arri
| Joined: 10/5/2005 Msg: 151 | |
| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 12/22/2005 10:31:01 AM | If everyone thinks you are married, maybe you should dress slutty show a little cleavage .. you know  | |
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| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 12/22/2005 10:35:34 AM | LOL.. I dress conservatively for work..... It would be hard to discuss mortgages if someone is staring at my voluptuous breasts!!!
One day.. I actually wore a top to work.. that um... whelp.... lets just say.... when I was talking to women "they" were looking at my breasts!!!! I've never worn that top again!
Um..... I'm the sweet innocent type.. that um..... the slut comes out behind closed doors!!!!  | |
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arri
| Joined: 10/5/2005 Msg: 153 | |
| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 12/22/2005 10:43:31 AM | Fair enough. however voluptuous breasts might improve your closing ratio.
In any event, you are on the Ova Ova list | |
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| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 12/22/2005 1:09:39 PM | | There is absolutely nothing wrong with being consertive in public. Women ask me all the time why I wear loose fitting pants and not nice tight fitting ones, well in my line of work I wouldn't be able to breath for one thing and the other is that I am comfortable with the loose fit jeans and whats underneath is reserved for behind closed doors. | |
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| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 12/28/2005 4:18:57 PM | I have some guys tell me they are intimidated by me. Why? I wish I knew. Basically I think because I'm independent, and upfront, okay and tapped. It intrigues ppl, yet intimidates them somehow. I just find it strange how I can intimidate a guy that towers over me... | |
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| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 12/28/2005 9:22:31 PM | | Hey; what about me? I'm feeling left out here; I wanna be intimidated by strong women too!!! | |
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| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 12/28/2005 9:54:42 PM | I did the whole "soccer mom" thing for almost 16 years and the job I have requires that I dress very conservatively and professionally. I recently moved away from the small town where I raised my kids, and I think maybe 1 or 2 people there knew the "other" side of me. Otherwise, I guess there's a time to be serious and a time to have fun, and I don't get them mixed up too often~~~  | |
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| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 12/29/2005 9:49:03 AM | hummmmmmmm thinking about coastergirl's voluptuous breast now where was I, I bet that top look just delicious on you girl  | |
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| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 12/29/2005 9:51:17 AM |
Hey; what about me? I'm feeling left out here; I wanna be intimidated by strong women too!!!
are you one of those guys who keeps writing me and wants to be my slave | |
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| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 12/29/2005 9:51:43 AM | | I'm turned on by stronger women as long as they aren't huge and lumpy looking. You know when they look like men that's a definite turn off. I'd like to find a feminine looking stronger woman. Would be twice as fun to play wrestle or play box with!!!! Also a lot of fun to work out with!!!!! | |
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| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 12/29/2005 10:27:12 AM | i admire a woman with a strong character.....a woman that knows what she wants and sticks to it no matter what.
A woman that just asks what i want to do, even if i ask her what she wants to do.....that bugs me like crazy. | |
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| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 12/29/2005 2:02:41 PM |
People often assume that I'm married........ and that I have kids.
Style wise, you look like you've been out of circulation for about 16-17 years.
That's where that comes from.
Not from being conservative or not "slutty" enough or whatever. | |
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Joani
| Joined: 10/10/2005 Msg: 163 | |
| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 4/9/2006 9:35:14 AM | I think men like an independant woman, takes some of the pressure off. I like being independant.. | |
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arri
| Joined: 10/5/2005 Msg: 165 | |
| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 4/9/2006 1:41:58 PM |
Style wise, you look like you've been out of circulation for about 16-17 years.
This is truly a problem. Women dress, look and act like they are out of circulation and then mistake the men's hesitant reaction as being intimidated because she thinks she is strong. Whatever, strong means. | |
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| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 4/9/2006 1:52:06 PM | Men love strong women. Xena and Electra are proof that they are part of the male fantasy. But just like with men where there is a fine line between confidence and arrogence thier is the same line between strong woman and mean woman.
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| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 4/9/2006 3:57:33 PM | I'm seeing a common theme here ... men don't like "strong women" ... women don't like "nice guys"
So, strong women and nice guys, you are officially on notice - you're all screwed
off topic ... hey, wow, it's arri | |
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| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 4/9/2006 4:05:23 PM | Seems to me like...
Strong woman = pain in the a$$ big mouth
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Nice guy = sack-deficient doormat
I do notice that when people tell me they're either a strong woman or a nice guy, well... they're usually nothing of the kind.
I know real Strong Woman & Nice Guy types must exist, but I think they don't talk about themselves much or they hide (wisely), watching in horror as phonies or whiners anoint themselves with undeserved titles and severely sully said titles in the process. | |
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| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 4/9/2006 4:10:06 PM |
Strong woman = pain in the a$$ big mouth
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Nice guy = sack-deficient doormat See, lux, that's why I love ya as one of my favorite posters. You'll always go that step beyond what I'm saying and enunciate what I was leaving to impression
Seriously, though, well said. I couldn't agree more. | |
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| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 4/9/2006 4:42:50 PM | | It's really not rocket science... SOME men don't like "strong women" - (IE) those who won't take shit and say whats on their mind... because they like to control the situation.. whether it be money, sex life, or just life in general. My brother's one of them... he would never have married a strong woman... he needs to be the boss on all fronts. Therefore he married sumone much beneath him financially and emotionally wise... works for them. Wouldn't work for me, I wouldn't ever look for someone that can control me or me them. | |
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| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 4/9/2006 4:58:35 PM | Strong women dont scare me at all they attract me but most of the women that really are strong get what they want in a man and out of that man. Most who dont and spend a lot of time and effort, are brutely strong and seem to be dumb as hell. before you get too mad put the shoe on the other foot. signed THAT DAMN DAVE | |
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| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 4/9/2006 5:09:30 PM | | BINGO CONTROL!!! most people man or women who are in control of thier fate don't have the need to control and won't be controlled | |
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| Intimidation and Strong Women Posted: 4/10/2006 7:42:40 AM | "Men love strong women. Xena and Electra are proof that they are part of the male fantasy. But just like with men where there is a fine line between confidence and arrogence thier is the same line between strong woman and mean woman."
*That is what strong women should remain to men - a fantasy?
"This is truly a problem. Women dress, look and act like they are out of circulation and then mistake the men's hesitant reaction as being intimidated because she thinks she is strong. Whatever, strong means."
*Women dress, look & act like they are out of circulation? So, we are all supposed to dress "girly" in heals and such so men know we are available? Baloney! | |
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