| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/22/2008 1:25:27 PM | | It's not that oral sex is required by me, it's more that if we're compatible, it's going to be part of the menu. However, a man who would not let me pleasure him in that way would not be in my life long. I have wondered, when reading a man say he can't get there through oral stimulation, if I could change his opinion of that. I'd like to meet the man who'd be willing to explore enough to change mine in the same way. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/13/2008 12:03:07 AM | No way. You give and you get.
That's called, Sex!
You give and you get. Right?
What if you just get.
What if you just give?
You have to give to get. That's sex, imo.
Duh - Right?
But, 'cause if you just give and you don't get (or visa versa), then, its not sex.
You might as well masterB or whatever, which means that you are alone.
Or, at least that's where you started out, lol!
Might as well have date with a magazine. OOhhh.... | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/13/2008 4:39:18 AM | Re the Opost
1. I do not give oral to a woman unless within a very serious rel.
2. I have "dated" women who gave quite bad oral, very few who were really into it, and one who did not give at all. So no oral is better than bad oral, IMHO, and nope, I do not consider it my "job" to teach a 30++ year old woman how to give oral, it is a matter of creativity IMO. She either has it, or she does not.
Seriously, it all depends. I would not date a woman who is not into sex. The rest are on a case by case basis. They are no fixed menus in sex. Eg if we hit it off, we are great together in missionary, her on top and doggy, not give me oral I can accept, at least for a few months!! lol lol lol
PS. And no, a man giving a woman oral is not equivalent/the same as with a woman giving a man oral: Why? Different anatomies! | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/13/2008 8:43:14 AM | Having been in a relationship where the ex was not into giving oral (could count the times on 2 hands that it happened in over a yr), I would not want to go through that again. It did get old when he wanted it as foreplay every single time but yet would not reciprocate. Realized later on that he was beyond selfish as a lover and who wants that?
Intimacy is a two way street. If there are certain things that one enjoys during sex and you'd like to have them, then one should be willing to do whatever pleases the other person as well. JMHO
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/13/2008 8:48:09 PM | Hell no.
If hygene is a serious problem, etc., install a bidet or Japanese washlet in the house, etc., and learn how to use. The bidets are also good for panty hose, washing feet and potty training that 3 year old boy that NOW has to wash his own pants out. "Yes, sweetie, that sink was installed on the floor just for you . . . l" P.S., uncircumsized men (a lot of Europeans) have the same funkiness of women, so take note.
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/14/2008 5:07:54 PM | No.
I also would not date a woman who did not enjoy getting oral sex. (I sure dig totally being in control of a womans pleasure)
When I was younger, like some of the other commenters, I did take it as a challenge. Usually once I showed a girl that it can be fun getting oral sex they seemed more open to giving (YEA! for high school). But then there are those stingy girls I dated that were happy to take but would never reciprocate.
Now this does not mean that I want to date a girl that's constantly got her mouth in my pants but it is a comforting thought to not have that activity taken off the table totally. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/14/2008 5:45:45 PM | I’m sorry but I would not waste my time with anyone that thought any part of sex or oral was weird or gross. We were made for each other and if your lovemaking is about how little juices you get on or in you and how gross things are; you are to immature to have sex, go be a Nunn or something. On my dates, I always ask in a round about way what the other thinks of oral or other fetishes and if they say ewww, and immature stuff then I finished the date and that is the end of it. If that makes me shallow, so be it. O by the way, yes you should aim to please your partner but it is a give and take, if she’s like eat me, and then turns around and says ewww I’d never do that, you’re a fool to waste your time with her only pu$$y whipped guys would put up with that
sh!t.There are thousands of women out there don’t settle for nothing.. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/15/2008 12:33:44 PM | | No, that's a deal-breaker for me. One former partner of mine went down on me 3 or 4 times ever, and it made me feel like I was less desirable, or that he wasn't that interested in being that intimate with me. So knowing how I react to that, and that it's important for me to have that type of intimacy with a partner, I'm not willing to put myself through the stress of it. | |
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