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 Closer2U
Joined: 2/19/2009
Msg: 1076
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Green eyes and DARK HAIR!A tall,thick necked, big shouldered man in torn Levi's ButtonFly 501's with a hard-on straining to get in my mouth. Not to mention that he has Beer and Cigarette breath,and kisses like we are mouth f*cking..Total Turn on!

Total Turn off?A man that pushes my head down on him so hard and long.....I can't breath.Do NOT do that! I have teeth! lol

 bella4u4ever
Joined: 1/2/2009
Msg: 1077
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/1/2009 7:11:29 PM
The small of my neck near my shoulders and ears... Just the simple things...lol Receiving a hickey is great but just don't like the marks they leave...lol and kissing and making out.
 FmrJarhead
Joined: 2/15/2008
Msg: 1078
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 4/2/2009 10:41:17 AM
I love a man with a sense of humor...If he can laugh at himself and find humor in life, he's a winner! A great laugh and smile are right up there too. A guy that laughs at my silly jokes shows me he cares enough to fake it, hahaha I love a man that knows what he's doing and can read women...knows what they want and delivers it with such precision it's unbelivable! I've only known ONE man like that and will be especially happy when he returns.

Turn offs: Demeaning men, arrogance, conceit and men that flirt with other women while with you!
 ThatWhichRemains
Joined: 6/20/2009
Msg: 1079
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/27/2009 5:48:55 PM
I'm not ranking these things because they all work

* intelligence. I've found myself swept away by a women discussing 3d molecular modelling!
* humour ... so long as it's not at my expense :)
* slutty clothes... very effective and very wrong... i'd be unhappy with those outfits if we were in a commited relationship... except if were in the house together and she pretended to have broken in... and the rest will have to remain a mystery!
* athletic bodies ... don't have one, and my ideal partner probably doesn't either, but they work for me. I remember being astounded by the buttocks of a tight-rope walker. I'd never really cared too much about that part of the anatomy until that point. It was probably a good thing that she was high above me or i might have gotten myself into serious trouble
*poetic yet dirty language .. if i watch porn, the sound is off because i can't stand the repetitious crudities. That said, i love it if a woman describes her arousal to me.
*gentleness ... bit of a cross-over to romantic feelings tho'. If i see a woman i'm attracted to anyway doing something kind, to me or anyone, bang! I want her!
*some one who makes me feel safe. If i don't feel safe, I want out, right away. I've never understood the attraction people have to evil. To quote a famous philosopher, "HULK SMASH!"
*individuality... that's not the same as intolerance or elitism people :) If you like things i don't, don't compromise or pretend that you do. That's not the same as being brutal however.
*exposure... i love it when a woman manipulates the amount i see without remarking on it, making seeing more than I expected or thinking "did i really see that!" Woah! If she makes me feel guilty about it: "eyes up here, ya know!" then I bail.
*shared interests... i've had a few conversations with women i've met in bookshops and libraries that made me want it right there and then. That feeling of "oh... i thought women weren't interested in science fiction/computers/gaming/whatever" and then you find she's more into it than you and has a liquid nitrogen cooled rig with a portable fusion reactor, and every time it reboots it tears a hole in the spacetime continuum... well, at that point, my brain sublimes into plasma.
*gentle unexpected kisses to my neck
*harder kisses there when i'm warned up
*french kisses that take me totally by surprise.
*lots of kinkiness i won't mention in a public space :-]


These are the instant ones, there's many that work over long term (e.g. fidelity) but I've tried to stay on topic.
 Ifeellucky
Joined: 4/12/2009
Msg: 1080
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/27/2009 6:09:49 PM
omg a man who can have an intellectual conversation is sooooo sexy....and if he is playful and friendly...yea, that does it for me...
turn off... well, besides smoking, I would say arrogance.
 Fish.2.See
Joined: 5/27/2009
Msg: 1081
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/27/2009 6:26:18 PM
Thong underwear and a white dress.
-Mike
 girl12345-4u
Joined: 3/28/2009
Msg: 1082
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/27/2009 6:30:40 PM
Turn On:
slow sensual kisses that turn into that driving passion kind of kisses. Pulling me into him, pulling my hair just right.
Turn Off:
Arrogance, lack of humor.
 footballmom77
Joined: 1/5/2009
Msg: 1083
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/27/2009 7:34:43 PM
Turn On:
a guy who smells good

Turn Off:
Self-Centeredness
 EligibleWMFish
Joined: 5/19/2009
Msg: 1084
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/27/2009 8:16:54 PM
Nothing turns me on more than a great smelling woman.

As for turn offs, Proverbs 21:9 has it right. Nothing is worse than a quarrelsome woman.
 SandraB56
Joined: 10/16/2008
Msg: 1085
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/28/2009 2:30:01 PM
Grey hair and brown eyes. A wicked sense of humour and a great smile.
Turn offs are offensive personal hygenie, snobbishness, put downs.
 Tarnished_Knight
Joined: 3/5/2009
Msg: 1086
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/28/2009 4:37:39 PM
while I'm partial to some outer and some more discreet optional clothing, ahem, what is a total turn on for me is a woman who thinks and acts upon the following:

1) I'm funny;
2) intelligent;
3) enjoyable to be around;
4) not only physically attractive but, get this, sexy; and
5) is neither afraid nor ashamed to be seen with me.

