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Thread: Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex

Kieran1994

Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 151

Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/18/2007 7:31:44 AM
No way,never ,forget it

dpd22

Joined: 11/9/2006
Msg: 152

Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/18/2007 12:35:24 PM
I like to receive oral sex, but it wouldn't be a deal breaker. Oral sex is only a part of sex. Sex is only a part of a good relationship. I have been with women who like to give and not receive. I was also with a woman who didn't like to give.

Spitfire_girl

Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 153

Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/18/2007 12:52:54 PM
I wouldn't... if they said they didn't, then I I wouldn't waste my time.. It would mean that I wouldn't get to cum... Why would I want to have a sexual relationship that is oneway? isn't that what hookers do?

adaisyandarose

Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 154

Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/18/2007 1:21:33 PM
No...I wouldn't. Especially if that person likes to receive but not give.

anasyd64

Joined: 11/19/2004
Msg: 155

Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/19/2007 9:09:39 AM
my last boyfriend said he didn't perform oral sex on a woman and i didn't believe him ,thinking it would change...it didn't but he was always wanting it...WRONG.i met an X of his after we broke up and she said he never did it to her and part of the reason they broke up.personally,it's not something i am willing to give up.

RobinSingle

Joined: 12/1/2006
Msg: 156
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/19/2007 10:21:59 PM
just got dumped - on email again...lol...it may have something to do with an early post on this string....bummer....then tonight before it happened - I saw this on a bar room wall - it made me think of this forum.... Reasons why beer is better than woman: ..... you don't have to wash beer to make it taste good..... ha freakin ha!

Simply*Enchanted

Joined: 3/9/2006
Msg: 157
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/19/2007 11:11:49 PM
Nope, I like to give it, and I like to get it... THATS WHAT I CALL A DEAL BREAKER!

bassman84

Joined: 11/15/2005
Msg: 158

Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/20/2007 11:50:19 AM
nope! sorry, but sex is as an integral part of a relationship as all of the other stuff, in my opinion. no oral = no dice.

johnny prophet

Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 159
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/20/2007 12:04:48 PM
Why would I want to have a sexual relationship that is oneway? isn't that what hookers do? No. Hookers get something from the sex. It just isn't usually an orgasm. They get PAID.

Letigra

Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 160

Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/20/2007 3:00:36 PM
I definitely would. I think it would be ok, as long as one person isn't asking for it and refusing to give it. I am not really into oral myself.

sunshyne1977

Joined: 5/8/2006
Msg: 161
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/20/2007 5:17:20 PM
i had a 7 yr LTR without it,you miss it like crazy,especially when things get bad. all my girlfriends told me when i decided that i would miss it,whew,i did not know how much.only met one gy who didn't enjoy receiving because he disliked seeing women in that position,always made me feel bad since i enjoyed giving

CWLiberal

Joined: 3/18/2007
Msg: 162

Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/21/2007 10:04:36 PM
I think that sexual compatibility is very important in a relationship. I don't know how one would find that out before starting to date somebody. It seems like a pretty awkward question! But I think a committed relationship with somebody who was opposed to a very enjoyable part of sex would be very frustrating. I tend to be a very adventurous person in the bedroom, so I would definitely not be sexually compatible with that type of person! I see that some posters believe that not wanting to be in a relationship with somebody who won't perform oral sex is shallow, but I strongly disagree with that. I think a person's desire to satisfy his or her partner says a lot about his or her character. Imagine this scenario: A woman who can only achieve orgasm through oral sex marries a man who refuses to perform oral sex. Essentially, he is preventing her from having orgasms during sex for the rest of her life because it "isn't his thing". I believe that people who have a long list of "don'ts" should get together with similar people, since they share the same philosophy. By the same token, I think people that will do anything to satisfy their partners should try to find people who feel the same way, because if they do, their sex lives will probably be incredible!

HockeyBabe19

Joined: 10/10/2006
Msg: 163

Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/21/2007 11:23:05 PM
oh hell no!!! Oral is like the best part...IMO....so damn amazing! Couldn't live without it. Plus I like giving and that would be a disapointment to not do as well.

Always Active

Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 164
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/22/2007 11:18:12 AM
Pass............next.....................

txcudlman

Joined: 2/12/2007
Msg: 165
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/22/2007 12:16:06 PM
I personally dont HAVE to recieve but if they dont let me give them oral pleasure then it is an issue. I love to give and I get so much pleasure from doing that.

Vineyarder

Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 166
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/22/2007 12:58:41 PM
No. I love giving blow jobs, getting lick jobs, giving lick jobs. It's a beautiful thing. And if a guy doesn't like oral sex, he probably doesn't like a whole host of other things that I like.

Mandarbgrim

Joined: 1/29/2004
Msg: 167
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/22/2007 1:18:10 PM
Yes, it isn't as big of a deal as other more deviante sexual acts to me. Oddly..even those don't have the same level of necessity they once did. I think that I am geting old.

gazzoo_2003

Joined: 3/6/2006
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/22/2007 1:48:28 PM
HEEELLL NO! Been there and did that with someone for 6 years he wanted but would not give, and now I am trying to make up for lost time! LMAO Never again. G

Wirepull

Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 169

Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/25/2007 6:52:56 AM
Tarzan.....Thats funny shit.......lmao lost your keys.lmao

Wirepull

Joined: 11/7/2006
Msg: 170

Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/25/2007 7:04:50 AM
LMAO.........funny

whater39

Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 171
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/25/2007 10:42:55 AM
I would never have a long term partner that didn't give it. I did once, but the girl is crazy besides that. She now does it, and actually likes giving it, Geez Imissed out. Yet she would accept oral, but still got a lil grossed out, but it felt too good to miss out. She was grossed out caz that's where guys pee from. Also her married cousing said she didn't like the odour from the guy, I felt sad for that guy, no more BJ's ever ARGH.

Piercedstuff

Joined: 5/6/2006
Msg: 172

Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/25/2007 11:23:04 AM
I think the bigger question is would they be willing to learn to like it,,,, because in all honesty alot of us at a younger age we apalled by it I am sure

tom42149

Joined: 11/23/2006
Msg: 173
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/25/2007 12:04:43 PM
NO!! find one who will!

miss_saigon

Joined: 8/6/2006
Msg: 174
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Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/25/2007 12:41:34 PM
Would you dump your partner right away and move on to the next if she said she didn't like it at first? Or would you wait until she gets comfortable with it? Just being curious.

Piercedstuff

Joined: 5/6/2006
Msg: 175

Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex Posted: 3/25/2007 12:46:09 PM
It would all depend on how she reacts to it if she is not willing then why should she bother right

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