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 isntafraid

Joined: 4/9/2009
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/6/2009 1:48:34 PM
big tits- can't look away. Turn off- a woman who is loud and talks too much about stupid stuff. ( stupid stuff is subjective...)
 soldiergirl99

Joined: 12/13/2006
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/11/2009 9:49:06 PM
It would have to be....men that are tall. 6"2 or more makes me weak and of course a good spanking ; )
 Erinlove

Joined: 11/30/2008
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/11/2009 10:00:40 PM
My instant turn on's are pretty mental. But physically if I had to pick, I'd say a mans moans and noises. Make some sounds while you pull my hair by the roots while kissing, and I am toast. lol

I have lots of turn offs. Beside the obvious, men with sexual dysfunctions, submissive men and rudeness is terrible. Physically? Pain or on the other end, feather touches.
 alexa0414

Joined: 5/22/2009
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/11/2009 10:06:57 PM
Turn on physically- Grab my hair and pull, hard. Will give me goose bumps and make me instantly wet.
Turn on mentally-Intelligence, open-mindedness, willingness to communicate.

Turn off physically- Poor hygiene
Turn off mentally- Judgmental, Narrow views, close minded.
 psylocillin

Joined: 7/5/2009
Msg: 1105
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/11/2009 10:55:46 PM
Smell.... some women just smell amazing.

I'm with Alexa on the hair... I remember going with a GF of mine to the theater a while back, she had just gotten a new (short) haircut and asked me what I thought. I slowly ran my hand up the back of her neck and grabbed a handful while telling her, "I think this is the perfect length"... I could see the goosebumps on her arms and I knew it was going to be a night to remember..... oh it was...


 Monkey_brains

Joined: 6/25/2009
Msg: 1106
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/11/2009 11:08:24 PM
Brutal honesty.....rocks my boat....
 Monkey_brains

Joined: 6/25/2009
Msg: 1107
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/12/2009 3:57:03 AM
okay wait....^^^...ummm....I take that back....

not....and kinda yuckieeee....
 alexa0414

Joined: 5/22/2009
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/12/2009 9:18:45 AM

I slowly ran my hand up the back of her neck and grabbed a handful


That's exactly what I'm talking about. Exactly
 idoc_steve

Joined: 3/20/2009
Msg: 1109
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/12/2009 9:36:55 AM

~~nienna~~Turn on- A confindant dominant Man.


For me, I would have to say, a woman with a good grasp of the english language including proper grammar, spelling, and correct use of capitalization.

It shouldn't be that difficult
 7rainbows

Joined: 1/6/2007
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/12/2009 10:10:24 AM
vampirism
bdsm
intelegent conversation
whipping
spanking
light bondage
menstual sex
artistic
oral
outdoor sex
vegetarianism
anal sex
threesomes
bisexuality
envrionmentalism
well educated
open minded
a bit of a hippy
has long hair
dosnt mind a bit of rough
watersports
naturist
good taste in music
paganism
dreadlocks always appriciated
enjoys food fights

AND FOR THE TURN OFFS
materialistic
narrow minded
discrimination/racism
corpse cruncher
ignorance
vanilla
hairy back and shoulders
baldness
member of an organised religion
being called babes or hun by total strangers, or even non strangers, i hate it.
 whytwater

Joined: 8/7/2008
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/12/2009 1:09:54 PM
Daayymmm, 7Rainbows, you are one helluva woman!

