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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/25/2007 12:53:16 PM | I have tried that before,I was married to a woman that didn't like to receive oral...Or well lets be honest,any type of sex. I think there was something that happened to her as a child. Truth is as patient as I was,sex or lack of it was a major part of our break up.We still remain friends 8 years after were split,but I would never denie myself the pleasures of a woman again.. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/26/2007 5:32:16 PM | | OK...my 2 cents on this...uh...NO...but then, to be fair..I am not going to expect it as soon as I see her. If she wants me to do it to her...then fair is fair. Here's one for you guys and I know this is not going to sound real...I once worked with a guy..we were a team. Used to talk about all kinds of stuff...he once told me he was dating a woman and they were getting hot and heavy..she went down on him and he pulled her off...Said he didn't like that. Just didn't care to have a BJ. Said he never liked it. Can you believe that? | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 3/26/2007 7:04:23 PM |
If she (or he) is that uptight... there's probably not a whole lot going on, in there.
I mean, what is their spiritual development? How many books have they read?
What would we talk about? People who are uptight?
JOHN, what does 'spiritual development' have to do with liking or not liking oral sex?  I consider myself quite spiritually developed, I've read a lot of books and no I'm not uptight. Some people just don't care for oral sex, is all. It's a preference, just like liking or not liking liver and brussels sprouts.
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/3/2007 11:29:42 AM | Ninki... Liver and Brussels sprouts? Millions of people hate liver and brussels sprouts.
I bet if I walked through my local pub I'd find more women willing to give me a BJ than eat a plate full of those horrid little wrinkly deformed cabbages. 
So, shall I get my willy out?.. Or would you rather have a sprout?
Now, if you were to sit in front of me with a bowl of Strawberries covered with fresh cream and I had to choose the contents of the bowl or the contents of your knickers...
You'd be munching on Strawberries and complimenting yourself on how clever you were not to have offered me brussels sprouts!
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/3/2007 12:01:19 PM |
Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex?
Let's put it this way:
I would sooner date a woman who would not have INTERCOURSE with me than date a woman who didn't want to regularly, enthusiastically perform oral sex on me.
If she said she didn't want to RECIEVE oral sex, I'd be disappointed (because I like that, too) but I don't think it would be a deal breaker. (As long as she didn't have a bunch of other hangups.) | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/3/2007 5:11:11 PM | I would. There are plenty of other was to satisfy myself and my partner. Oral isn't a big deal to me.
To me oral is something you perform when you trust someone enough. I don't want to be sucking on something that's been inside another woman recently. I'd rather not taste the last girl. And yes i know once he's had a shower thats gone, but the thought of it is just BLAH!
And i wouldn't expect him to go down on me until he trusts me, after all STD's can be transferred orally, and you can't really trust anyones word on that anymore. So when the tests done then the trust is higher right? | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/3/2007 5:59:47 PM | Wow!
I am sure learning a lot since I have come to the world of the web-and plenty of fish-Clinton sure did a number on everyone-Or should I say the media. I am a doomed person if any prospective date reads my posts. Okay, I had oral sex a short time ago and it didn't do anything for me before(giving). I don't know if it is because the guy was experienced and led me into a different position that I didn't know. I usually only go out with jewish guys but since then I am multi-cultural. I am a 58 year old with my hormones raging more than when I was in my 20's. I also love to write and I think that is superceding my worry of some prospective seeing this blog. Oh, well, you can't hide forever! | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/3/2007 6:19:57 PM | | Oh, I don't think I was clear on my first post-I meant to say I loved it. I neve enjoyed it before. I can't think of anything else. It was a weird situation because the situation was just based on a sexual relationship. He did not even kiss, me or touch me, or satisfy me in the same way( I know that whole thing was sick) but I really am seeing things in a different perspective. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/3/2007 6:31:02 PM | i did and its the most furstrating thing i ever did as i felt all i wanted to do is go down on her ,i love doing it but she still would not let me do it !
we both missed out in my eyes as i think( maybe i,m wrong)its 1 of the most sensual things a couple can do
her loss is all i can say she is still a nice person though and still friends to this day | |
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