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 Author Thread: Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
 hersheyboy

Joined: 9/11/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/12/2008 10:39:43 AM
Only once in my entire life have I known a lady who was not into it. Neither giving nor receiving. In fact, the one time I tried, when I finished she insisted I go brush my teeth. Man! Talk about a moment killer!
Needless to say, we are no longer together.

Nope. Some things are non-negotiable for me. And oral is one of them. If I can't lick your p*ssy then what the HE LL are we doing? Wham, bam, thank you ma'am? No thanks.
 2BlovedeternalE

Joined: 10/20/2007
Msg: 402
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/12/2008 10:46:56 AM
..{**Key word being "Give" **}..
Sure I would . . !! 'Dating' is a temporary arrangement . .
But I wouldn't think Twice about discontinuing a _relationship_, if she didn't like to
_Receive_ it . . !! . . !.. !!.. !!! !!! !!! . .
 Blonde_charm

Joined: 9/18/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/12/2008 11:12:50 AM
Well to be honest it gets irrititating when I hear all over the place a guy HAS to have it but no way would he give it. I personally could take or leave it, receiving that is.

But someone who wants it without recriprocating is.... well, selfish.

And I have met two men in my lifetime who did not like receiving. It was definately a deal breaker. I couldn't handle it. For all the men who weren't comfortable giving, I weighed the overall pros and cons and went from there.
 Ravenstar66

Joined: 8/27/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/12/2008 11:41:27 AM
Sure

A person whom I would date would have to be a HELL of a lot more than just a sex toy. Plus once you get some experience you realize there are a LOT of ways to have sex/make love. Some men seem to think that good (or so-so) oral is what every lady wants, needs and don't progress much farther in their sexual repetoire.. which can get boring after a while.

It's sort of akin the the "formula" sex thing.. you know, after a while sex degrades to Kiss, Feel up, Oral, Intercourse. Sad, but true... and ultimately the death of a good sex life.
 2BlovedeternalE

Joined: 10/20/2007
Msg: 405
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/12/2008 12:14:44 PM
Good thought, 'Raven'. . There's more to even a Dating arrangement than sex..
But..when sex 'degrades' .. it's time to find another 'Date' . .
A degrading sex-life is more generally associated with Marriage . .
..BUT.. Keeping things Fresh, Sensual and Loving will keep even a marriage strong and Exciting . . !!
. . Y?. . N? . .
 Jason402

Joined: 12/24/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/12/2008 12:33:59 PM
I would date a woman. I wouldn't date a amn either way
 sw91506

Joined: 11/7/2007
Msg: 407
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/12/2008 1:43:09 PM
Love... to give it and Love.... to receive it. I wouldn't be a content in a relationship with out it. Nothing is better than giving pleasure to someone you really care about.
 dwight1055

Joined: 6/19/2006
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 forumman

Joined: 7/25/2007
Msg: 409
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/16/2008 1:30:22 PM
no way..i love oral...both giving and receiving..
there is something great about a girl taking your co c k in her mouth..seems very personal..
some of my greatest memories are of girls giving me head...and brill memories of 69's too..

i love it...and couldnt do without it

FM
 Next Time Round

Joined: 9/16/2007
Msg: 410
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/16/2008 3:55:45 PM

In fact, the one time I tried, when I finished she insisted I go brush my teeth. Man! Talk about a moment killer! Needless to say, we are no longer together.


Give? Sure. Receive...never again. What's left? Been there and well, didn't do that. Was told it wasn't very romantic of me to want to. Another moment killer.

Best be heading back to the less sexually revealing forums now. Bye.
 tinfoil729

Joined: 9/29/2007
Msg: 411
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/16/2008 4:11:27 PM
I LIKE TO GIVE MORE THAN RECIVE :) I HAVE HAD A FEW BAD ONES (meat griders) BUT I WILL ENJOY A BLOWJOB EVERY NOW AN AGAIN :)

AS FOR THE WOMAN OUT THERE I CAN UNDERSTAND WHY YOU ARNT AS WILLING TO GIVE HEAD, ONCE I HAD WOMAN TELL ME "HOW WOULD YOU LIKE A BIG SWEATY HAIRY****IN MOUTH?" :
 cubbies4me34

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/16/2008 4:14:18 PM
In reality, I would find it hard to date someone that did not. Although, there are many out there that say they do not and it's only because they either never have or have never been in a situation where they have felt comfortable and happy with it. Tough call really.
 garnet73

Joined: 1/2/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/16/2008 4:20:43 PM

AS FOR THE WOMAN OUT THERE I CAN UNDERSTAND WHY YOU ARNT AS WILLING TO GIVE HEAD, ONCE I HAD WOMAN TELL ME "HOW WOULD YOU LIKE A BIG SWEATY HAIRY****IN MOUTH?"

