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originalsingingtothewheat

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/20/2009 11:18:57 PM
Easy. NO! I'm not trying to pass any sort of judgment here. Not at all. I just don't understand how anyone could NOT think oral is fantastic. Everyone has their druthers though I guess.

8soldierfalcon8

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/20/2009 11:48:39 PM
This is one of those really personal things where there are TONS of different variations of preferences.

trashcanbarbie85

Joined: 4/23/2009
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/23/2009 6:21:37 PM
Been there done that! I was with someone for almost a year that didn't go down on me. As soon as we broke up what do you think I did afterwards? Found someone that LOVED doing the thing that my ex hated so much. Not recieving oral sex is equivalant to going a year without candy. No matter how bad candy may be for you its something that you need in your life. (Well at least its that way for me---because I love candy!) W

Haidees

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/23/2009 10:02:55 PM
well, that would depend on whether my 'date' was refusing to go down on me but wanting me to go down on him. Goose and gander.

privat33r

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/23/2009 10:09:36 PM
I like trashcanbarbie's argument- .. but hell --- some of us don't actually want a lot of that, or by the way,.. anal, fisting or getting tied up.. not against it but there's so much else. For a guy though --- yeah have to love what babe's have going on -- if you're not desperate to taste what are you there for?

Heathen Chemistry

Joined: 5/18/2009
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/23/2009 10:24:18 PM
No. I need a gal that swallows.

sandy36

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/23/2009 10:28:43 PM
It feels good so why do i have to miss out for her hang-up?

danzandsing

Joined: 5/12/2009
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/23/2009 11:39:41 PM
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex? Yes. I have done so in the past. I often made up for that, by uleashing oral fixations on her. After she'd squirt (yes, really), we'd enjoy further sexual intimacy.

sailor-

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/24/2009 6:00:16 AM
AHHH ladys ,have we forgotten the old and true ,saying CANDY WILL ROT THEE TEETH BUT GOOD ORAL NEVER WILL!!!

SmellOfPoop

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/24/2009 8:48:41 AM
It feels good so why do i have to miss out for her hang-up? Agreed. SHE has a hang up so I should give up some pleasure? Ladies, allow me to say it for the billionth time, sex does not equal love. Being a great person does not make up for lack of sex. So, stop claiming men aren't worth it for leaving a woman who doesn't give oral.

Crunchy Tacos

Joined: 3/26/2009
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/24/2009 8:51:05 AM
Yes I would. There are many other things I look for and one can get off in many other ways without resorting to oral. Why limit our decisions on finding mates on just sexual abilities?

SmellOfPoop

Joined: 6/8/2007
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/24/2009 8:56:31 AM
The problem with that thought is the following. If my woman won't cook me steak, I can go out for steak. If my woman won't let me watch sports at home, I can go to games. If my woman refuses me oral, I can't (in good conscience) go out for oral, but I should be allowed to, since the first 2 examples are other "needs" I want met.

kmm52072

Joined: 1/25/2009
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/24/2009 9:01:28 AM
It's not about abilities IMO. It's about compatibility. If you are not sexually compatible then, why go out. For all of you that say sex doesn't matter. It does. We are sexual beings.

newblue1970

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/25/2009 6:04:39 PM
It's about compatibility. If you are not sexually compatible then, why go out. Exactly Kelly... I actually dont get off so much on receiving oral, but if I date a women that doesnt like doing it, our relationship isnt going to last. To me its more a matter of her outlook on sex. I want to a have sex life that goes way WAY beyond oral, and if she's disgusted by my penis in her mouth, oh boy are we NOT going to get along!

rosieruth

Joined: 2/21/2009
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/28/2009 6:57:57 PM
WHY ... WHY ... WHY MUST MEN TALK ABOUT THEIR SEXUALITY ON LINE? ISN'T ANYTHING KEPT BEHIND BEDROOM DOORS ANYMORE & ENJOYED BY 2 PEOPLE - WHY DOES THE WORLD HAVE TO KNOW? CALL ME PRUDE BT I PREFER SOMETHINGS KEPT PRIVATE NOT OUT THERE FOR THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD TO READ.

CynthiaM

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/31/2009 4:19:15 PM
WHY MUST MEN TALK ABOUT THEIR SEXUALITY ON LINE? Oh Rosie, Rosie, Rosie ... this is the SEX and Dating forum. This is where we (adults) talk about SEX. If you don't want to talk about or read about SEX, then there are plenty of other forums. If you think it should be kept private, why did you read this thread in the first place?? Did you think there were going to be 28 PAGES of replies that said "that's private, my lips are sealed"? And please turn off teh caps. Caps = shouting in the online world.

MsMicki

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/31/2009 6:10:56 PM
Absofrickenlutley not. and yes.......this will be discussed before we get to the bedroom. I refuse to put time and energy into a relationship if we're not going to be sexually compatible. I love giving it......and I love recieving it.....and I will not settle for not being able to enjoy either act.

GQSunset

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/31/2009 7:13:10 PM
It's not wether they give oral sex it's wether they finish ! something that intimate and why they won't do it or finish says a lot about how selfish or how many hangups they have about their sexuality.

miss_contemplative

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 5/31/2009 9:07:50 PM
Awwww, frig! No oral sex? At all? Geez... That would suck. To DATE someone who wouldn't? Tough question. Awwww, frig, are you sure? Okay, based on my internal protestation, I would say it wouldn't be a very good idea to date someone who didn't like or want to give or receive oral sex.

PeggyMc50

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 6/1/2009 4:04:29 AM
I wouldn't now. But sadly my first 3 husbands would not do it. Now I would NOT marry a man who would not do it. I gladly do it for the man, the least they could do is recroporicate. Or else they SHOULD NOT ask you to do it for them. Fiar is fair. Peggy

cmdr_iceman

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 6/1/2009 6:47:30 AM
No, I wouldn’t seriously date or marry a woman who didn’t enjoy giving oral on a regular and consistent basis. To me, receiving oral is an important aspect of a healthy sex life, this would be a deal-breaker for me.

Zeon2

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 6/1/2009 7:02:14 AM
Yeah I would. As it turns out, my current 'gf' performs maybe yearly lol.. Though I must say that I've been less inclined to perform it for her..

forlorn1

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 6/19/2009 1:09:47 PM
I wouldn't even consider it. Why would I limit my sexual desires? It would never get to a serious relationship if a woman doesn't do oral and anal..

GuitarDana

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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 6/19/2009 1:31:59 PM
I sure as hell wouldn't Ditto

notdesperate36

Joined: 5/1/2009
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 6/19/2009 1:32:09 PM
sure..... oh...you said seriously- HELL NO!!!!!

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