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 Author Thread: Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
 bowlerman67

Joined: 11/22/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/15/2008 2:16:34 PM
No way no how. Now as far as me receiving it? Sure I like that, but I love performing it to the point where if there was such thing as a SEX God and he came down and told me I could either have oral sex or PENALtration, I would take oral in a heartbeat. Not even a thought. But if it came down to where I could only receive oral and not give it, I would take PENALtration in a heart beat. I love giving oral. Might be the best thing in this world as long as she's clean. If not she won't see me again. Ok, at least down there.
 daniel a

Joined: 4/10/2008
Msg: 452
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/16/2008 7:29:22 AM
Some women arent into it...giving or receiving.Its not a deal breaker with me though.I like to think theres nothing we wouldnt do for each other though..it is always a turnon when someone tries a little harder to please you
 cheshire_grin

Joined: 1/11/2006
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/16/2008 9:30:00 AM
I love giving a guy oral, but I have jaw problem that makes it hurt like a ****. The next day I'll be on fluids only to eat, a heat pad on my jaw, lots of pain and pain killers that don't work that well any more. I have so much pain from it some times I'll vomit due to the pain.

That being said, I still go down on my guy if I'm not too sore that day.

Could a guy deal with that? A girl who does have a lot of pain to do with it so only does it when she thinks she can, or would that be a deal breaker?
 bowlerman67

Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 454
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/16/2008 9:47:32 AM
That would be ok, if I could pleasure you. I prefer that anyway, not that I don't like a good BJ, but don't want you in pain either.
 AC3383

Joined: 8/6/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/18/2008 5:34:14 PM
For me it would be a very painful decision.
 Blondebabi

Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 456
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/19/2008 4:18:31 AM
I have actually been with two men previously and both of them refused to give! Only ever received and my last boyfriend I was in a relationship for nearly a year... "It just seems so wrong!" and "It doesn't appeal to me" were his most used phrases! So I've never received!!!!!!!!!!!!
 TheFirebirdGuy

Joined: 5/23/2004
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/20/2008 11:12:44 PM
I would date that woman. There are other important to considered in a relationship. Honesty is most important to me.
 bigbabe72

Joined: 4/16/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/21/2008 3:16:34 AM
Yes! As long as he has a sense of adventure and is willing to try other things.
 nameunknown

Joined: 4/17/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/22/2008 12:29:40 AM
I think it's mostly a chicks' issue not to go down,cause my bubbies that I talk to,they are alll for goin' down to the 'Y". Let's hear others' thoughts on this.


I disagree. I know a few women that won't let their guys go down (I sure as hell ain't one of them) but I don't know one girl who isn't willing to please her man by going down.
 smiles0527

Joined: 6/20/2006
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/28/2008 12:16:56 AM
Couldn't sleep, started reading the forums and this one cracked me up!!!! As for me, I love for a man to pleasure me and this is one of the best ways....if he takes his time, has good technique and doesn't think that "quicker is always better." I too like to make sure my man is satisfied........in all ways. GUESS my answer has to be no!!! Like it all. Can't believe how shallow that sounds but ....we like what we like!!!
 man4u2xplor

Joined: 2/4/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/28/2008 1:14:56 AM
NO, NO, No, and nO. Oh, and no. Add any exclamatory marks where you feel there is ambiguity.....(!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
 opnmydm

Joined: 3/23/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/28/2008 6:02:15 AM
i would not date somone not into oral pleasure, i like or shall i say love to give just as much as i recieve...enjoy
 Nancy54534

Joined: 1/30/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/28/2008 9:29:30 AM
He would have to have some really interesting talents to compensate and compete with that issue.
Probably not
 Masked_Hero

Joined: 12/14/2003
Msg: 464
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/28/2008 9:32:06 AM
Only if she has a friend that would come over and take care of that part for me..
 Namats III

Joined: 2/11/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/28/2008 9:41:49 AM
Sure I would...!!! . . . DATE one . . .
Now . . if it were to develop into an LTR....She'd ~either~ :
Be 'Guilted' into reciprocating . . due to the mere fact ..
that _She_'d be Getting a LOT of it . .
..or..
She'd have to absolutely L O V E Manual stimulation..!!
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 ~MsMochaSweet~

Joined: 4/14/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/28/2008 10:10:27 AM
I don't give it, but that has never been a problem with the men I've been with. In fact, most men love giving more then receiving. I would definitely date a man who didn't give.

