:01 PM | | OMFG TO MESSAGE 842!!!!!! THAT IS NOT ONLY INSANELY DISGUSTING BUT ITS MORBID...EATING THE CORN OUT OF HIS SHIT???? WOW, I SEE WE GOT ALL KINDS ON HERE...LOL | |
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| Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/24/2008 8:04:45 PM | I would have to say an instant turn on for me would be watching martial arts. I don't know why, but there's something about it that is so damned sexy for me.
An instant turn off? Finding out the guy only studies martial arts for competition. I just don't like it when that happens. I like the idea of martial arts as being for defence and unifying body, mind and soul with the universe around oneself. Maybe I'm just a dreamer... And I'm sure that will piss some people off who compete but that's just my opinion. *shrugs* | |
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