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 Author Thread: Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
 neokool

Joined: 4/24/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/3/2007 7:49:09 PM
I think that sex (oral or other) is not the be all end all in a relationship, it is the action the partners do with each other to show their dedication/affection to each other. That being said, I would date a girl who didn't like giving oral (but I hope she would like to receive ). Heck, if I met a girl and we totally hit it off; than I find out she can't have children, do you think I would let that get in the way of our relationship? No.

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 BlueSkyJ

Joined: 11/16/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/3/2007 8:01:10 PM
I have never met a woman that didn't like oral.....nothing like fireworks inside the bod....lovemaking is about giving & receiving, not one sided.....if she wasn't willing to try, I would end the relationship....remember there are Plenty of Fish out there.....so we have choices....why settle for less.....
 just em

Joined: 10/11/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/3/2007 9:44:56 PM
Seems like oral sex is something that I can live without. I am a person that believes that one of the best sex organs is the brain. The right man can get you going so you just want to the sooner the better. Of course I don't even kiss on the first date. I want to know a guy before things get intimate....at least I think that I know the guy.... I hope that I will be with him long enough that it isn't just sex too.
 aSydneyMale

Joined: 5/16/2006
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 12/4/2007 5:57:03 AM
I wouldn't either, giving and receiving is all part of the intimacy of sex.

I would certainly not be interested in being involved with a woman that expected me to go down on her without her reciprocating.
 meowgrrrr83

Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 380
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/7/2008 7:44:48 AM
I'd give him a chance to re-consider, anwer my question again..or
If he is not willing to do that... ooo dear lord.... he's gonna think im
 QTpye16

Joined: 6/29/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/7/2008 8:23:16 AM
johnglc(d635566),


Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex?


Yes I would. Oral sex is not a biggie to me, I enjoy sex wayyy more! Also alot of times when people say this, it usually means that they haven't tried it before or haven't met anyone they were comfortable to perform on or it could be the way they view it.
 GreatAttitude

Joined: 1/3/2007
Msg: 382
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/7/2008 10:59:25 AM
Uh - no. As a matter of fact - HELL NO! Unequivocally NADA! Sorry, that would be a "not even if he was hung like a horse".
 Shylent

Joined: 10/2/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/7/2008 6:18:47 PM
I most certainly would.
I do not like getting oral sex so a woman who did not like to give it would be preferred over a woman who loved to give it.
After all you dont miss what you dont want to begin with.
Now if she, like me, did not like oral sex then i might have a problem because i do like to give it from time to time.
 *Respited*Heart*

Joined: 9/19/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/7/2008 6:48:00 PM
Seriously date? Heck no! Not even casually date before sex. Being oral is such a huge part of the entire sexual session. These things are found out before being intimate.
 sandra19

Joined: 9/30/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/7/2008 9:04:44 PM
lets say i would go on a few dates just to be nice ..but on the long run ..nope ..unless he is ok with not reciving ..coz in my lil world its all about giving and reciving :)
 2BlovedeternalE

Joined: 10/20/2007
Msg: 386
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/7/2008 9:45:01 PM
I'd need to know W h y . .
Then convince her that it's the most pleasing ways to exchange affection . .
. . but . . if she was Adamant acout it . . well, hell . . it's just a Date . . !!
We can still have dun in Many other ways . . !!
 agent4664

Joined: 11/13/2007
Msg: 387
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/11/2008 2:27:26 PM
Not a chance! Total deal breaker...
 one step behind

Joined: 10/12/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/11/2008 4:02:17 PM
No Way in ....This would be a selfish person. So I would not even think twice about saying Bye Bye.....
 roddw

Joined: 1/7/2008
Msg: 389
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/11/2008 4:57:35 PM
yes...because it's not true, all women suck****..its a fact!!!
they have to in order to remain women.
 Boricua Papi

Joined: 10/8/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/11/2008 5:06:33 PM
Sex without some oral action is not excitable at all. I won't date a woman that doesn't like to give some head.
 chocolate knight

Joined: 12/6/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/12/2008 1:16:59 AM
ill put it this way, i dated a virgin for over a year. no form of anything. enough said lol. but in relationships where sex is present, i tend to be rather difficult to please for most women in that category, so i dont require it
 Supreme_Pizza

Joined: 4/15/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/12/2008 2:03:08 AM
No LTR without BJ.

