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 Author Thread: Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
 4YOU2KISS!!!

Joined: 8/23/2007
Msg: 251
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/8/2007 9:08:51 PM
I can HONESTLY say at this stage in my life,.....NOPE!!!!!!!
 PetiteMissxxx

Joined: 8/8/2007
Msg: 252
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/9/2007 2:12:26 AM
Obviously most of you havent heard the horror stories about experiences some people have had from oral sex.One guy in a forum post on this site..cant remember what thread it was said he had gone down on his girlfriend and she was on her periods and the blood tasted salty,then imagine if she had hiv etc now , tell me..would you want a to kiss or be with a man who had gone down another woman who had her monthly's etc.. its not the 1st story time i heard that happening or worse..I just think its grose..some people with std's and they go down on each other makes it even worse yuck then they bring their mouth to you? ofcourse you get tested bla bala bla but how many people show each other medical docs b4 a 1st kiss?grose pple seriously a world without oral is a dream world.lips on ur mouth for their lips and what god created downthere to fit where its meant to and thats not in the other that people have even decided to include yuck
 mus098

Joined: 7/1/2006
Msg: 253
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/23/2007 9:54:40 AM
I would not.I love it too much,giving and getting it.
 LKWLKW

Joined: 7/7/2007
Msg: 254
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/23/2007 10:00:11 AM
No way...that's foreplay in my opinion!
 blast3r

Joined: 9/17/2006
Msg: 255
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/23/2007 10:09:10 AM
I would date one right up until the time I found out they didn't. I love it toooooo much!

Reminds me of that HBO special about the Bunny Ranch where one new lady came in and said she didn't do oral. Needless to say she didn't last very long.
 montecristd1

Joined: 12/18/2006
Msg: 256
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/23/2007 10:40:36 AM
Actually yes i will, because most of them deny it at first then at the end of the day, they loosen up and go down there. For odds of reasons some ladies that do not give oral sex have told there man to go get it somewhere else that they cool with it, thats quite weird still
 mr. dynomite

Joined: 9/11/2007
Msg: 257
 mimi1230

Joined: 1/11/2007
Msg: 258
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/23/2007 6:11:52 PM
Wow... never had anyone say that before... I'm pretty adventurous when it comes to sex. I don't know. It would depend on how good everything else is, I guess. I actually love to give and receive. It's intimate, very sexy, definitely extremely pleasurable. I kinda go with how I feel, not whether if I'll get it in return. I don't give it just because I received either.

On second thought, if someone came out and stated that, we may not be compatible for it to get that far because I'm not into people who are close minded in the first place. I hate demands and judgments... but who knows! He would have to be pretty F*ing special to change my mind!
 MONEMPERER

Joined: 6/26/2006
Msg: 259
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/24/2007 1:22:45 AM
Nope I would not and I would think they still make you in this mileenium unless there is a damn good reason.
 Yorkie_Rich

Joined: 8/15/2007
Msg: 260
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/24/2007 4:43:43 AM
I could date someone that did not give me oral

But i'm not sure i could date someone that would NOT let me give her oral

I enjoy giving oral sex more then i enjoy sex
 Marjabu

Joined: 6/8/2006
Msg: 261
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/24/2007 5:22:10 AM
no way! I consider it all part of the foreplay. Ran in to that situation with one guy from here, definitely a mood killer for me....always wanted oral , would never return the favour.
 Zendag5

Joined: 1/26/2006
Msg: 262
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/24/2007 6:34:24 AM
I would but like a few others have said i'd take it as a challenge
 2020lol

Joined: 9/16/2007
Msg: 263
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/25/2007 10:25:44 AM
hell yah. then again i wouldnt date any man who has had intercoase more than once, i like virgins, and i sure as hell dont want to suck a****to keep someone thats just pafetic, and eww i dont want him licking me down there, just think of kissing him again ewww, so yah i dont want a diquesting man bring on the clean. yall are disquesting
 Bedroomeyes31472