Firstly... CAPS
And the response is: I'm straight, aren't you?
Assuming you're straight and asking you how you'd feel about performing a homosexual act is not a valid argument.

Also note: If your equipment is either sweaty or hairy, you need to take it to the shop for maintenance. Trim it, clean it.
 johnnycomelately1

Joined: 6/9/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/16/2008 11:06:03 PM
This is my first venture into other forums, I'm usually found playing waggish tricks in the uk forum.This seems to me to be the ideal starting point as its a subject close to my 'face .

Like any other man , I find having my knob sucked a pleasurable experience . But only when the lady knows what she's doing, otherwise its the exact opposite for me.
I can't deny that I do like eating ****. Usually in conjnction with one/two or all of the following actions: nibbling, flicking, chewing , kissing, fingers, thumbs, rubbing, etc..etc... You get the general idea.
Ive not yet encountered a situation where a girl I was involved with refused to take part in mutual oral pleasure.My course of action would depend totally on the reasons she had ,how much she meant to me and if there was any chance she could be persuaded to have a rethink.
 Ostentatious

Joined: 1/9/2008
Msg: 415
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/17/2008 3:36:44 AM
I'd look at her like she was a damned Betamax video and say;

'They still make you?'
 vampira13

Joined: 7/28/2006
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/17/2008 4:21:50 AM
am i the only person who thinks there are more important facets to a person than oral sex?

like personality? surely oral sex isnt what you look for in a person?

it wouldnt matter to me. different people like different things and i look for more than that in a person.

a thought though...if women had the **** do you really think men would suck it?
 Ostentatious

Joined: 1/9/2008
Msg: 417
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/17/2008 5:02:25 AM

am i the only person who thinks there are more important facets to a person than oral sex?


I am sure you're not the only person who feels that way BUT some people, myself included wouldn't want a partner with sexual hang ups. Personality or no personality.
 vampira13

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/17/2008 5:07:08 AM
i dont think not wanting to give oral sex counts as a hang up.

different people just like different things
 Ostentatious

Joined: 1/9/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/17/2008 5:12:16 AM

i dont think not wanting to give oral sex counts as a hang up. different people just like different things


Don't you see, this is the beauty of people!

It's easy, that person finds someone who isn't bothered about recieving it and everyones a winner!

Personally, I haven't 'cum' from oral sex since I was 16 years old (now 28), because I didn't like the sensation and have a mental block there. However I like recieving it during foreplay as much as I like to go down on her.

For me it's not specifically about the act, it's about someone saying 'NO'. Now, because there's VERY little I'd say 'NO' to, I personally wouldn't accept that. Someone else may and good luck to them.

We are all very different that's all.

Oh, if it's not a hang up I don't know what is and if a guy doesn't cum during oral sex I can guarantee going down a woman, without her cuming as well is a much messier business.
 rock_hunter

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/17/2008 5:19:32 AM

am i the only person who thinks there are more important facets to a person than oral sex?
like personality? surely oral sex isnt what you look for in a person?


Well, I don't think the "I don't like it, so YOU give it up" personality is what most people looks in a potential partner.
 Surrealxistance

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 1/19/2008 8:59:14 AM
i defenitely would not
i absolutely love performing it on my partners it sone of my favorite things to do . defenitely a turn on for me.
as far as receiving it goes i have never achieved climax ever from it but i defenitely like to have it done as foreplay.
i'm amazed at the number of women whough who like to have it done to them but their significant other doesnt do it, but they expect them too its totally unfair and i always counsel my women friends to stop doing it till its reciprocated lol
 groovebusters12

Joined: 2/20/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/22/2008 11:26:42 AM
no...why bother. Talk about taking the fun out of life. I think about getting a blow job at least twice a day....c'mon...I'm a guy.
 echox

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/22/2008 11:39:33 AM
I would not go out with someone that did not like to give or recieve oral sex. I have had a few GF's that obviously didn't enjoy giving head but they still did it cause I would reciprocate. I wouldn't pressure but in a realionship it is give and take. Ladies I can tell you from exp. that there is no better feeling then getting head from a woman that enjoys it.
 catman40

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/22/2008 12:41:39 PM
My ex-girlfreind and I dated for 4 years . NO oral sex . not me . not her . sure , she jacked me off . BUT , never would swallow cum from me . let me cum on her . so , I would say Yes , I would date a woman WHO did not want oral sex .
 bralda-him

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/22/2008 12:47:12 PM
Do as to others as you would have them do un to you. Ok I don't really like quoting the bible, but I think this applies in most parts of life.

If you wish to receive then be prepared to give.
As far as date, sure I would date a girl. They rarely stick around long enough for it to get sexual anyway.
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