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suzik7
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Joined: 7/3/2009
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 7/28/2009 7:53:43 PM | Yes, I would. Not that I don't like receiving, but if everything else was right, I would date him. In fact, I did, and now we're getting married and guess what? He fell in love with me and wanted to pleasure me so he tried it. The 32 year old man who said performing oral sex was not his thing (and understood that receiving it was not likely if he wasn't doing it) now fantasizes about tasting me, and has become the most incredible lover I could ever dream of. He oral skills are incredible, and it turns me on to know that I have the only **** he's ever tasted.
I'm so glad I didn't miss out on all of this if I'd said no from the beginning.
If it is a casual sexual partner I am looking for (FWB, FB) then my answer is no, but seriously dating - you never know what will happen. Love changes a lot of things. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 7/29/2009 1:23:20 PM | Some men just don't go down...I don't know why, but they don't. But they damn well be ready to use hands, fingers or whatever. I happen to love giving and recieving, but have dated men who just did not like to give, only wanted to recieve. It's a bit lopsided, but I have dealt with it because other parts of sex were satisfying, and the rest of the relationship was well worth it.
But I sure as hell missed it.
Beth
I love the men who love giving. They have a special place in Heaven. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 7/29/2009 2:09:16 PM | actually i'd rather date a guy who hated giving oral, than a guy who loves it too much. i personally do not like being on the receiving end, maybe the last guy who did it wasn't ne good, idk. but it does nothing for me, i'd rather give head, get f*cked, and cuddle up watching a movie (*but only if we're dating and serious*).
so it's not a deal breaker if he doesn't like giving, but if he doesn't like receiving, then that might b a problem. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 7/29/2009 2:28:16 PM | I had a guy once who expected me to go down on him, but he wouldn't return the favor. Nor would he even really touch me in my nether regions. He wanted to get off but would not even care about me. He was the worst sex of my life. He also came in like...3 minutes. So yea, that one didn't last.
I wouldn't expect a guy to do it all the time, nor would I do it all the time, but I would expect him to please me in other ways if he didn't. I have never had a guy who has been able to give me an orgasm through oral or otherwise (true story, only my vibe can do it), so it's not the end of the world, but it does feel damn nice. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 8/11/2009 1:00:40 PM | | Some people can't find someone to hold their hand while they walk in the park. I'm sure they would be ecstatic to find someone, regardless of whether they perform oral sex or not. Others have lots of opportunities and options in life, and feel they have room to be more picky. The rest fall in between, and vary in what they expect from a partner. What people would prefer, and what they would accept, are different things. | |
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type of ignorant person. i met someone like that. they gave me head and it was the worst thing ever. stop talking about 2 weekes after that happened. 
