| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 1/12/2008 10:39:43 AM | Only once in my entire life have I known a lady who was not into it. Neither giving nor receiving. In fact, the one time I tried, when I finished she insisted I go brush my teeth. Man! Talk about a moment killer! Needless to say, we are no longer together.
Nope. Some things are non-negotiable for me. And oral is one of them. If I can't lick your p*ssy then what the HE LL are we doing? Wham, bam, thank you ma'am? No thanks. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 1/12/2008 11:12:50 AM | Well to be honest it gets irrititating when I hear all over the place a guy HAS to have it but no way would he give it. I personally could take or leave it, receiving that is.
But someone who wants it without recriprocating is.... well, selfish.
And I have met two men in my lifetime who did not like receiving. It was definately a deal breaker. I couldn't handle it. For all the men who weren't comfortable giving, I weighed the overall pros and cons and went from there. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 1/12/2008 11:41:27 AM | Sure
A person whom I would date would have to be a HELL of a lot more than just a sex toy. Plus once you get some experience you realize there are a LOT of ways to have sex/make love. Some men seem to think that good (or so-so) oral is what every lady wants, needs and don't progress much farther in their sexual repetoire.. which can get boring after a while.
It's sort of akin the the "formula" sex thing.. you know, after a while sex degrades to Kiss, Feel up, Oral, Intercourse. Sad, but true... and ultimately the death of a good sex life. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 1/16/2008 3:55:45 PM |
In fact, the one time I tried, when I finished she insisted I go brush my teeth. Man! Talk about a moment killer! Needless to say, we are no longer together.
Give? Sure. Receive...never again. What's left? Been there and well, didn't do that. Was told it wasn't very romantic of me to want to. Another moment killer.
Best be heading back to the less sexually revealing forums now. Bye. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 1/16/2008 4:20:43 PM |
AS FOR THE WOMAN OUT THERE I CAN UNDERSTAND WHY YOU ARNT AS WILLING TO GIVE HEAD, ONCE I HAD WOMAN TELL ME "HOW WOULD YOU LIKE A BIG SWEATY HAIRY****IN MOUTH?" Firstly... CAPS And the response is: I'm straight, aren't you? Assuming you're straight and asking you how you'd feel about performing a homosexual act is not a valid argument.
Also note: If your equipment is either sweaty or hairy, you need to take it to the shop for maintenance. Trim it, clean it. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 1/16/2008 11:06:03 PM | This is my first venture into other forums, I'm usually found playing waggish tricks in the uk forum.This seems to me to be the ideal starting point as its a subject close to my 'face .
Like any other man , I find having my knob sucked a pleasurable experience . But only when the lady knows what she's doing, otherwise its the exact opposite for me. I can't deny that I do like eating ****. Usually in conjnction with one/two or all of the following actions: nibbling, flicking, chewing , kissing, fingers, thumbs, rubbing, etc..etc... You get the general idea. Ive not yet encountered a situation where a girl I was involved with refused to take part in mutual oral pleasure.My course of action would depend totally on the reasons she had ,how much she meant to me and if there was any chance she could be persuaded to have a rethink. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 1/17/2008 4:21:50 AM | am i the only person who thinks there are more important facets to a person than oral sex?
like personality? surely oral sex isnt what you look for in a person?
it wouldnt matter to me. different people like different things and i look for more than that in a person.
a thought though...if women had the **** do you really think men would suck it? | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 1/17/2008 5:12:16 AM |
i dont think not wanting to give oral sex counts as a hang up. different people just like different things
Don't you see, this is the beauty of people!
It's easy, that person finds someone who isn't bothered about recieving it and everyones a winner!
Personally, I haven't 'cum' from oral sex since I was 16 years old (now 28), because I didn't like the sensation and have a mental block there. However I like recieving it during foreplay as much as I like to go down on her.
For me it's not specifically about the act, it's about someone saying 'NO'. Now, because there's VERY little I'd say 'NO' to, I personally wouldn't accept that. Someone else may and good luck to them.
We are all very different that's all.
Oh, if it's not a hang up I don't know what is and if a guy doesn't cum during oral sex I can guarantee going down a woman, without her cuming as well is a much messier business. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 1/19/2008 8:59:14 AM | i defenitely would not i absolutely love performing it on my partners it sone of my favorite things to do . defenitely a turn on for me. as far as receiving it goes i have never achieved climax ever from it but i defenitely like to have it done as foreplay. i'm amazed at the number of women whough who like to have it done to them but their significant other doesnt do it, but they expect them too its totally unfair and i always counsel my women friends to stop doing it till its reciprocated lol | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/22/2008 11:39:33 AM | | I would not go out with someone that did not like to give or recieve oral sex. I have had a few GF's that obviously didn't enjoy giving head but they still did it cause I would reciprocate. I wouldn't pressure but in a realionship it is give and take. Ladies I can tell you from exp. that there is no better feeling then getting head from a woman that enjoys it. | |
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