If I give and don't receive I'll try one more time. There is never a third. I don't intend to be brash or rude but I don't want to spend the rest of my life with someone who is disgusted by oral.
 garnet73

Joined: 1/2/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/12/2008 3:49:59 AM
Some time ago, I was talking with my boss about a hiring decision. Going through resumes one of the candidates was obviously not qualified, and he said "would you hire her?" and I said "It depends on the blowjob she gave me." He was like "Blowjob? What? Are you gay? Why would you want that?" Well, unless a woman has a tongue in her vagina, there's some ways that oral is just plain better than intercourse.

I did meet a girl who told me straight up that she wouldn't go down, 'cuz it's nasty. Well, I go down and expressed disappointment that she wouldn't be reciprocating. Of course then she was all worried that I was going to try and "make" her give oral and got all snaky. So, that ended pretty quickly.

I was with a lady and we were getting to know each other, naked and making out on her bed. I was struck by the urge to go down, so down I went... and she started digging her nails into my shoulders, and pulling my hair and at one point shouted "Tell me that you love it!" Sometime later, she said "I've had oral sex before but I never realized it could feel good." Yes, I did it for her, but I'm the one who felt like a god when we were done.

So, in answer to the OP, I've never been in a sexual relationship with someone who didn't do oral and I'd rather not start.
 Cat*Eyes

Joined: 9/13/2006
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/12/2008 7:24:17 AM
If a man is not into giving or receiving oral sex, that would be very good news for me, because I hate oral contact. It sucks.
 steve110

Joined: 9/29/2007
Msg: 395
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/12/2008 7:36:48 AM
No way... thats the best part of the night or day......or date
 taogca

Joined: 7/22/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/12/2008 7:38:14 AM
[If a man is not into giving or receiving oral sex, that would be very good news for me, because I hate oral contact. If a man is not into giving or receiving oral sex, that would be very good news for me, because I hate oral contact. It sucks. ]


VERY BAD PUN// it sucks
it also licks and carresses an is very pleasurable activity.

I think it can be more fun than intercourse

So to answer original question,,,,yes, no oral at all is a deal breaker since I really enjoy giving when a desireable partner is available to me.
 Mi Mi 5

Joined: 10/29/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/12/2008 8:28:22 AM
Good for you! I listen to my friends and the latest thing seems to be that when men start having an affair one of the first thing they do is twirl their****in front of you, like a keystone cop, twirling his****like a baton in front of you. This is their offering. So girls it is easier to tell them you have jaw trouble ie TMJ, this way you can suck them when YOU want to.
Do you know why a bride, when walking down the isle, brides are smiling so widely? Because they know that when married, they do not have to give anymore blow jobs.

Listen, guys, ladies have enough to do just trying to get aroused and do not need to be distracted. sucking a****which does not arouse us most of the time. It is a distraction for women, to suck**** because as women we have enough trouble trying to have an orgasm.
Guys can get off so much easier then us, so leave us alone at first so we can get in the zone.
 searchingalot

Joined: 12/19/2007
Msg: 398
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/12/2008 8:46:34 AM
It has been my expereince that women who feel this way either havent been really satisfied, or are inexpereienced in the area. When a women is aroused to a certain point, and a man takes care to do things PROPERLY, it usually end sup well for all....grin.
 chasesmom

Joined: 11/21/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/12/2008 9:27:02 AM
I'd have a hard time with it. When I'm emotionally involved, having some 69 foreplay 'til the very brink, then the intercourse, is heavenly. I'd have a difficult time orgasming without oral foreplay.
 mikerdw

Joined: 5/28/2006
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/12/2008 10:08:02 AM
definitely, 100%, unequivacally, NO WAY.
i need someone who both appreciates and loves receiving as well as giving. cause i do.
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