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 Author Thread: Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
 Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/23/2008 9:04:51 AM
Did for 20 years...

pll can compensate in other ways
 *mandrake*

Joined: 9/19/2006
Msg: 477
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/23/2008 9:14:21 AM
yeah...just put some milk on it and let the cat lick it off!
 newblue1970

Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 478
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/23/2008 9:25:26 AM
Its not a selfish or shallow thing for me, its more of an overall sexual attitude. I like a lot of variety and sexual playfullness, and if they didnt even like oral sex, then there's no way they 'd go for other kinkiness.

So even though receiving isn't really a big deal to me (though giving is a MUST!) , we just wouldnt be compataible.
 alicia60

Joined: 12/10/2006
Msg: 479
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/23/2008 11:30:44 AM
Absolutely not. Like it, must have it.
 PirateOB

Joined: 5/22/2008
Msg: 480
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/23/2008 8:32:48 PM
not in this life time or the next
 SuccessFindsAWay

Joined: 5/16/2008
Msg: 481
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/23/2008 11:02:14 PM
Tough call - I guess for me it would depend on if I saw the relationship REALLY going somewhere and if I was starting to fall in love. Everyone has difference preferences and I would respect that so long as my sexual needs were being met in other ways. Sure it would be tough to live with out but I could do it for the right person. On the topic I would not give oral unless I was in a serious commited relationship...I dont do it for just anybody ;-)
 Platnmtung

Joined: 4/20/2008
Msg: 482
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/23/2008 11:32:56 PM
Don't know about SERIOUSLY date, I've never been in that position before...however I have gotten very close to a few women who told me that either had never done it, or weren't interested in doing it...and so far my luck has been great in that department...no reason to throw away a great possibility on a chance that my partner won't change her mind down the line...
 *AngelFyre*

Joined: 2/12/2008
Msg: 483
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/23/2008 11:57:14 PM
I don't think I could stay with someone who didn't want to at least try and please me. Ive been with a guy like that before so never again. Give and you should give in return lol, something like that
 Little Miss Grumpy

Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 484
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/24/2008 1:02:17 AM
I wouldnt either it means he's selfish and inhibited cant have that.

If you dont like giving head get urself a vibrator and use it while giving him a bj.

It satisfies ur oral fixation and vag fixation. I like having orgasms this way.

wit a mutherduckin****in my mouth mouth mouth...
 MMORPGRTSFPS

Joined: 6/20/2008
Msg: 485
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/24/2008 4:25:05 AM
Gotta agree, wouldn't work out long term. Especially since I've never met a woman who doesn't like oral sex performed on her (although there are some), and I'm always generous.
 itsjustme328

Joined: 12/22/2007
Msg: 486
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/24/2008 8:11:40 PM
I've said it before and I'll say it again...I want the whole package. Oral sex is an important part of the package.
 _Red_

Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 487
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/24/2008 8:13:16 PM
Never. Damn, my post was too short but what more can I say?
 bowlerman67

Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 488
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/24/2008 8:16:20 PM
Responding to post 476, how did the man with that woman not want to? Here you go
 klopper

Joined: 5/8/2008
Msg: 489
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/24/2008 11:11:19 PM
Hell NO....

I love sucking **** so only fair that she swallows and makes me squerm too!

 voodooguru

Joined: 3/27/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/25/2008 4:22:43 PM
Not bloody likely.

While the oral sex itself would be missed, it's more the psychology of a woman who refuses to go down. What else is she repressing?

Fortunately I've only met one woman who refused since HS, and she changed her opinion of it soon into the relationship.
 mandy0420

Joined: 5/19/2007
Msg: 491
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 4:26:35 PM
Well said....it needs to be said again.....HELL NO!
There is nothing wrong with enjoying sex and every aspect of it.....I feel sorry for those people who still have hang ups about sex. People..get out of the dark ages! Sex is a big part of any healthy relationship. I for one, could not and would not date anyone that did not "love" sex and every aspect of it (especially oral...giving and receiving). Sorry if that offends some people......but I'll get over it!LOL
 Horrorchick76

Joined: 7/3/2008
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 houston_gal

Joined: 5/14/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 4:47:54 PM
HELL TO THE NO! Just glad I have never seriously dated anyone like that.
 DaRightGuy

Joined: 12/27/2007
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 JPubLLC

Joined: 4/5/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 5:32:01 PM
I'm in that group that prefer to give than to receive when it comes to oral sex with a woman.

I've been made to think I'm strange in that respect, but I like what I like. What can I say?
 grapevine

Joined: 10/2/2005
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 6:03:39 PM
Of course! Don't get me wrong; I absolutely love it, but if I see I have a wonderful guy in every other way and that's one thing he's not into? Jeesh! Who cares??? I guess different people have different priorities.

On the whole ... (ahem) ... I'd much rather have a cunning linguist than cunnilingus any day!
 ApplePieSweetTart

Joined: 7/16/2008
Msg: 497
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 6:06:30 PM
Unfortunately, I have. He never told me-I found out the hard way. When I tried to talk to him about it, he'd say he had nothing against it, he just didn't care for it.





This was usually as he was shoving his penis in my mouth to stop the questions.
 Ignoble

Joined: 10/11/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 6:16:11 PM
RE: First post.

I've known women like that. I just tell them that I get to veto something sexual too. Usually its any position where I'm on top. ^_^ Nice trade off in my opinion.
 okstupid

Joined: 4/26/2008
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 mikedanger

Joined: 4/13/2005
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 8/3/2008 9:16:28 PM
like everyone else here, apparently, MY 1st response is "[expletive deleted] no!"
however, having said that, i not only dated, but married her, too! gaaaaaaaaahh!!! WTF?
[it's a long story]

trust that i have since then, corrected BOTH lapses in judgement; ie, the lack of oral AND the marriage, and can stand proudly, and say, "no!"

dangerboy

PS: oral sex is beautiful, and, IMHO, FAR more intimate than intercourse...
PPS: especially the reverse cowgirl!
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