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 Author Thread: Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
 angst4u

Joined: 2/19/2009
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 2/23/2009 7:28:14 PM
Chasemom you got it! Its a must for a woman if done right. I get pleasure or a high just given it cause i wana rock her world that she won't ever forget. Get your self some head gear as at times the clitoral orgasms are intense and if your not watchin out you might get kicked off the bed ,if you take it to close to the brink.hehehehe. Seriously after the clitoris has been stimulated ,intercourse brings on the big orgasmic bliss that makes you come back for more.................
 OhHollywoodx

Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 602
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 2/27/2009 4:15:49 PM
Id have to say for me its not all about sex. Or even oral sex. If I like the person enough and he doesnt feel comfortable or doesnt like giving me pleasure in that way then all I have to say to him is lay back and let me do the work. Of couse I only do this for someone my heart is into and that I have been with for awhile. But either way it doesnt bother me if hes not willing.
 Valentinne

Joined: 1/27/2009
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 2/27/2009 4:44:07 PM
I don't know...most men are so bad at it that they annoy me. I don't get that either--it's not rocket science.
 x_johnny_x

Joined: 8/28/2008
Msg: 604
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 2/27/2009 4:48:53 PM
I COULD PROBOBLY COPE WITH NO B/J,
BUT YOU HAVE TO GO DOWN ON YOUR WOMEN!!!
 poker_fan_in_nyc

Joined: 4/6/2007
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 lookin4smiles

Joined: 6/17/2008
Msg: 606
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 2/27/2009 7:42:03 PM
I've meet and dated a few men that bragged and lay claim to giving a good muff-dive only to find out they really didn't like it and only did it b/c they thought all women expected it. So, yes, if the guy just flat out said he prefers not to, then I can live with that and not regret the decision. Of course it is understood what's good for gander if good for the goose.
 toppup1

Joined: 2/21/2009
Msg: 607
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/16/2009 6:07:27 PM
Damn girl - you wouldn't have had a problem with me. Hell, sometimes I forget about the receiving end all together but the lady can count on at least one orgasm before we penetrate!
 freesoulck

Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 608
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/17/2009 7:35:13 AM
Since when giving oral sex became the qualification criteria of dating? Please update my brain database on this.
 SHLLLYB

Joined: 7/30/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/17/2009 8:32:49 AM
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 SHLLLYB

Joined: 7/30/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/17/2009 8:34:58 AM
I agree with freesoulck...

Dating and sex are two entirely different things!!!!


 MandaKay

Joined: 3/14/2009
Msg: 611
 medchick911

Joined: 10/19/2006
Msg: 612
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/18/2009 2:47:06 PM
I've been in this situation before. my ex (bf at hte time) would not do oral on me, however asked for a bj on the regular. being very naive, i thought that was typical of a guy and had no problem with it.
growing up a little and having had oral sex on me, i would be a little upset at not getting it. but i think a compromise is in order. here and there, in exchange for him getting oral from me on the regular.
I personally like doing oral on a guy, and would be dissappointed if he didn't need oral from a girl.
I would so not use this as a reason not to date the person though.
 Muggz_

Joined: 10/1/2008
Msg: 613
 SexyPecan315

Joined: 10/26/2008
Msg: 614
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/19/2009 9:40:29 PM
Personally, I enjoy sex too much to be denied the pleasures of receiving and giving. People can say that sex and dating are two different things but they are not. Yes, you're dating that person to get to know them but at some point you're going want to have sex with them. Just like you wouldn't really date someone that you weren't physically attracted to. No oral sex is definetely a deal breaker for me.
 whytwater

Joined: 8/7/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/19/2009 10:03:37 PM
Personally, I enjoy sex too much to be denied the pleasures of receiving and giving.


Gotta agree with SexyPecan. But it would also be more than that. A mindset that rules out oral sex almost certainly has other short-set boundaries, and we probably aren't gonna fit well. I mean, would she be willing to shake my hand?

She'd be jerkin' my leash way too much for either of us to enjoy the stroll. imho
 newblue1970

Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 616
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/20/2009 5:05:44 AM
Yep - sexypecan has it right. If you're dating someone to get serious ( ie being monogmous ), why would you be with someone who is so limited sexually? To me its simply an incompatibility - if they dont enjoy oral, then most likley they arent going to enjoy the other 99 kinky things I want to do!
 dollface_89

Joined: 3/16/2009
Msg: 617
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/20/2009 8:33:12 AM
lmao, my ex boyfriend said he didn't...lo and behold one week after moving in together he does it out of the blue and it was amazing
 Murco

Joined: 8/26/2008
Msg: 618
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/20/2009 12:20:36 PM
I've never "finished" from oral sex so it wouldn't be an issue for me, but she'd have to let me perform on her....
 85032Luck

Joined: 3/16/2006
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/20/2009 2:28:20 PM
compatability is the issue in a relationship. if the two of you get along and agree on everything (or agree to disagree) then the relationship should work well.
affection and sexual compatability or frequency is a big factor, however if oral sex isnt a strong suit, then maybe they do something else in bed that blows your mind
 electricprof

Joined: 10/14/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/20/2009 3:32:03 PM
Would you date a man or woman who only wanted oral sex?
 gary112157

Joined: 1/16/2009
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/20/2009 8:28:04 PM
yes i would date someone who does not do oral, doesnt mean i dont like it,just means, if thats all i have on my mind is oral or no oral seems like i would be missing the point, as to why im in bed with this woman in the first place, if im there with her because of real love , im certain i would be satisfied anyway.
 gary112157

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/20/2009 8:30:34 PM
yes i would date someone who does not do oral, doesnt mean i dont like it,just means, if thats all i have on my mind is oral or no oral seems like i would be missing the point, as to why im in bed with this woman in the first place, if im there with her because of real love , im certain i would be satisfied anyway.
 FourUms

Joined: 3/17/2009
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/21/2009 12:07:45 AM
Nope.

It's way too important a part of sex. I think there should be oral involved both ways in almost every session - excepting quickies.

My ideal match is someone who enjoys giving as much as I enjoy giving. I don't think it would even work out if she was just doing it for me - unless she learned to truly love it very quickly.
 trina10001

Joined: 9/27/2008
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/23/2009 1:05:27 PM
i dont think i could ever date some1 who didnt.
 1134ftw

Joined: 1/12/2009
Msg: 625
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/23/2009 1:08:27 PM
This is gonna come off as racist- just click to delete or whatever but its the truth. I have had sex with 3 african american women who all said they did not perform oral sex ( never ever had a Caucasian refuse) but eventually they all did ( not the best) but I could tell they did not like it. So I have never dated a woman who would not perform oral sex. I prolly would have sex with her though.
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