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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/23/2009 1:11:52 PM | I think I'd end a relationship once I learned this about them. Just as I'd end a relationship where we had significantly mismatched sex drives, or one where they were into hard-core BDSM or other kink and I wasn't!
I think sex is important in a relationship, and if one of us can't really enjoy it, then we're not compatible. There are people who will be a better match - I'll look for them instead. | |
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Sindey
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Joined: 3/14/2009
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 4/22/2009 6:01:47 PM | MANDAKAY, are you talking about not going down on him or him not going down on you? Both?
For me, I like giving oral but don't like the idea of getting oral. It was offered to me but it didn't interest me to let the guy I was seeing go down on me. It could have been the fact that the only guy I've ever been with...let's just say...left me thinking sex itself is overrated. Even so, I didn't get off giving it, but I did enjoy doing it but since I did not like the taste (he was a smoker bleccch) I just spit it out instead of swallowing which I wouldn't have minded doing if his cum tasted better. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 5/6/2009 3:23:49 PM | | I do not like to give oral but I sure do like to receive. There is a whole lot more to a person sexually than just if they give oral or not. And if that person really does not like it then...so be it..they may grow to enjoy it. I personally have been told that I am very good in bed but I think that has to do with the way I feel and how I move my hips. I believe there is A LOT more to sex than just a blowjob. For most men, I think they find getting a blowjob as a power issue...and maybe that is why I like men to give me oral but to not date someone just because they dont may be your loss! | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 5/19/2009 11:28:03 AM | For all the women that think they understand the psychology of why men like blowjobs... Until you've had your c0ck sucked (correctly), you don't understand the physical pleasure that's involved, so keep your ignorant theories to yourself. You just do not know. I'm not saying there isn't a mental aspect to it, but it doesn't have to be a negative one.
For me fellatio and cunnilingus are not a tit for tat game. If I'm not getting blowjobs, I still want to eat at the Y. I like giving my partner pleasure, and I'm pretty good at it. I'm not cutting her off just because she doesn't want to give me what I like the most in the bedroom. Having said that, I'm 100% sure that I'm going to be less forgiving of things that arise outside of the bedroom, if I'm not happy in the bedroom. All the little things in a relationship, that a good sex life helps smooth over, will become much bigger problems. | |
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