| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 2/23/2009 7:28:14 PM | Chasemom you got it! Its a must for a woman if done right. I get pleasure or a high just given it cause i wana rock her world that she won't ever forget. Get your self some head gear as at times the clitoral orgasms are intense and if your not watchin out you might get kicked off the bed ,if you take it to close to the brink.hehehehe. Seriously after the clitoris has been stimulated ,intercourse brings on the big orgasmic bliss that makes you come back for more................. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 2/27/2009 4:15:49 PM | Id have to say for me its not all about sex. Or even oral sex. If I like the person enough and he doesnt feel comfortable or doesnt like giving me pleasure in that way then all I have to say to him is lay back and let me do the work. Of couse I only do this for someone my heart is into and that I have been with for awhile. But either way it doesnt bother me if hes not willing.  | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 2/27/2009 7:42:03 PM | I've meet and dated a few men that bragged and lay claim to giving a good muff-dive only to find out they really didn't like it and only did it b/c they thought all women expected it. So, yes, if the guy just flat out said he prefers not to, then I can live with that and not regret the decision. Of course it is understood what's good for gander if good for the goose.  | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/18/2009 2:47:06 PM | I've been in this situation before. my ex (bf at hte time) would not do oral on me, however asked for a bj on the regular. being very naive, i thought that was typical of a guy and had no problem with it. growing up a little and having had oral sex on me, i would be a little upset at not getting it. but i think a compromise is in order. here and there, in exchange for him getting oral from me on the regular. I personally like doing oral on a guy, and would be dissappointed if he didn't need oral from a girl. I would so not use this as a reason not to date the person though. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/19/2009 9:40:29 PM | Personally, I enjoy sex too much to be denied the pleasures of receiving and giving. People can say that sex and dating are two different things but they are not. Yes, you're dating that person to get to know them but at some point you're going want to have sex with them. Just like you wouldn't really date someone that you weren't physically attracted to. No oral sex is definetely a deal breaker for me.  | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/19/2009 10:03:37 PM | Personally, I enjoy sex too much to be denied the pleasures of receiving and giving.
Gotta agree with SexyPecan. But it would also be more than that. A mindset that rules out oral sex almost certainly has other short-set boundaries, and we probably aren't gonna fit well. I mean, would she be willing to shake my hand?
She'd be jerkin' my leash way too much for either of us to enjoy the stroll. imho | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/23/2009 1:08:27 PM | | This is gonna come off as racist- just click to delete or whatever but its the truth. I have had sex with 3 african american women who all said they did not perform oral sex ( never ever had a Caucasian refuse) but eventually they all did ( not the best) but I could tell they did not like it. So I have never dated a woman who would not perform oral sex. I prolly would have sex with her though. | |
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