Oh, and it would also help if she exists outside my imagination!

TK
{alright, I admit it: I've been looking for a loooooong time }
 scottiscool
Joined: 3/23/2006
Msg: 1087
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/28/2009 4:53:12 PM
A nice Butt walking away from me. Knowing it will be back.!!....LOL
 dynomiteman4u
Joined: 4/12/2008
Msg: 1088
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/28/2009 6:47:20 PM
The best turn on is when she says she really likes me & looks at me with her warn & beautiful eyes. I catch her turning away, but I still catch her looking back at me with that special sparkle in her eye.

The opposite would be when she says to the wattress..."Check Please" !
I had a lovely date once that was cut short over politics...bad move on my part...she was lovely, but our political differences were too much of a turn off for her, so she said to the wattress..."Check Please"...
 Slipknot6
Joined: 6/3/2009
Msg: 1089
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/28/2009 8:33:49 PM
When she tells me what she wants me to do, because it is probably going to be what works best for her. And it gets me going to see her getting off.. and it gets me off.. :D


Turn off when she acts confused, like she doesnt know what to do.. or just stops and asks a question completely irrelivant to sex.. Thats where I shoot my load and take my leave.
 flyinge36
Joined: 5/16/2009
Msg: 1090
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/29/2009 12:50:17 AM
Turn on: Legs, Intelligent, kinky

Turn off: a girl that denies her feminine side, a girl that isnt willing to let go of societies rules
 HazelRose
Joined: 6/15/2009
Msg: 1091
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/29/2009 1:23:51 AM
Turn On- Tall, sharp wit, and great dental hygeine
Turn Off- Weakness, no sense of humor, and bad hygeine

I love healthy and funny guys. If taller than me when wearing heels, even better.
 ebaby36
Joined: 6/17/2009
Msg: 1092
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Posted: 6/30/2009 8:07:00 AM
My turn on is a man with big strong arms and big hands that know how to touch my body if he smells really good he can get whatever he wants from me.


Turn off- abusive men are a real turn off.
 Cochyn
Joined: 3/4/2009
Msg: 1093
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/30/2009 9:12:58 AM
Instant turn on is full on eye contact and the look. You know, that slightly surprised (pleasantly so) and totally hungry look like 'I'd so much rather be anywhere but this restaurant with you right now' look.

Instant turn off, if he's a slob. You know the type, can't dress right, doesn't own an iron, wears all of his food, doesn't own a comb. If you have no self respect then you'll never respect me. I don't mean to imply you have to be dressed to the nines in expensive clothing and all but there's jeans and a t-shirt, and there's JEANS and a T-SHIRT.
 bgrumling
Joined: 2/28/2008
Msg: 1094
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/30/2009 12:16:18 PM
long dark hair, sparkeling eyes, glasses and tight jeans. and cow girl hats or sting or thong bikkins or the suthern women. nothin like a gal in a tight pair of jeans with a suthern accent. cowboy hat and sunglasses. ya can have the california girls. ill take a good ole down home kuntry suthern gal anyday
 Annatar2
Joined: 6/22/2009
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/30/2009 2:30:42 PM
Turn On:
A great laugh combined with a great sense of humor is almost always an instant turn on, as are a pair of playful eyes. Also someone who can manage to combine the fine art of conversation with playful flirting.

Turn Off:
Someone who won't stop talking about themselves, or those unique people who can always one-up everything you have to say.
 thecheekychick
Joined: 10/18/2008
Msg: 1096
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/30/2009 2:49:50 PM
holding my face while kissing.. it makes me go crazy!
 tropicalknights
Joined: 5/2/2009
Msg: 1097
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 6/30/2009 4:03:30 PM
A woman that can look deadly and sexy at the same time, and being bit hard enough to draw a little blood.
 brave_hearted
Joined: 11/5/2008
Msg: 1098
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/6/2009 1:38:50 PM
A kiss that starts out light and soft, slowly gliding my lips gently over hers and building the passion. Progressing to where we're pressing our lips tighter together and teasing each other with a little taste of tongue. Gently sucking each others lips between our own and building the passion to the point where our mouths become more open and inviting to each other. Evoking more of a dance with our tongues as they begin a Tango together. Stroking my fingers lightly across her face and through her hair. Entagling them in her hair and pulling her in to feast more deeply of her mouth to satisfy the hunger that our kissing has built with in us. Mmmmm, just the thought of it makes me hungry!
 isntafraid
Joined: 4/9/2009
Msg: 1099
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/6/2009 1:48:34 PM
big tits- can't look away. Turn off- a woman who is loud and talks too much about stupid stuff. ( stupid stuff is subjective...)
 soldiergirl99
Joined: 12/13/2006
Msg: 1100
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/11/2009 9:49:06 PM
It would have to be....men that are tall. 6"2 or more makes me weak and of course a good spanking ; )
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