Most of your list, however, is not immediately apparent, or discoverable. For me, a warm smile, lips that part in anticipation shortly before I step into her dance space, an honest soul bold enough to step into mine, and meet me, quite literally, in the middle, waives all sorts of lesser wishes on my list.
Oh, a keen sense of her own sexuality, and mine, is next on my short list.
 isolated1

Joined: 1/14/2008
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/12/2009 1:13:17 PM
legs
lips
eyes
a comfort w/themselves and their body
someone who is sure in their sexuality
thigh highs (stockings)

all are sexy, these are the most obv things

turnoff
people who just aren't comfortable w/their sexuality or their bodies
 OneMoondance

Joined: 5/20/2009
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/12/2009 1:43:52 PM
An infectiously warm smile that extends to his eyes, and unwittingly draws me to him.
Confidence, the ability to express oneself articulately, a great sense of humor and the ability to play.
And undeniable chemistry.
 MRVMC

Joined: 1/18/2009
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/12/2009 1:55:58 PM
I don't know what it is, but there is something about my boyfriend licking my bare back while I'm laying down on my stomach. Long, slow, hot, wet licking. Can feel it go right down to my....
Drives me absolutely crazy...he can do anything he wants after that!

Yikes! Is it hot in here???
 drashell21

Joined: 12/3/2008
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/12/2009 3:48:42 PM
I like having my hair pulled and my neck kissed while a Guy is behind me..
 carribean_sunset

Joined: 7/8/2009
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/12/2009 3:53:02 PM
Turn on: running hands through my hair, whispering behind me, cleanliness, the ever so popular neck kisses, my ultimate non sexual thing would be a guy with an intense stare

Turn off: B.O due to uncleanliness..but it is totally understandable after doing a strenuous activity like a sport or something, lack of confidence, arrogance, people who brag about working out. I fell in love with your personality! your body I took into account second.

these are just a few
 lookatunude

Joined: 7/12/2009
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/19/2009 11:59:46 AM
On - she enters the room unexpectedly wearing ONLY a shirt - short one

Off - She hides her body out of shame. There all sexy, any size, any shape, its all in her mind, and mine
 wheels2210

Joined: 6/13/2009
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/19/2009 12:16:24 PM
I have to say that i havnt been turned by a woman in quite sometime so i cant remember exactly what turns me on. I will say this though turn odds are rudeness and arrogance. Would any of u ladies care to get to know me if so plz write me a message in my inbox and ill gladly reply :)
 HexBex

Joined: 3/8/2009
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/19/2009 2:42:25 PM
There are lots of things; for example, when a woman:

Flashes me her bare breasts, or her bottom, or her hoo-hoo, or even when she flashes herself in her undies (especially if they're white cotton).

Caresses my chest with her finger tips.

Gives me a minty French kiss.

Gives me a slow, not quite soft, kiss on my cheek, or one on an eyelid.
 IdoDares1

Joined: 11/19/2007
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/19/2009 2:45:04 PM

Whats an instant turn on for you.


Breathing.
 iainc54

Joined: 5/1/2009
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/19/2009 2:54:41 PM
lol loved your comments
 Call me Ginny

Joined: 12/28/2008
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/19/2009 2:58:14 PM
When he touches me and looks at me as if there's no one else he'd rather be with and nowhere else he'd rather be than in my arms. Mmmmm, gets me going every time.

Then there's the kiss....Like him to take his time with that, moving his hands over my skin, touching my face, my neck, sliding his hands lower, breathing in my breath as I gasp with passion, my hands searching for his skin, pulling up his shirt and feeling his muscles flexing as he moves.......

Oh, my! Need a a cold shower! So, now all I have to do is find him.........



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 cw35

Joined: 4/8/2005
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/19/2009 2:58:50 PM
An instant turn on would be meeting or talking to someone who wasn't insane or misleading in some way. A person on a dating site who is normal. It will never happen but that would be the biggest turn on of all.
 why is it always no

Joined: 7/11/2009
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/19/2009 3:05:38 PM
i think a great turn on is a nice smile and laughter
 Elegabalus

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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 7/19/2009 3:07:55 PM
turn on: something fun, random, or adventurous.

turn off: something mundane, repetitive, or naggy

this applies to actions as well as words. As to "almost perfect" or "all over" maybe not so much. Few single things can be said or done to make one perfect or get the boot.
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