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 arri

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 151
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Posted: 12/22/2005 10:31:01 AM
If everyone thinks you are married, maybe you should dress slutty show a little cleavage .. you know
 Coastergal

Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 152
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Posted: 12/22/2005 10:35:34 AM
LOL.. I dress conservatively for work..... It would be hard to discuss mortgages if someone is staring at my voluptuous breasts!!!

One day.. I actually wore a top to work.. that um... whelp.... lets just say.... when I was talking to women "they" were looking at my breasts!!!! I've never worn that top again!

Um..... I'm the sweet innocent type.. that um..... the slut comes out behind closed doors!!!!
 arri

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 153
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Posted: 12/22/2005 10:43:31 AM
Fair enough. however voluptuous breasts might improve your closing ratio.

In any event, you are on the Ova Ova list
 oldanduglyincalgary

Joined: 10/4/2005
Msg: 154
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Posted: 12/22/2005 1:09:39 PM
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being consertive in public. Women ask me all the time why I wear loose fitting pants and not nice tight fitting ones, well in my line of work I wouldn't be able to breath for one thing and the other is that I am comfortable with the loose fit jeans and whats underneath is reserved for behind closed doors.
 not high maintenance

Joined: 9/27/2005
Msg: 155
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Posted: 12/28/2005 4:18:57 PM
I have some guys tell me they are intimidated by me. Why? I wish I knew. Basically I think because I'm independent, and upfront, okay and tapped. It intrigues ppl, yet intimidates them somehow. I just find it strange how I can intimidate a guy that towers over me...
 yrsfrlve

Joined: 12/10/2005
Msg: 156
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Posted: 12/28/2005 9:22:31 PM
Hey; what about me? I'm feeling left out here; I wanna be intimidated by strong women too!!!
 livewirehere

Joined: 8/10/2004
Msg: 157
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Posted: 12/28/2005 9:54:42 PM
I did the whole "soccer mom" thing for almost 16 years and the job I have requires that I dress very conservatively and professionally. I recently moved away from the small town where I raised my kids, and I think maybe 1 or 2 people there knew the "other" side of me. Otherwise, I guess there's a time to be serious and a time to have fun, and I don't get them mixed up too often~~~
 tenbears17292

Joined: 6/25/2005
Msg: 158
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Posted: 12/29/2005 9:49:03 AM
hummmmmmmm thinking about coastergirl's voluptuous breast now where was I, I bet that top look just delicious on you girl
 Katherine001

Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 159
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Posted: 12/29/2005 9:51:17 AM

Hey; what about me? I'm feeling left out here; I wanna be intimidated by strong women too!!!


are you one of those guys who keeps writing me and wants to be my slave
 tyger81382

Joined: 12/23/2005
Msg: 160
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Posted: 12/29/2005 9:51:43 AM
I'm turned on by stronger women as long as they aren't huge and lumpy looking. You know when they look like men that's a definite turn off. I'd like to find a feminine looking stronger woman. Would be twice as fun to play wrestle or play box with!!!! Also a lot of fun to work out with!!!!!
 SweetieGuy_81

Joined: 12/25/2005
Msg: 161
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Posted: 12/29/2005 10:27:12 AM
i admire a woman with a strong character.....a woman that knows what she wants and sticks to it no matter what.

A woman that just asks what i want to do, even if i ask her what she wants to do.....that bugs me like crazy.
 jazzhomie

Joined: 10/28/2005
Msg: 162
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Posted: 12/29/2005 2:02:41 PM

People often assume that I'm married........ and that I have kids.


Style wise, you look like you've been out of circulation for about 16-17 years.

That's where that comes from.

Not from being conservative or not "slutty" enough or whatever.
 Joani

Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 163
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Posted: 4/9/2006 9:35:14 AM
I think men like an independant woman, takes some of the pressure off.
I like being independant..
 curious98

Joined: 6/16/2005
Msg: 164
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Posted: 4/9/2006 1:32:55 PM
Because it might require a little more effort on their part?
 arri

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 165
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Posted: 4/9/2006 1:41:58 PM

Style wise, you look like you've been out of circulation for about 16-17 years.


