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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/11/2007 7:10:09 PM | First of all, I'd have to wonder for why any reference to sex might be mentioned before something might arise for our respective and mutual interests in one another. In other words, I'd be asking myself, "Do I care to know this socially dysfunctional woman better?"
Secondly, I have learned that women love performing oral on me more than my libido 'asks' to have it. If a woman is not inclined to 'power wash' my smaller head ...so be it, however, if she considers oral sex being performed on her "too dirty" also, I'm so moving on to 'less prudish pastures' as I need the lubrication and don't care to take a time out to get it from a bottle or tube of whatever nearby. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/11/2007 9:47:26 PM | I'm not a playboy, but I've had a few relationships, and I have never run into a woman who DIDN'T like to receive oral sex. In fact, I'm really surprised to find that some women don't care for it.
I'd have to agree with one of the ladies who posted that oral sex is a necessary part of "good sex."
In my experience, the women who like to both give and receive oral are the better sex partners, hands down.
It's another one of those things that I don't understand people tripping over.
Why would you not want to please your lover? On the other hand...
sex isn't everything; but it's important for people to be on the same page.
And everybody has such different views on these things.
For me, oral is perfectly natural.
But anal? No thanks!
Choking? What, are you kidding me? Why would you wanna do that?
And ladies with strap ons? RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/11/2007 10:57:03 PM | You bring out a good point ..
So if you were with someone who didnt like giving or receiving oral sex, most of you have said you'd leave him/her .. But see, why is oral sex so accepted and expected, yet other things are not , like the above post has mentioned, He wouldnt try different things, such as anal , choking ..
The way I see it, with an attitude such as this, one is being hypocritcal so say that "oral sex is a necessary part of good sex" And "why would you not want to please your partner" What if your partner was into different things, for example anal, but you werent into trying it ...
I happen to know many women who do not enjoy oral sex, and they have no problem keeping their men and I again, would NOT leave someone who didnt enjoy giving or receiving oral sex, there are many other things to experiment with to keep us both happy in this department ! But thats just me ... | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/11/2007 11:41:43 PM | Im going against the popular opinion... I WOULD seriously date someone who wasnt into oral (whether he didnt like to receive it or give it or both)... there are far more many other things that can be done...
As much as I love it and my s/o is amazing at it... it wouldnt be valid reason for me NOT to date someone becasue of it... pretty shallow in my opinion. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/11/2007 11:54:31 PM |
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Actually in the last relationship I had, it ended because she didn't want either. Sorry, but I enjoy both too much. It's like having a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, without the peanut butter and jelly. Bread all on it's own is kind of bland. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/12/2007 2:42:51 AM | If a lady I was involved with did not want to give oral sex, I could not care less. I don't really care to recieve most of the time, so that aspect wopuld not be a big deal at all.
Now if she did not like to recieve, we might have some serious problems then because it is something I enjoy doing, and frankly I think I am quite good at it. Thankfully I have never had a problem though with partners who did not like to recieve.  | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/12/2007 6:46:00 AM | quote from johnglc: I think that there should be a box in your profile that says yes or no to oral sex,so we don't have waste our time and money on a person,if they don't go down. I'm F***kin' serious.
 wow did that make me laugh.... I know your not on here anymore but I know where to find ya and will comment on that later..... to funny
No,for me it is part of my love making,I couldn't enjoy it without the foreplay and oral
how is the dry bread belgarion? tee hee | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/12/2007 12:51:29 PM | Absolutely not !!!
I'm not one of those guys who is obsessed with receiving. For me it's the principle that if she's not into IT then she's not into ME enough. Once you've been with someone who is that into you, you can't help but prefer it.
Some might argue it doesn't necessarily mean she's not that into you just because she's not into oral for whatever reason. But for ME, it means exactly that.
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/12/2007 7:18:31 PM | Why is oral sex so accepted and expected? Because it WORKS!
I don't know where to begin to reply to a position that says that it's "hypocritical" to accept and expect oral sex, and not the rest of the menu(anal, choking, S&M, bondage, swinging, whatever) uh...let me see...maybe because oral is normal? Because oral feels good, isn't dangerous, doesn't put you in contact with feces(unless your partner hasn't bathed this year) and keeps things going...what, are you kidding? How can you put oral sex in the same category as these other things? Oral sex IS more the norm than not. Judging from the posts, MOST people like oral sex and want to be with someone who likes oral sex also.
Like I said, the ladies who like to give and receive oral are waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay better in the sack then the ladies who won't. I'm talkin' light years better.
I sorry if that offends your sensibility to the point where you have to invent that I'm a "hypocrite" to cover your own sexual hangups.
And I could, very easily, go down the sex menu and give very logical and practical reasons for why I don't want to order any of them.
What I'm hearing from you is that you're frightened as hell that your boyfriend who isn't getting bj's might very well stray and find someone who is less selfish in bed; that is a distinct possibility. | |
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