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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 9/9/2007 2:12:26 AM | Obviously most of you havent heard the horror stories about experiences some people have had from oral sex.One guy in a forum post on this site..cant remember what thread it was said he had gone down on his girlfriend and she was on her periods and the blood tasted salty,then imagine if she had hiv etc now , tell me..would you want a to kiss or be with a man who had gone down another woman who had her monthly's etc.. its not the 1st story time i heard that happening or worse..I just think its grose..some people with std's and they go down on each other makes it even worse yuck then they bring their mouth to you? ofcourse you get tested bla bala bla but how many people show each other medical docs b4 a 1st kiss?grose pple seriously a world without oral is a dream world.lips on ur mouth for their lips and what god created downthere to fit where its meant to and thats not in the other that people have even decided to include yuck | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 9/23/2007 6:11:52 PM | Wow... never had anyone say that before... I'm pretty adventurous when it comes to sex. I don't know. It would depend on how good everything else is, I guess. I actually love to give and receive. It's intimate, very sexy, definitely extremely pleasurable. I kinda go with how I feel, not whether if I'll get it in return. I don't give it just because I received either.
On second thought, if someone came out and stated that, we may not be compatible for it to get that far because I'm not into people who are close minded in the first place. I hate demands and judgments... but who knows! He would have to be pretty F*ing special to change my mind!  | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 9/25/2007 10:25:44 AM | | hell yah. then again i wouldnt date any man who has had intercoase more than once, i like virgins, and i sure as hell dont want to suck a****to keep someone thats just pafetic, and eww i dont want him licking me down there, just think of kissing him again ewww, so yah i dont want a diquesting man bring on the clean. yall are disquesting | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 10/5/2007 12:36:44 PM | | I find this is primarily the only way women get off, mind you there are quite a few good positions to get any woman off during sex but I am a firm believer in getting my woman off orally first then if we have more during sex, so be it, if not we can always have after play, now if I was interested in a woman that not only didnt do it but didnt LOVE to do it, there is a reason for it, if we couldnt get past the reason then tehre really couldnt be a future...think about it...wouldnt it feel a tad....one sided and slightly unfair sometimes if you were giving and never receiving...I know I would. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 10/5/2007 1:17:06 PM | Somewhere back in the early pages of this thread it was stated that oral sex was a generational issue, valued and participated in, more by the younger generations. Biggest sexual myth out there folks. Hello, there is a whole thread running on just that topic, importance of oral sex as we get older.
It is my opinion that, at my age, the men in the available dating pool had best be willing to "eat at the Y" so to speak, as chemical enhancement is not required.
Would I date a man who didn't? Absolutely. I date numerous men that I don't have sex with so their sexual preferences are not an issue. Would I seriously consider an relationship with a man who wouldn't? Not in this lifetime. Oral sex is far too pleasurable to even consider a relationship with someone who won't. Only thing worse than "gettin'none" is gettin' some that's " poorly done". But ladies, if he isn't doing it right, to suit you, tell him and show him what you need. Remember , they need direction, they don't read minds. The same goes for you guys. Nobody actually teaches us how to do it, we are running on experience and what we have learned along the way. Doing it badly only means that you havent exactly communicated what you prefer, not that we are not enthusiastic. Truthfully, some women do talk about the "technique of giving" amongst their very good friends, so we do pick up hints as we go along. | |
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