This is truly a problem. Women dress, look and act like they are out of circulation and then mistake the men's hesitant reaction as being intimidated because she thinks she is strong. Whatever, strong means.
 harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005
Msg: 166
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Posted: 4/9/2006 1:52:06 PM
Men love strong women. Xena and Electra are proof that they are part of the male fantasy. But just like with men where there is a fine line between confidence and arrogence thier is the same line between strong woman and mean woman.

harvey
 YamIhere

Joined: 3/17/2005
Msg: 167
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Posted: 4/9/2006 3:57:33 PM
I'm seeing a common theme here ... men don't like "strong women" ... women don't like "nice guys"

So, strong women and nice guys, you are officially on notice - you're all screwed

off topic ... hey, wow, it's arri
 Lux_Interior

Joined: 12/18/2005
Msg: 168
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Posted: 4/9/2006 4:05:23 PM
Seems to me like...

Strong woman = pain in the a$$ big mouth

AND

Nice guy = sack-deficient doormat


I do notice that when people tell me they're either a strong woman or a nice guy, well... they're usually nothing of the kind.

I know real Strong Woman & Nice Guy types must exist, but I think they don't talk about themselves much or they hide (wisely), watching in horror as phonies or whiners anoint themselves with undeserved titles and severely sully said titles in the process.
 YamIhere

Joined: 3/17/2005
Msg: 169
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Posted: 4/9/2006 4:10:06 PM

Strong woman = pain in the a$$ big mouth

AND

Nice guy = sack-deficient doormat

See, lux, that's why I love ya as one of my favorite posters. You'll always go that step beyond what I'm saying and enunciate what I was leaving to impression

Seriously, though, well said. I couldn't agree more.
 harveywallbanger

Joined: 12/25/2005
Msg: 170
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Posted: 4/9/2006 4:24:19 PM
I need me a strong take charge woman. One that will throw me down and molest me.

harvey
 ][KAOS][

Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 171
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Posted: 4/9/2006 4:42:50 PM
It's really not rocket science... SOME men don't like "strong women" - (IE) those who won't take shit and say whats on their mind... because they like to control the situation.. whether it be money, sex life, or just life in general. My brother's one of them... he would never have married a strong woman... he needs to be the boss on all fronts. Therefore he married sumone much beneath him financially and emotionally wise... works for them. Wouldn't work for me, I wouldn't ever look for someone that can control me or me them.
 damndave

Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 172
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Posted: 4/9/2006 4:58:35 PM
Strong women dont scare me at all they attract me but most of the women that really are strong get what they want in a man and out of that man. Most who dont and spend a lot of time and effort, are brutely strong and seem to be dumb as hell.
before you get too mad put the shoe on the other foot.
signed
THAT DAMN DAVE
 AREALANGEL

Joined: 2/5/2006
Msg: 173
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Posted: 4/9/2006 5:03:21 PM
Because if your THAT independent..you dont' need a guy around to be complete...
 damndave

Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 174
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Posted: 4/9/2006 5:09:30 PM
BINGO CONTROL!!! most people man or women who are in control of thier fate don't have the need to control and won't be controlled
 curious98

Joined: 6/16/2005
Msg: 175
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Posted: 4/10/2006 7:42:40 AM
"Men love strong women. Xena and Electra are proof that they are part of the male fantasy. But just like with men where there is a fine line between confidence and arrogence thier is the same line between strong woman and mean woman."


*That is what strong women should remain to men - a fantasy?


"This is truly a problem. Women dress, look and act like they are out of circulation and then mistake the men's hesitant reaction as being intimidated because she thinks she is strong. Whatever, strong means."

*Women dress, look & act like they are out of circulation? So, we are all supposed to dress "girly" in heals and such so men know we are available? Baloney!
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