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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/12/2007 8:14:50 PM | Blake5555 says :
"What I'm hearing from you is that you're frightened as hell that your boyfriend who isn't getting bj's might very well stray and find someone who is less selfish in bed; that is a distinct possibility. "
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Maybe thats the problem with SOME men, you hear what you wanna hear and not whats being said. Who said I didnt enjoy giving or receiving oral sex? What I said is that it wouldnt be a reason why I'd leave someone if everything else in our relationship was going great. I could definatly live without it !!
And as far as the rest of your message goes, all I see is someone contradicting themselves .. The fact that you would call a girl selfish for not wanting to perform oral sex, yet you're not wanting to participate in other forms of sexual activity that might turn her on or more ... well, I see THAT as being selfish & narrow minded. Im not talking about anything that would put your life in danger either ... But to say oral is "normal" and other sexual acts are not ... normal according to whos definition is what I'd like to know...
But thats just my opinion, right ?!?! | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/12/2007 9:33:45 PM | Lady, you might want to take a course in logic at the local CC, because your thought process is well...okay i won't go there. I'll play nice.
Basically, you have no idea what you're talking about.
There was not a single contradiction in my post, but I happen to know what the word means!
Certainly, and even you can follow this, certainly the woman who loves to receive oral, but refuses to give it, is by anybody's definition, SELFISH.
Okay, are you with me?
Now, because I like to give and receive oral does not mean that I want some CRAZY to crap on my chest and rub feces all over my body. Kapiche?
Your "arguement" makes no sense whatsoever.
I LIKE to both give and receive oral. I don't LIKE anything to do with exploring the poopy place, not mine, not yours, not anybody's. And I'm in what could accurately be called "the mainstream."
I can infer from your post that perhaps you like to do weird sh**. Go for it. Like i told another lady who exhibited a bad attitude and not much comon sense, "What do i care?" | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/12/2007 9:41:16 PM | Who the he|| is talking about rubbing feces all over ones body, stay on track here boy .. anyways, Ive seen enough and am done trying to have a discussion with a narrow minded individual who has to attack and insult to try to get his point accross.
Because one happends to disagree with you, it doesnt make them any less educated or whatever else you feel like trowing my way, grow up !!! | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/12/2007 10:36:22 PM | Just an example, dear. There's term for the feces thing, is it scat? Anyway, I used that as an example to show you that...because one likes to engage in activity A, does NOT mean that one likes to engage in activity B.
Logic 101.
YOU started the namecalling by calling me a "hypocrite", and the term was both inaccurate and unfair. And, it really ticked me off. That and saying that I'm "contradictory", and "narrow minded," both pretty nasty terms.
Again, I see oral sex as a norm, as mainstream. I don't see any of the other activities that I referred to as mainstream, and I don't think that they ever will be mainstream.
I think that people are weak minded, and jump onto trendy bandwagons even for sexual activities. There's weird sexual stuff currently touted as "cool" on this forum, that a year from now will be utterly forgotten.
I guess that I'm a little older, and I've grown to be really suspicious of "the latest thing."
I have no desire to have gerbils crawl up my butt. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/12/2007 10:51:25 PM | You're way off track the point I was trying to make.. Please listen this time.
I for one never said that I was against oral sex, giving or recieving. Your post had just made me wonder why youd call someone who chose not to preform oral sex selfish but then again, if you're with a girl who just happened to love for example, lets say anal sex .. the fact that you're not willing to go to that extreme to please her, wouldnt that make you just as selfish as the one who chose to not preform oral ?!? And that my friend is the point I was trying to make from the beginning .. Not that I am uneducated, or lack common sence, not that I deny my boyfriend oral or that Im into rubbing $hit all over ones body ...
Now if you choose to reply, do so in my mail box ... this thread is going to get deleted because of us !
Oh, btw .. Just as much as you might be against anal or whatever it is youre against, Im shure there are people out there who think the same way about oral, it doesnt make one selfish, or any less "good in bed" Its all a matter of difference of opinion .. And in my opinion, is far from being a deal breaker ! | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/13/2007 6:23:34 PM | damn it! I am dating that person right now....I give and I give...between 25 and 35 minutes straight the other day....but not even one indication or attempt at a return...this is 3 months now....it sucks, but we have tons in common....its casual, but I am a chick...I only do one at a time, so when its not there...its not there....for months now....ohhhh...not good......oral...I miss you.... | |
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