Joined: 6/23/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/25/2007 10:39:30 AM
I don't care what she won't do as long as she lets me do her. That is my thing. There is not that I like to do is to perform oral on her. Now if she don't like that , she has got to go.
 irishmage

Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 265
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 southernsue

Joined: 8/16/2007
Msg: 266
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/25/2007 11:52:43 AM
I still dont understand either sex 'sreluctance to perform this awesome activity on their partner. I have been with men who didn't live to give but loved to receive and I lost interest in them. There is nothing like the feel of a soft warm tongue on your neither parts.....
 jasmine07

Joined: 2/14/2007
Msg: 267
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/25/2007 1:13:29 PM
hell to the no!!..the only thing we could do is just sit there an make crazy faces at each other all night long.or just be friends.there is no way to replace the feeling of a warm tounge running up an down an licking all over my p u s s y....
 waidh

Joined: 8/4/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/25/2007 1:23:33 PM
no
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no
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messages this short may not be posted lol
 EnzelBlueVoo

Joined: 5/9/2006
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/25/2007 1:38:54 PM
Wow, how old are we here? **** farm? Do you speak to your mamma that way??
 dutchpirate

Joined: 3/4/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/25/2007 3:23:21 PM
I would because I have to. I have a jaw problem and my jaw is locked shut. I can't eat hard foods and most soft foods hurt like hell to eat. I can't open it more than an inch and it's always in constant pain. I don't expect it because I can't do it myself.
 JetsfaninDE

Joined: 9/20/2007
Msg: 271
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 9/25/2007 3:54:21 PM
Yes, especially if they seemed like a solid match in all other ways. Then I'd work to change there point of view on the subject. If it's a lost cause then move on.
 ClassyNova

Joined: 4/24/2006
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/5/2007 12:36:44 PM
I find this is primarily the only way women get off, mind you there are quite a few good positions to get any woman off during sex but I am a firm believer in getting my woman off orally first then if we have more during sex, so be it, if not we can always have after play, now if I was interested in a woman that not only didnt do it but didnt LOVE to do it, there is a reason for it, if we couldnt get past the reason then tehre really couldnt be a future...think about it...wouldnt it feel a tad....one sided and slightly unfair sometimes if you were giving and never receiving...I know I would.
 Willow55

Joined: 3/17/2006
Msg: 273
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/5/2007 1:17:06 PM
Somewhere back in the early pages of this thread it was stated that oral sex was a generational issue, valued and participated in, more by the younger generations. Biggest sexual myth out there folks.
Hello, there is a whole thread running on just that topic, importance of oral sex as we get older.

It is my opinion that, at my age, the men in the available dating pool had best be willing to "eat at the Y" so to speak, as chemical enhancement is not required.

Would I date a man who didn't? Absolutely. I date numerous men that I don't have sex with so their sexual preferences are not an issue.
Would I seriously consider an relationship with a man who wouldn't? Not in this lifetime. Oral sex is far too pleasurable to even consider a relationship with someone who won't. Only thing worse than "gettin'none" is gettin' some that's " poorly done". But ladies, if he isn't doing it right, to suit you, tell him and show him what you need. Remember , they need direction, they don't read minds.
The same goes for you guys. Nobody actually teaches us how to do it, we are running on experience and what we have learned along the way. Doing it badly only means that you havent exactly communicated what you prefer, not that we are not enthusiastic. Truthfully, some women do talk about the "technique of giving" amongst their very good friends, so we do pick up hints as we go along.
 xxfoxyredxx

Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 274
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/5/2007 1:18:52 PM
I dont think ive ever had a conversation bout sex with a guy till its happened and thats when ive found stuff out. By the time i sleep with a guy its him i want regardless.
Of course id prefer a man that enjoys giving and receivin oral sex but its not be end and end of all of the world lol x
 mj_rogers

Joined: 10/1/2007
Msg: 275
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/5/2007 1:19:53 PM
No
And if he told me he didn't before the date...there wouldn't be a date. Well, not true - I can go out with anyone but if I am hoping for some type of relationship, that would be a deal breaker.
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