| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/13/2007 7:58:51 PM | mostlykitten... You'd 'probably miss it'?  I wonder, does 'missing it' translate as 'For the rest of your life, every time you take off your knickers you'd be cheated out of something that almost every other woman throughout the world gets to experience and enjoy, pretty much whenever they want to. I don't see how he'd make up for things in other ways. What's he going to do? A spot of ironing? Answer the phone so that you don't miss any Corrie? Do you mean make up for it in a sexual way? If so, then what exacly does a girl consider fair trade for never finding her lovers head pushed snugly between her thighs? 'Oh poor me... and so many men out there would absolutely love to have me for supper every night and for breakfast too on weekdays and for dinner as well at the weekend. Even if your bloke was amazing in every other sexual sense you'd still be totally aware that if his tongue was doing what it was made for, everything would be so much better!'
Switch things around and you have a guy missing out on receiving a blow job. Would be a relationship destined to fail if a Girlfriend said she'd rather not. I think I'd leave the very moment I was over the shock! Maybe hulk out the Yellow Pages first then rip out a page and leave it pinned to her wall with a big red circle hooped around the 'Therapist' section!
Rusty. xXx (Oh... by the way, I don't think you'll meet a guy who won't so I shouldn't think you need to worry yourself sick over this ) | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/15/2007 11:50:08 AM | Well.. "I'm not into giving oral" is a great excuse. I mean.. well.. some women just have a certian... ambiance... about them. It's like opening the fridge.. if you can smell the food before you see it.. DONT EAT IT.
Just for the record though, i have dated a woman who refused to give oral. Was with her for 2 years. I had no problem doing it for her though. Truth be told, I'ld rather give it than get it, not that i would refuse it, but if i had to choose one or the other...
Besides, if you do it right, your getting something anyway. When a woman says "GD IT I want you in me NOW" Guys.. get something to hang onto, cause you are in for a hell of a ride.
I also know there are quite a few woman who have never had an orgasm from getting oral, and when the do.. they think the guy is the master of the universe, or the bedroom at least.
And also the point was made.. some guys just need the extra lubrication. So which is better, bottled or au naturalle?
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| Would You Seriously Date a Woman/Man If They Told You That They Did Not Give Oral Sex?[/
Posted: 3/15/2007 2:17:54 PM |
Would You Seriously Date a Woman/Man If They Told You That They Did Not Give Oral Sex?
Well I actually was in a relationship with a man who "told me" that he loved oral sex, and to find out a few weeks into being intimate with each other, that he REALLY didn't like "going down" on women. Wasn't just me, but it was all women, he just had an aversion to it. I was disappointed to hear this, but hey, I did like the guy, he was fun, he was a good man, he was dedicated only to me, so I didn't make a big deal out of not receiving oral sex from him. Me and this guy started dating in July 2005 and the first time he ever gave me oral was in November 2005 (yes, 5 very long months!) and after it was finished, it really wsn't anything to write home about! The next time he gave me oral (after me BEGGING for it) was in May 2006, and once again, nothing to write home about. In all honesty, I actually started resenting giving him bl*w jobs when I knew he wouldn't reciprocate. I know I ALWAYS love to make sure my guy is completely pleasured, and I tried very hard to make this relationship work, but I finally ended it in July 2006.
Sex is a VERY important part of a healthy relationship, and when that one part of the pie isn't quite aligning up properly, and you can't put it back in place, it's time to throw in the towel. As great as he might have been, and as good as the relationship was, I couldn't be with a man who's not on the same page with me sexually!
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/16/2007 7:35:47 PM | averybaddog, I agree with you absolutely when it comes to the 'ambiance' comment. If we bring lack of personal hygene into this discussion then my tongue curls right to the back of my throat in shock! Don't all women do a little bit of descreet preparation while things are still on the build up to 'slurper time'? If they don't then please lie to me. I don't want to imagine the possibility of my being faced (literally) with anything so obviously below standard. Sooner out of my mind the better.
If giving oral sex is something you'd either totally refuse to do or if it's an act you'd only perform under sufferance then as far as I'm concerned, I think you've every right to live your life without ever entertaining the idea. Most women love to receive it. Some would dump the guy who refuses. Others will believe there are too many wothwhile things about the man that they are simply not prepared to lose and therefore, they justify the sacrifice. Some are willing to continue to suck the man who hasn't developed the taste because they love to do it and can't help licking their lips just at the thought. Some will say 'I'll stay, but if you're not going to pay the odd visit down south then neither am I' and I reckon that's pretty fair if she isn't much of a lolly0pop Lady but if she's a girl who loves to suck until all the flavour's gone before licking the stick clean and sucking on the wrapper while wondering how long she'll have to wait before the Ice'cream van calls round again, she's hoping that by resisting the urge to provide her man with a service with a smile, he'll weaken and become inclined towards a little giving, if a little giving is the only hope he has of ever seeing his girls head bobbing away in his lap again.
Any Ladies reading this post who have allowed 'gobbling' to become their favourite pass-time, pay attention... I deliver the following information unto you in the form of a warning...
I dated a girl once who loved to do it so much she seemed to be hardly ever off her knees. (I hope she forgave me for the absent minded moments I walked in from work and automatically placed the newspaper and tv remote control on top of her head) She liked to make things last a lot of the time but other times her head bobbed so quickly I could hardly see it move. Be careful! She wound up with a severe case of self inflicted whiplash! A condition that lasted for months because she refused to follow the Doctors advice to keep her kneck rested.
Actually, now that I think about it, there's a part of me that will always miss her.
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/17/2007 1:39:31 PM | | I would, and have. I don't give it and don't require it in order to enjoy sex. People should only do what they are comfortable with. If receiving oral sex from a woman is the means by which you measure your affection, then she probably didn't need you, in the first place. I can't imagine that being so important that anyone would refuse to date someone because they wouldn't do it. When did that become the number 1 priority in a relationship? In my experience, most men like giving better than receiving. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/17/2007 2:52:18 PM | Well, we're obviously at the point of talking about sex. And she says she doesn't like to 'give oral'. I would assume that she also does not like to get it.
We're probably not going to be having sex.
We're probably also not going to be friends, either. I mean, who doesn't like sucking their partner's privates?
If she (or he) is that uptight... there's probably not a whole lot going on, in there.
I mean, what is their spiritual development? How many books have they read?
What would we talk about? People who are uptight?
So no, I would not 'seriously' date them.
This is a coffee date.
If we have dated so far as to be talking about sex, and this comes out, I might play the role of therapist, but this is a very rocky road... | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/17/2007 6:54:39 PM | Yes!! Yes!!
Dont like getting oral, does nothing for me...but....
Much prefer using my 12" tongue as i breathe through my ears and feeling her soft thighs caressing my fresh smoothly shaven scalp and then later hearing her moan...and then later the siren from the local cops as they turn up at the door. Why are the cops here your probably asking yourself..
Well the neoghbours thought someone was being murdered with all the screaming so....
Mick the almighty,
(shy but bald and beautiful)
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however if he still said that he would not, then he would have to gooooooooooooooooooooooo@!
