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Tramp
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Joined: 2/8/2007
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acgoat
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Joined: 8/8/2005
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/6/2007 8:54:34 AM | | No way. If they couldn't do oral sex, they have too many hangups, which means they aren't a sensual person who truly gets pleasure out of pleasing their partner. You know that only means BORING sex. That is unthinkable to me, I can't imagine not wanting to orally please my man, it is an essential part of lovemaking. If a man doesn't totally enjoy "going down", I know there are lots more that do, so why would I try to start a committed relationship knowing I would spend a lifetime wishing for the type of sex I want and need. I might have thought I could deal with that when I was younger, but I know what I need to have a happy satisfying sex life and oral sex (giving and receiving) is on the top of my list. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/6/2007 6:56:27 PM | From trishadish:
<div class="quote">NO
but what about dating somone who is bad at it.........now that is the real question.......more common than not-- since every guy thinks he knows the deal.....
For the men. The very least they can do is get a friggin book on it! I have one and it has been read twice. I was very bad at it and didn't even know it. That would explain a lot about my ex.
Now that I know where everything is and how everything works (ladies are just complicated!) I absolutely love it!
There was one GF that actually didn't want it done to her. I finally convinced her and after that, she wanted it every time. Glad I could be of lip service!
I have never dated a woman that did not have oral sex. I didn't think they existed at my age and older.
Now that I know better, I ask "Do you want to be sucked soft, hard or nibbled?" | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/6/2007 8:39:17 PM | Some of the best sex I ever had was with a man who wouldn't give oral. He said I didn't have to either, so I didn't, but LORDY! Did we do just about everything else, and it was WONDERFUL!
He sort of spoiled me as far as foreplay is concerned. Sometimes, foreplay with him would last for hours, until I was begging him! Then I would turn around and do the same thing to him. He liked that self-heating oil, and lots of hand action.
That man could do things with his hands that most men can't do with their tongues....he was wonderful.
So, yes, I'd go there again. | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/7/2007 2:16:12 AM | | i find it interesting all this attention is being given to a penis. from an atamony stand point ..a penis is a distant 3 or forth for a womans pleasure.no matter how big,wide,or long it just doesnt match up to number one..oral stimulation,2 manipulative stimulation...fingers etc,.a womans vagina...from an anatomy stand point is only sensitive 3 to 4 in inside...the rest is pyschological.....based on what society and the woman believes,,,,medically the area between the vaginal opening and the clitoris is the most sensitive,then the clitoris ,then inside so thats why women like it....the thousand of nerve endings outside....now as far as giving...well i guess that depends wheather there degree of selfniss permits....i will say that most women r get oral more than they give oral...alot more men /women need to learn how...and concentrate on the outside of the br more too..sex is the easy part.. i have dated both types of women those that do n dont....guess i liked both types for the women that they were.... | |
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/7/2007 8:19:32 AM | Good question. At first my answer was hec no, but then I really thought about it. I think it would depend on our relationship up to that point. Sex isn't everything, yes it's a big part of compatibility but not everything.
I would have to ask myself a few questions. Is he talented in other ways, there are more ways then just oral to have great sex. Are we compatible in other areas outside of the bedroom? Is he thoughtful of me in other area's other then in the bedroom? Does he expect to get and not give? So many factors to consider but like anything else in life their can be a compromise. Think of ED, physical disabilities etc. There are ways to be happy other then just oral sex in my opinion. Although it's very nice, I could live without it for the right guy.
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| Would you seriously date a woman or a man if they told you that they did not give oral sex
Posted: 6/7/2007 4:01:01 PM | | Hell yes. Every woman I ever dated said she didn't do blow jobs. It's your job to convince the other person you deserve the best they can give you. Give your girlfriend a great big shivering orgasm and she will want to do the same for you. Guess what guys? You don't need a big**** Lesbians don't even have**** but they have orgasms. Go figure. | |
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