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 Author Thread: Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
 laSWEET

Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 301
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/27/2007 7:52:51 PM
nope....i would not even consider it....to me its not an option but a prerequisite to great sex
 suzeemenuet

Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 302
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/27/2007 8:14:32 PM
If she was, then I'd just get her reallllllllllllllllllllll drunk and see if that has any impact....if not, then the next time I'd get her real drunk again and put it in her butt...

The next day, I'd tell her how AMAZING her butt was then offer her a choice...we could do that instead (keep in mind her ass will be KILLING her) make sure to stress how happy it made you and how much sexier she is than anyone else in that department...or you could SETTLE for oral...the choice is hers.

ok the first part is rape because she doesnt have a choice because her wits arent with her, the second part is just manipulation...personally i would not give oral because the thought makes me sick, i mean come on! u guys urinate out of that thing! i dont care how well u clean it im not doin it, and i dont expect to receive it because i wouldnt feel it anyway, (im paralyzed from the waist down).
 amazonqueenie

Joined: 4/30/2006
Msg: 303
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/28/2007 2:26:58 AM
That would be the OPPOSITE of sucking LOL



Wow that would suck huh?
 nipoleon

Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 304
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/28/2007 2:34:18 AM
I'd have no problem seriously dating a woman who didn't.
I wouldn't date a man whether he did or not !
 wantsumthinreal

Joined: 9/27/2007
Msg: 305
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/28/2007 4:35:05 AM
ok my question is this...what if something traumatic happened to her and that is the reason she refuses to give oral? does that make a difference?

Oral is not a big deal to me at all...I consider it a tease just to get warmed up for the main event. So it doesnt matter if they do or not as long as they dont expect me to all the time.
 firefighter1374

Joined: 7/5/2004
Msg: 306
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/28/2007 6:38:02 AM
yes i would yes i have sex is fun but there more importat things than that so what if he or she dont like going down i used live with lady who didnt give head big deal dont mater to me i feel if u like person then ur respect any and all wishes
 horshamguy

Joined: 8/25/2007
Msg: 307
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/28/2007 7:29:44 AM
Would I date a woman that told me that she did not give oral sex?

Well, I don't know how that would come up in conversation, "I don't smoke, I am 5'5" a brown hair - oh and I don't do oral sex..." That's kind of in the too much information category for me. But if for some reason it were to come up over dinner (again - kinda absurd). Well not a deal breaker for me . But if you're going to spit that out, I'm coming back with "you mean, up until now?".

 echo*

Joined: 5/23/2007
Msg: 308
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/28/2007 8:00:24 AM
No. That would be the end of it for me.
 Melinda55

Joined: 8/26/2007
Msg: 309
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/28/2007 8:30:45 AM
I usually don't but if I find a person extremely attractive I do it for them, i've only met one person that hasn't given me oral, have to wonder why that is, I haven't been given an explanation.....
 ngat73

Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 310
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/28/2007 9:51:24 AM
No. Why be with someone that had any kind of limitations.
 hiddentreasur2003

Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 311
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/28/2007 3:42:53 PM
To me, I would not care if the guy didn't want to do oral. Because I rarely get off with a man doing oral. As for me doing oral on a man. The man's c**k has to look pretty or forget it. Also visually it has to be the right size and width. If it isn't attractive, I am not going down on it, If its too fat and I know it will choke. I just tell the man I don't do oral. I won't even attempt it
 Put Name Here

Joined: 3/12/2007
Msg: 312
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/28/2007 3:46:38 PM
I have dated ladies that have stated that they don't do oral. Didn't understand why till after meeting up with a couple of people like this. They also didn't like to be close, emotionally and physically, and were terrible kissers even though they said they were great kissers.

I would have to say no to the idea of dating someone that would go to the trouble of stating that they don't do oral.