Also would not get with one if that was all he could do. Oral is not the main event for me. If a man really knows what he's doing, how to make good love, which buttons to push, different positions that really do it for a woman, I think that even women who love oral would not even miss it.

That's the kind of men I like. I can take or leave the oral.
 Zachariah_Ticer

Joined: 4/22/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/28/2008 1:11:06 PM
Probably not. Perhaps, but probably not.

I would also be upset if she wasn't into receiving oral sex. Limitations are not good for healthy sex lives imho. Especially for mine, because I love oral sex (giving/receiving). I have been with a couple girls that didn't like it... just about to the point were they wouldn't let me do it. That's rare, and there is nothing wrong with it! But that is detrimental to a good sex life for me, so it probably would be a deal-breaker... at least...for a long-term.
 MrVegas305

Joined: 8/20/2006
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 5/14/2008 7:19:48 AM
Sorry, but the answer is no. I couldn't do without oral sex. I absolutely love giving and receiving oral. I can't figure out which I like best, giving or receiving but I am definitely an expert at giving. There is nothing better than cunnilingus! (That's eating **** for those of you who aren't aware of that term) Yes, I love to eat ****! There, I said it, and now it's all over the internet! LOL
 MissouraBelle22

Joined: 5/4/2008
Msg: 469
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 5/17/2008 10:34:55 PM
I have before. It's not that big of a deal.
 MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 5/17/2008 10:38:15 PM
No I would not! I want the whole package!
 Michaelann

Joined: 9/11/2004
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/22/2008 11:07:47 AM
I think it's mostly a chicks' issue not to go down,cause my bubbies that I talk to,they are alll for goin' down to the 'Y". Let's hear others' thoughts on this. - johnglc

Some women have problems with it when they are younger, especially if they are introduced to it badly.
But, it's also my experiecne that a lot mroe guy SAY the like it (especially with their guy friends in earshot)
than are actually willing.
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Ummm well I suppose it would depend on whether we could explore what his hangup is with it and whether he really wanted to change that...then I'd give it a chance and work on it. - Blastkist

Wow, that's quite the viewpoint! Anyone who likes different things than you, that qualifies as a hangup?
People aren't allowed to have different taste, when it comes to sex? That sounds very narrow-minded . JMO.
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I would look at like she was a beta-max and say "Wow I didn't know they even made you anymore, I'm going to future shop to get a blue ray!" - The Suisider

Guys with attitudes like this, almost make me sorry i am a straight chick. They sure make me glad I ain't single
& looking anymore, that's for sure!
ROFLMFAO!!
ps- Love your headline! It's a perfect fit!
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Of course love is deeper than just oral sex. Only a unbelievably shallow person would say NO - East Van Man


(what more can I say?) Wow!
 PosterX

Joined: 6/3/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/22/2008 3:42:35 PM
I don't think that makes me a shallow person.... if that was a requirement for me.

I also enjoy it.. and give as good as I get.

Most, but not all, of the women that I have dated, just needed some encouragement and then they did just fine!
 musi5

Joined: 9/14/2004
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/22/2008 10:07:10 PM
NOPE!...i dated a girl once that did it like once every two months....despite me giving her oral sex regularly.....i will NEVER put myself through that again, this man has "needs".........LOL....no oral sex, you are getting DUMPED
 youkneadme

Joined: 5/11/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/22/2008 11:29:55 PM
No. No. No. No. Its all about intimacy. I think its weird if a guy wont do. Have to love it. Have to love it.
 gnuru75

Joined: 6/17/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/22/2008 11:38:00 PM
Yes, I would seriously date a woman if they told me they did not give oral sex. Generally, in my opinion, this is based on experience not personality. My desires and personality are not based on simply receiving oral sex. Personality and experience traits of my ideal person are based on more than oral sex.
If the only thing she ever said, at all, was she did not give oral sex then no I would not seriously date her. I might be a little scared.
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