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| Cheating- can you forgive?
Posted: 9/17/2009 6:46:21 PM | | I was cheated on once before... and once that trust was broken that was it for me. I just couldn't get past what he had done so for me thatsa big NO. | |
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| Cheating- can you forgive?
Posted: 9/17/2009 8:27:45 PM | | ur right once a cheater will always be that way ive been through a 7 yr relationship like that fine someone who really cares for u if this guy really did care he would have done it and yes they will do it over and over they just get better of liying and being sneky | |
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| Cheating- can you forgive?
Posted: 10/5/2009 7:04:30 PM | U R RIGHT, ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER, KICK HIM TO THE CURB AND GO FISHING AGAIN FOR A NON CHEATER. I KNOW, THEIR HARD TO FIND. HOPE UR CHEATER AINT THE PLAYER & LIAR FROM IOWA. HAVE A GREAT NIGHT & HAPPY FISHING.  | |
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| Cheating- can you forgive?
Posted: 10/5/2009 7:21:45 PM | | you can forgive and that's healthy but you'll never forget and once trust is broken...it's over. | |
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| Cheating- can you forgive?
Posted: 10/6/2009 5:46:32 AM | | Like the song by Apocalyptica says, "I'm not Jesus, I will not forgive." Nor will I EVER forget. | |
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| Cheating- can you forgive?
Posted: 10/6/2009 12:19:45 PM | | please listen to this if you were married to this guy and he did cheat on you that means he's being stupid and ignorant and has no respect for you and he does not deserve to be forgiven but if it's was just a relationship that's very common and both men and women cheat | |
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| Cheating- can you forgive?
Posted: 10/6/2009 12:28:35 PM | | No, you can't. Well, that's not quite true. A better way of saying it is no, you shouldn't. If monogamy is important to you, think of what you are telling a cheater if you forgive them. You're saying, "I'm weak. I have low self-esteem. I am so pathetic and desperate for your affection you can lie to me, sleep with other women, and I'll forgive you. " Are those the terms on which you want to conduct a relationship? | |
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| Cheating- can you forgive?
Posted: 10/6/2009 2:30:23 PM |
just a relationship
People with honor and integrity do NOT cheat because it is "just a relationship". With dating one cannot expect a person to be committed to that, but in a defined realtionship...I would think so. I would not be interested in being the " other party" if my SO were not on the same page | |
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| Cheating- can you forgive?
Posted: 10/6/2009 8:38:44 PM | | Yeah, sure you can forgive. You can even be friends. Heck, you might even trust the person again at some point. ...But you'll never really respect that person again...and that's not an "uppity" or defensive statement. That's just plain fact. You'll just never view them as you used to. They seem off their pedestal all of a sudden and that's pretty well permanent. Makes logical sense, actually. How can you respect someone whose values just aren't there? Btw, people make excuses, rationalize, etc, but really boils down to lack of character. If you're under duress, you do the right thing...and that does not include cheating! | |
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| Cheating- can you forgive?
Posted: 10/7/2009 5:03:07 PM | Once a cheater -always a cheater---- He hits you once_he will hit again.
There are men out there that do not cheat---not many--but I have been cheated on so many times and know you aren't to blame. I was a loving kind, worked at trying to be my best, he just loved to cheat. | |
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| Cheating- can you forgive?
Posted: 10/10/2009 12:14:23 AM | josie555 ,
My second wife was a cheater. Married her because she said "I've changed, and I really love you, I didn't love him."
Sad to say, once a cheater, always a cheater. | |
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| Cheating- can you forgive?
Posted: 10/10/2009 3:28:46 AM | | Yes it is true, once a cheater, that is why Im divorced as I do not and can not forgive cheating, too many stds out there and I will not place myself at risk. If I'm not respected, I don't stick around. | |
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