Oh, yeah, All of those ladies that didn't do oral wanted oral done to them Every Time! Self Centered people for sure.
 irish girl in mi

Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 313
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 10/28/2007 4:14:07 PM
no, i know that sounds vain, but i enjoy it so why would i go without....
 KFGuy

Joined: 8/15/2005
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 11/2/2007 11:10:35 AM
Hmmmmmmmm.........

that would really blow it for me
 GeekGamerGirl

Joined: 9/3/2007
Msg: 315
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 11/2/2007 11:37:29 AM
If a guy refused to go down on me, then goodbye to him. It keep up with my female parts... I make sure I'm double clean and everything before I even see the guy. He has no excuse. If he likes the vagina a certain way (ie: shaved, unshaved, half shaved...etc) then I'll happily do that.

Before I met my current boyfriend, I refused to go down on a guy because I was afraid... but my boyfriend was fine with it and never pressured me, he still went down on me. We tried it out using flavored condoms... then switched to flavored lube... then to nothing. He allowed me to take my time and everything, and now I enjoy it. But not a lot of guys are for that, and I can understand why, But yeah, it took a special guy to put up with that.. (then again he was a virgin and has only made out with 1 girl). But I was 16 at the time, go figure. Oh well, I'm glad he was able to put up with that otherwise I'd probably still be afraid to go down on a guy. Weird, I know.

But I still can't deal with the cum... its not the taste that irks me, just the thickness, texture... so I still refuse that in my mouth but I make up for it by allowing him to cum wherever on my body or finish up via sex.
 texhud

Joined: 5/5/2006
Msg: 316
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 11/2/2007 12:45:26 PM
NOPE!!!! It's too important and a woman who would not do it will be way too sexually repressed to get along with me
 Squid VT

Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 317
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 11/2/2007 1:02:11 PM
For the most part I would. Sex can not be the make/break of a relationship.

That being said, I would go nuts if I didn't get to eat my girl out at least once in a while. I also would like her to give me oral, but some times people cant. But that is just my preference.
 cyn3100

Joined: 8/4/2006
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 11/3/2007 12:33:35 AM
I couldn't have said it better myself. That is a deal breaker for me. I am game for whatever he wants. He needs to be game for whatever I want. There are some things a person shouldn't have to live without!
 _snake_

Joined: 10/19/2007
Msg: 319
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 11/3/2007 4:35:02 AM
did u whant real sex write now....???
 wefriends

Joined: 9/30/2007
Msg: 320
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 11/3/2007 7:12:59 AM
Anyone like that probably don't enjoy sex. I'd find someone else that was much more a joy to be around. There are plenty of fish in the sea, why hold on to a misfit or try to make em something they are not? Throw that one back.
 papabear1968

Joined: 4/9/2006
Msg: 321
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 11/3/2007 9:33:37 AM
Simple answer: NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 mr. dynomite

Joined: 9/11/2007
Msg: 322
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 11/3/2007 9:38:00 AM
No oral? sure...why not?

I would save a lot of money.. cause she wouldn't get any flowers.. she'd pay for her own meals.. she'd buy her own birthday presents & xmas presents... no breakfast in bed.. no kisses goodnite.. no drive to work..

yup. It would be pretty even i'd say.

 Pantherrrrr642001

Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 323
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 11/3/2007 9:38:50 AM
Been there, done that,.......... not going there again. I want to share the whole enchilada!
 SmellOfPoop

Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 324
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 11/11/2007 5:41:05 PM
No oral? To every woman who does not give oral, I've already been with you. I've already heard your numerous excuses. I've already experienced what you deem to be sexual substitutes to oral.
No thanks. You may be a great person, but you're a horrible sex partner.
 DaveyMyLad

Joined: 5/15/2007
Msg: 325
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 11/11/2007 5:51:08 PM
No I wouldn't......

........I'd phone a friend or ask the audience

For me the bigger issue would be that they wouldn't rx oral sex as that gets me off...

I wonder as well, does them saying they don't give it mean they are open to having it taken from them lol??

Dave
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